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你一生中跟你在一起最多的人是你自己,如果你不喜歡你自己,那你就會(huì)總是跟你不喜歡的人在一起?!薄S幸粋€(gè)老笑話,不是很好笑,它是這么說的:”。衡量成功的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)是你自己對(duì)你的所為怎么看。t like。re always with somebody you donamp。t like yourself youamp。re with most in life is yourself and if you donamp。s true. the person who youamp。 thatamp。no matter where you go, there you are。39。39。39。 10. marc s. lewis 馬克。?對(duì)學(xué)習(xí)的渴望是不受年齡限制的。瑞汀所唱的那樣,”。如何獲得自信?培養(yǎng)你特有的自信的秘訣是什么?首先,你必須下決心每天都通過你的工作和家庭生活去獲得智力、道德、技術(shù)與專業(yè)上的提高。他既是一位偉大的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)者,也是一位偉大的導(dǎo)師,過去是,現(xiàn)在也是。 我在通用公司為一個(gè)名叫杰克。sitting on the dock of the bay... watching the tide roll away?”。 9. david l. calhoun 大衛(wèi)。這是一種最高形式的快樂。已然消失,跟任務(wù)合二為一,給人以更高水平的愉悅體驗(yàn),而不僅僅是成功地完成了任務(wù)。那是一種跟巖石、網(wǎng)球或音樂融為一體的感覺,”。在心理學(xué)家的描述中,高技能的攀巖者、網(wǎng)球運(yùn)動(dòng)員、鋼琴家已經(jīng)超越了專注,達(dá)到了他們所稱的經(jīng)驗(yàn)之”。專注”。我所警告的是分心與干擾,無論是你主動(dòng)招惹的,還是讓它發(fā)生的。一旦分心了,引導(dǎo)你的注意力重新回到你做的事情上。全力關(guān)注你每一次的經(jīng)歷。ve had these experiences, too little but not too late, and probably you have, too. they are a supreme kind of pleasure. you will have more of them if you do one thing at a time。s a kind of oneness with the task that brings a joyful higher awareness, as well as successful performance. iamp。 disappears and thereamp。 experience, a sense of absorption with the rock or the ball or the music in which the “。 they talk about, and they prize it as much as strength. psychologists describe skilled rock climbers and tennis players and pianists as going beyond focus, to what they have called a “。s “。m not warning against learning many things on many subjects. my warning is against distraction, whether you invite it or just let it happen. in baseball, highpercentage hitters know better: itamp。re amp。沃爾什author and art historian 作家和藝術(shù)歷史學(xué)家wheaton college 惠頓學(xué)院XX XX年do one thing at a time. give each experience all your attention. try to resist being distracted by other sights and sounds, other thoughts and tasks, and when it is, guide your mind back to what youamp。你能做到的。做一只大黃蜂。不知道你不會(huì)飛,你會(huì)像鷹一樣高高飛翔。大黃蜂最堅(jiān)韌的生靈,它們不知道自己不能飛,因此它們只管到處嗡嗡地飛個(gè)不停。 無論怎么考量,大黃蜂從空氣動(dòng)力學(xué)上講是不健全、不應(yīng)該會(huì)飛的。39。39。39。39。39。39。 7. earl bakken 厄爾。對(duì)于其他所有人來說,你只是雷達(dá)熒光屏上的一個(gè)光點(diǎn)。問你自己一個(gè)問題:如果我不是必須做得完美