【正文】 an see many capable women devising and calculating with all their used to be very beautiful, and are now still charming, but they are middleaged after long can they still preserve their diminishing youth?What are those women after? Money? But will they be happy if they have to count the money with their skinny shriveled hands after they have successfully bee wealthy old ladies?Maybe they are seeking for spacious houses and these are just tools to serve us, just like a motorcycle is for us to ride on, not for us to carry on our it still worth the price if their pursuit has bee a burden or a pressure that calls for the sacrifice of their youth?Or maybe they need the money for their children to study studying abroad is not the ambition of we always say that children have their own luck, we shouldn39。t choose the same way for them to grow business or going in for politics, working at civilian posts or as military officials are different choices for different even want to bee chess players and it is such a wonderful career that after being successful, they can make playing chess a rewarding profession..Why should we try our best to send our children abroad where there are so many uncertainties? What39。s the point of the sacrifice of our precious youth to send our children to somewhere that may be heaven, or hell?We should be moderate at seeking wealth, for there is no limit for billionaire eats no more than three meals a day and sleeps in one bed at night while a family living on a meager salary can be very happy and may feel sometimes that the luxurious Beijing Roast Duck is no more delicious than the simple pancakes with when they keep a peaceful heart can they face both favors and humiliations with do the middleaged women need in order to maintain their youth and doomed decrepitude? Fine qualities and good manners, confidence and 39。t do too much extra work, don39。t tire yourselves out, and never try anything beyond your capacity and 39。s more, they need security and matter how strong a man is, he needs support。no matter how independent a woman is, she needs flowery girls may care about nothing but amusement, and they may not consider even the reliability and capability of a women, however, are much more practical, and they have to face the loyalty and creativity of a they are seeking is the most loyal, the most responsible, the most powerful, the most reliable and the most trustworthy love which is nearly eternal and kind of strike may wear away their youth which is once gone never to women must keep a clear head instead of doing things out of should be able to judge who is sincere and who is they choose the hypocritical instead of the sincere out of carelessness, tragedy will definitely fall on fact, one whim may decide whether they will live in heaven or stay in women have one weak point—they are easily enchanted by men39。s 39。re numerous sweettongued men, but loyal ones are hard to may use sweet words to flatter you or they may be softspoken and submissive, but that is when they are weak and in need of soon as the situation is different, they may change always think the weak is the reliable, but this is weak may be pitiable, but not always doesn39。t mean being weak or strong, but depends on whether one can master someone, when absent from home, does what he dares not do at home, then how can he be regarded as a trustworthy man?The middleaged women, with the exception of those who work at special posts, needn39。t fight too , they should encourage men to temper themselves in this with ease, working with ease, living with ease and facing everything with ease are what middleaged women should try to is the symbol of everlasting youth and also the glamour of all middleaged all kindhearted women enjoy an easy life and everlasting youth!Translated by Zhang BaodanJune 20, 2004