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ared by great leaders whose talents may have varied widely in most other , how do you get it? what is the secret to developing your own brand of selfconfidence?first, you must resolve to grow intellectually, morally, technically, and professionally every day through your entire work and family life. you need to ask yourself every day: am i really up to speed or falling behind? am i still learning? or am i just doing the same stuff on a different day or as otis redding sings, “。sitting on the dock of the bay... watching the tide roll away?”。the lust for learning is important way to build your confidence is to seek out the toughest jobs, the most daunting scientific, engineering or management challenges。 我在通用公司為一個名叫杰克。韋爾奇的家伙工作了20年。他既是一位偉大的領導者,也是一位偉大的導師,過去是,現(xiàn)在也是。如果我必須找出那些年里他充滿激情地對我說的最主要的話,那就是:自信是最重要的,它是成功必不可少的,是所有在其他多數(shù)方面才能也許大相徑庭的偉大領導者的共同特征。如何獲得自信?培養(yǎng)你特有的自信的秘訣是什么?首先,你必須下決心每天都通過你的工作和家庭生活去獲得智力、道德、技術(shù)與專業(yè)上的提高。你需要每天問自己:我是在加速前進還是在后退?我還在學習嗎?我是在每天重復做同樣的事情或就像奧蒂斯。瑞汀所唱的那樣,”。坐在海灣的碼頭上,看潮起潮落”。?對學習的渴望是不受年齡限制的。培養(yǎng)自信的另一個重要途徑是尋找最難做的工作,最棘手的科學、工程或管理方面的難題。 10. marc s. lewis 馬克。劉易斯clinical psychology professor 臨床心理學教授university of texas at austin 得克薩斯大學奧斯汀分校may 19, XX XX年5月19日there are times when you are going to do well, and times when youamp。39。re going to fail. but neither the doing well, nor the failure is the measure of success. the measure of success is what you think about what youamp。39。ve done. let me put that another way: the way to be happy is to like yourself and the way to like yourself is to do only things that make you amp。39。s that old joke, not very funny, that goes, “。no matter where you go, there you are。”。 thatamp。39。s true. the person who youamp。39。re with most in life is yourself and if you donamp。39。t like yourself youamp。39。re always with somebody you donamp。39。t like。 有時候你會干得很漂亮,有時候你會失敗,但二者都不是衡量成功的標準。衡量成功的標準是你自己對你的所為怎么看。讓我換一句話說:讓自己幸福的辦法是喜歡你自己,喜歡自己的辦法是只做讓你自己感到驕傲的事情。有一個老笑話,不是很好笑,它是這么說的:”。無論你走到哪里,你都在那里?!薄_@是真的。你一生中跟你在一起最多的人是你自己,如果你不喜歡你自己,那你就會總是跟你不喜歡的人在一起。