【正文】 half the sky. A wise writer has said that half the man is a woman. In fact, women are just like the deephidden treasure which has not been explored pletely. It is not deniable that with the economic globalization, knowledge economy and China’s entry into the WTO, women have stepped into a bigger arena. Women have a better sense of interpersonal relationship, family and business success. They have the desire to be admitted by the society. But all these good wishes are not easy to acplish. This paper gives some suggestions to women hoping to get success in career, family and interpersonal relationship through the analysis of the main characters Scarlet and Melanie in the famous masterpiece Gone with the Wind. In terms of success in career, women can learn from Scarlet and cultivate the ability of innovation, selfconfidence and selftrust. As for success in family life, women can learn Melanie’s trust, respect and love. To succeed in interpersonal relationship, women can follow Scarlet to use beauty properly to attract others, and follow Melanie to use her internal beauty to win others’ respect and trust.Key Wordsideal woman。 career。 interpersonal relationship. 摘　要有個(gè)偉人說(shuō)婦女能頂半邊天，有個(gè)聰明的作家說(shuō)男人的一半是女人。不可否認(rèn)，伴隨經(jīng)濟(jì)全球化，知識(shí)經(jīng)濟(jì)，我國(guó)入世等諸多因素的影響，女性的人生舞臺(tái)得到了極大拓展，其修養(yǎng)意識(shí)、交際意識(shí)、家庭意識(shí)、成功意識(shí)等迅速?gòu)?qiáng)化。本文通過(guò)對(duì)《飄》中兩個(gè)典型女性人物的分析，提出現(xiàn)代女性可從中學(xué)習(xí)和借鑒的地方，主要是在事業(yè)方面可學(xué)習(xí)斯佳麗的創(chuàng)新意識(shí)與能力以及自信；在家庭生活方面可學(xué)習(xí)梅拉妮對(duì)丈夫的信任、尊重以及擁有一顆無(wú)限的愛(ài)心；在人際交往方面可學(xué)習(xí)斯佳麗充分利用美麗的外表優(yōu)勢(shì)和梅拉妮擁有的微笑、誠(chéng)實(shí)以及友好態(tài)度等內(nèi)在的修養(yǎng)。 women can also do it and even do it better than men. Scarlet could run the mill which was considered as men’s work. Women in today’ society can also do such kind of work which is traditionally regarded as only men’s work.To be innovative, women should collect the current information about what is a promising job. Knowledge is necessary. Nowadays the society is one with information. Women should read magazines, newspapers or spend enough time in searching information through Inter. It will be easier for you to succeed if you gain information before others. So innovation is the key for women’ success.2. Confidence and SelftrustBesides innovation, women should also have confidence and selftrust.“Selftrust is the first secret of success”, said Emerson. It is known that one’s life couldn’t go smoothly without difficulty. Difficulties or frustration are the obstacles on the road to success. Now that we can not avoid these terrible factors, why not be confident to overe them. Scarlet always said “tomorrow is another day”. Why can not the women say that “Today I meet and fight against the difficulties, tomorrow I will meet the success?” There is a saying that confidence is half the success. Be confident means that you should also be optimistic. Confident and optimistic peoplecan bravely face the terrible difficulties. When you have thought out a dream or plan you should have the confidence to realize it. Don’t just think every day. Women may dream that one day they will be a rich, elegant lady with fashionable dresses and expensive jewelries. But they seldom put their heart into making them e true. Because they do not believe themselves. Why can Scarlet do everything she dreams of? Because she is a confident woman. Charles Chaplin said “you have to believe in yourself. That is the secret of success”. Nothing in the world is too difficultif you put your heart into it.Ⅲ. Suggestions on How to Achieve Success in Family for a WomanA. Features and Advantages of Melanie in Gone with the WindMelanie was an impressive character in Gone with the Wind. She was a kind, soft, lovely woman who was devoted to her husband and family. Melanie was not a beautiful woman, but she was very brave even though she was thin as a rail and delicate enough to be blown away by the wind. But even without a charming appearance she won her husband’s heart. Melanie considered her husband and child as all she had. She was not suitable to give birth to a child and the process of giving birth to the first child was an 英語(yǔ)畢業(yè)論文 iiiunfettable terrible experience in her life. It was a mother’s nature that made her so bravely to endure the hardness. After giving birth to the first child the doctor told Melanie that she would better not be pregnant again or she might be in danger. Regardless of the advice and her feeble health, she was still so excited and willing to have another baby for her husband. But she finally died of miscarriage.Melanie was a good wife who knew how to build a harmonious family. Even when Melanie knew that Scarlet loved her husband she still did not take some measures to stop her husband from getting along with Scarlet. Because she trusted her husband. When people gossiped that her husband had relationship with Scarlet, she was not angry as other women did. At a party during which all the people gathered together intending to see the fight between the two women, Scarlet and her husband were saved by Melanie’s kindness , love and outspoken trust which had been in hervoice as she crossed and face the curious, malicious covertly hostile crowd. How neatly Melanie had scotched the scandal, keeping Scarlet at her side all through the dreadful evening! People were somewhat bewildered, but they were polite.B. What to Learn from MelanieNowadays, family life is still important for women. But even women years ago already spent most of their time on the family, there were still endless problems encountering them. So how can people have a harmonious and happy family? Maybe you can learn something from Melanie, the other heroin in Gone with the Wind.1. TrustThe best advantage we can learn from Melanie is: trust your spouse. Women in today’ society suffer from divorce more frequently. The divorce rate is higher and higher than ever before. One factor accounts for the high divorce rate is distrust between the wives and husbands.