【文章內(nèi)容簡(jiǎn)介】 沉默寡言,不愿開(kāi)口,除非我們會(huì)說(shuō)出話來(lái)語(yǔ)驚四座,像格言一樣具有光彩,流傳千古.”就是因?yàn)檫@思想上的一致,才在婚姻中百般受到阻礙,，伊麗莎白聰敏機(jī)智，有膽識(shí)，有遠(yuǎn)見(jiàn)，有很強(qiáng)的自尊心，并善于思考問(wèn)題。就當(dāng)時(shí)一個(gè)待嫁閨中的小姐來(lái)講，這是難能可貴的。而我第一次被伊麗莎白的個(gè)性打動(dòng)，就是在她拒絕達(dá)西先生告白時(shí)。雖然有誤會(huì)造成的偏見(jiàn)，但她理直氣壯地指責(zé)初見(jiàn)不歡的告白對(duì)象的樣子著實(shí)可愛(ài)。讓人不禁感嘆，她哪來(lái)的這么大的勇氣和自信？怎么會(huì)這么堅(jiān)定的不為所動(dòng)？對(duì)達(dá)西先生的誤解是一方面，另一方面，小說(shuō)在最后給出了解答。當(dāng)本內(nèi)特先生聽(tīng)聞自己最心愛(ài)的女兒心有所屬時(shí)，對(duì)伊麗莎白的那句“我擔(dān)心世上沒(méi)有人能配得上你”。由此看來(lái)，伊麗莎白的自信應(yīng)該是來(lái)源于父親的教育。這種自信讓她在任何事物面前都不失去自我，哪怕是教條，哪怕是別人的目光，哪怕是金錢和地位，哪怕是愛(ài)情。愛(ài)情中的人應(yīng)該坦誠(chéng)相待。當(dāng)達(dá)西向伊麗莎白求婚而遭到拒絕時(shí)，他說(shuō)了一句話：“要是我耍一點(diǎn)手段，把我內(nèi)心的矛盾掩飾起來(lái)，一味地恭維你，使你相信我無(wú)論在理智方面、思想方面以及其他各方面，都是對(duì)你懷著無(wú)條件的純潔的愛(ài)，那么也許你就不會(huì)有這些苛刻的責(zé)罵了?？上o(wú)論是什么樣的偽裝，我都痛恨?！边_(dá)西沒(méi)有為了討好伊麗莎白，而改變他的傲慢性情。伊麗莎白也表現(xiàn)了很真實(shí)的自己，彼此都不刻意去營(yíng)造給人的印象，表現(xiàn)出了最真實(shí)的一面。而開(kāi)始的時(shí)候，伊麗莎白一直活在自己的偏見(jiàn)之下，而忽略思考事實(shí)的真相，經(jīng)過(guò)達(dá)西的解釋和自己的判斷，才最終找到幸福的歸宿?！栋谅c偏見(jiàn)》，是我們很常見(jiàn)的弱點(diǎn)和毛病。每一個(gè)人其實(shí)都很容易被自己的主觀印象所驅(qū)使，因而容易對(duì)別的人下不正確的注解，進(jìn)而造成了彼此之間的誤會(huì)。一個(gè)人所給予的第一印象固然可以影響到很多事，但并非一定不會(huì)改變，要有更加深入的了解，才能有更客觀一點(diǎn)的論點(diǎn)，就好像故事中女主角對(duì)達(dá)西的看法，不斷反思與成長(zhǎng)，伊麗莎白與達(dá)西的結(jié)合告訴我們，獲得人類一切美好感情的前提是消除傲慢與偏見(jiàn)以及更多的負(fù)面人生觀。當(dāng)然還有更多作者欲說(shuō)還休的情懷需要隨著時(shí)間的流逝而去參悟第四篇：《傲慢與偏見(jiàn)》英文讀后感After reading:Pride and Prejudice英本102班 201003401207 龐蓮娜About the story: Jane Austen is this novel’s writer who is a famous writer in the world,and she is famoused with her a series of had five daughters,and marrying all her daughters was her biggest a genteel ball, , a friendly young man,also the host,fell in love with Jane at first was 39。s first daughter who was simple,pure and never speaks evil of ,who was Bingley 39。s good friend ,a very proud man who seemed to always feel superior, was fond of Jane’s sister, his arrogance behavior and the smear from Wickham led Elizabeth to misunderstand and was biassed against couldn39。t restrain himself from loving Elizabeth ,so he proposed to his attitude was still so arrogant ,Elizabeth declined hit made Darcy noticed the consequence from proud and conceited for the first a long letter to explain the things around him and Elizabeth, he left her felt regret after reading only feel guilty for misunderstanding of Darcy , but also ashamed for the behavior of her gradually changed her views of Darcy met her in his own manor again, his sincere attitude and dignified behavior made her considerably ,they walked out of the frog which was pride and could be called a happy are seven different marriages presented in the the Gardiner and the Lucas, the remaining five marriages contrasts each other to reveal Jane’s opinions and thoughts on the subject of marriage between Darcy and Elizabeth reveals the characteristics which constitutes a successful of these characteristics is that the feeling cannot be brought on by appearances, and must gradually develop between the two people as they get to know one the beginning, Elizabeth and Darcy were distant from each other because of their series of events which they both experienced gave them the opportunity to understand one another and the time to reconcile their feelings for each , their mutual understanding is the foundation of their relationship and will lead them to a peaceful and lasting relationship between Elizabeth and Darcy reveals the importance of getting to know one’s partner before marriage between Jane Bennet and Bingley is also an example of successful Austen, through Elizabeth, expresses her opinion of this in the last example of a marriage is a of a different nature than the ones mentioned marriage between and Charlotte is based on economics rather than on love or was a mon practice during Austen’s ti