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s also not just about saving who is suffering from shame and public humiliation needs to know one thing: You can survive know it39。time to stop living a life of opprobrium。ve been asked the most is now? Why was I sticking my head above the parapet? You can read between the lines in those questions, and the answer has nothing to do with top note answer was and is because it39。s 39。s Project talk a lot about our right to freedom of expression, but we need to talk more about our responsibility to freedom of all want to be heard, but let39。s consistency over time, change can the online world, we can foster minority influence by being bee an upstander means instead of bystander apathy, we can post a positive ment for someone or report a bullying me, passionate ments help abate the can also counteract the culture by supporting organizations that deal with these kinds of issues, like the Tyler Clementi Foundation in the , In the , there39。t survive empathy.” Shame cannot survive 39。ve got a passion deficit, an empathy Bren233。s time for an intervention on the Internet and in our shift begins with something simple, but it39。ve seen that to be true with racism, homophobia, and plenty of other biases, today and in the we39。s every click, we make a more we saturate our culture with public shaming, the more accepted it is, the more we will see behavior like cyberbullying, trolling, some forms of hacking, and online ? Because they all have humiliation at their behavior is a symptom of the culture we39。s led to desensitization and a permissive environment online which lends itself to trolling, invasion of privacy, and shift has created what Professor Nicolaus Mills calls a culture of a few prominent examples just from the past six months , the service which is used mainly by younger generationsand claims that its messages only have the lifespan of a few can imagine the range of content that that thirdparty app which Snapchatters use to preserve the lifespan of the messages was hacked, and 100,000 personal conversations, photos, and videos were leaked online to now have a lifespan of Lawrence and several other actors had their iCloud accounts hacked, and private, intimate, nude photos were plastered across the Internet without their gossip website had over five million hits for this one what about the Sony Pictures cyberhacking? The documents which received the most attention were private s that had maximum public embarrassment in this culture of humiliation, there is another kind of price tag attached to public price does not measure the cost to the victim, which Tyler and too many others, notably women, minorities,and members of the LGBTQ munity have paid, but the price measures the profit of those who prey on invasion of others is a raw material, efficiently and ruthlessly mined, packaged and sold at a marketplace has emerged where public humiliation is a modity and shame is an is the money made? more shame, the more more clicks, the more advertising 39。s the online munity of people, often anonymously, can stab you with their words, and that39。s focused on helping young people on various issues,released a staggering statistic late last year: From XX to XX, there was an 87 percent increase in calls and s related to metaanalysis done out of the Netherlands showed that for the first time, cyberbullying was leading to suicidal ideations more significantly than offline you know what shocked me, although it shouldn39。t, and there39。s tragic, senseless death was a turning point for served to recontextualize my experiences, and I then began to look at the world of humiliation and bullying around me and see something 1998, we had no way of knowing where this brave new technology called the Internet would take then, it has connected people in unimaginable ways, joining lost siblings, saving lives, launching revolutions, but the darkness, cyberbullying, and slutshaming that I experienced had day online, people, especially young people who are not developmentally equipped to handle this, are so abused and humiliated that they can39。t had the chance to step in and rescue their loved many have learned of their child39。s for both public and private consequences for some have bee dire, very was on the phone with my mom in September of XX, and we were talking about the news of a young college freshman from Rutgers University named Tyler , sensitive, creative Tyler was secretly webcammed by his roommate while being intimate with another the online world learned of this incident, the ridicule and cyberbullying few days later, Tyler jumped from the George Washington Bridge to his was mom was beside herself about what happened to Tyler and his family, and she was gutted with painin a way that I just couldn39。t even few days later, the Starr Report is released to Congress, and all of those tapes and trans, those stolen words, form a part of people can read the trans is horrific enough, but a few weeks later, the audio tapes are aired on TV, and significant portions made available public humiliation was was almost was not something that happened with regularity back then in 1998, and by this, I mean the stealing of people39。listen to my sometimes catty, sometimes churlish, sometimes silly self being cruel, unforgiving, uncouth。ve been legally required to personally authenticate all 20 hours of taped the past eight months, the mysterious content of these tapes has hung like the Sword of Damocles over my mean, who can remember what they said a year ago? Scared and mortified, I listen, listen as I prattle on about the flotsam and jetsam of the day。m listening to the sound of my voice, my voice on surreptitiously taped phone calls that a supposed friend had made the year 39。t my , this scandal was brought to you by the digital meant we could access all the information we wanted, when we wanted it, anytime, anywhere, and when the story broke in January 1998, it broke was the first time the traditional news was usurpe