【正文】 she has one.amp。not yet, but she might marry the next one. besides, the best time to work on alexamp。
　　and then my supervisor said, amp。s going to marry the guy.amp。s not like sheamp。s sleeping with a knucklehead, but itamp。s dating down, sheamp。sure, sheamp。 alex would say, and as far as i could tell, she was right. work happened later, marriage happened later, kids happened later, even death happened later. twentysomethings like alex and i had nothing but time.
　　but before long, my supervisor pushed me to push alex about her love life. i pushed back.
　　i said, amp。s the new 20,amp。thirtyamp。t handle it. with the funny stories that alex would bring to session, it was easy for me just to nod my head while we kicked the can down the road. amp。TED英語(yǔ)演講稿：二十幾歲不可揮霍的光陰（附翻譯）　　when i was in my 20s, i saw my very first psychotherapy client. i was a . student in clinical psychology at berkeley. she was a 26yearold woman named alex. now alex walked into her first session wearing jeans and a big slouchy top, and she dropped onto the couch in my office and kicked off her flats and told me she was there to talk about guy problems. now when i heard this, i was so relieved. my classmate got an arsonist for her first client. (laughter) and i got a twentysomething who wanted to talk about boys. this i thought i could handle.
　　but i didnamp。此資料由網(wǎng)絡(luò)收集而來(lái)，如有侵權(quán)請(qǐng)告知上傳者立即刪除。資料共分享，我們負(fù)責(zé)傳遞知識(shí)。39。quot。39。quot。quot。39。39。39。39。quot。quot。39。quot。39。quot。quot。39。39。39。39。39。39。39。39。39。 okay. awesome, twentysomethings really matter.
　　so i specialize in twentysomethings because i believe that every single one of those 50 million twentysomethings deserves to know what psychologists, sociologists, neurologists and fertility specialists already know: that claiming your 20s is one of the simplest, yet most transformative, things you can do for work, for love, for your happiness, maybe even for the world.
　　this is not my opinion. these are the facts. we know that 80 percent of lifeamp。s most defining moments take place by age 35. that means that eight out of 10 of the decisions and experiences and amp。aha!amp。 moments that make your life what it is will have happened by your mid30s. people who are over 40, donamp。t panic. this crowd is going to be fine, i think. we know that the first 10 years of a career has an exponential impact on how much money youamp。re going to earn. we know that more than half of americans are married or are living with or dating their future partner by 30. we know that the brain caps off its second and last growth spurt in your 20s as it rewires itself for adulthood, which means that whatever it is you want to change about yourself, now is the time to change it. we know that personality changes more during your 20s than at any other time in life, and we know that female fertility peaks at age 28, and things get tricky after age 35. so your 20s are the time to educate yourself about your body and your options.
　　so when we think about child development, we all know that the first five years are a critical period for language and attachment in the brain. itamp。s a time when your ordinary, daytoday life has an inordinate impact on who you will bee. but what we hear less about is that thereamp。s such a thing as adult development, and our 20s are that critical period of adult development.
　　but this isnamp。