【文章內容簡介】 as we prepare to start our new life together in the White , Dad忙打造這樣一個世界的女性。我要每個孩子都有和你們一樣的機會，去學習、夢想、成長、發(fā)展。這就是我?guī)ьI我們一家展開這趟大冒險的原因。我深以你倆為榮，你們永遠不會明白我有多愛你們，在我們準備一同在白宮開始新生活之際，我沒有一天不為你們的忍耐、沉穩(wěn)、明理和幽默而心存感激。愛你們的父親第三篇：奧巴馬告誡女兒的話(中英文) Doubting Yourself 停止懷疑自己If you don’t believe in yourself, nobody starts in your mind, and if all you’re doing is putting yourself down and predicting failure, it’ll bee a selffulfilling of doubting yourself, think only will you be happier and more successful, you’ll spread it to everyone around ，那沒人會相信你。成功源于你的頭腦，如果你所做的是不斷地看扁自己，預言著未來的失敗，這就真的會成為現(xiàn)實。與其懷疑自己，不如積極的考慮問題。不僅會讓自己更加開心和成功，你還能夠感染到周圍的人。 Being Negative 停止消極Now that you’re done doubting yourself, stop doubting don’t like when people are critical of you, so stop being critical of about how you make other people feel – even if you have good intentions, people don’t like hearing ，也別再懷疑身邊的人。你不希望被人對你挑剔，那么也不要再去挑剔身邊的人。想想你給別人帶來的什么樣的感受吧——即使出發(fā)點是好的，別人也不想聽到那么多消極的事情呀。 Procrastinating 停止拖延I don’t feel like procrastinating right now– I’ll do it you procrastinate, you remain you’re putting off doesn’t go away。resolve the problem, and move ’ll be much happier in the long ，還是留到明天吧。一旦開始拖延，其實你已經停滯不前了。你拖延的事情不會自行解決。解決問題，繼續(xù)前行吧。從長遠角度來說你會更加快樂。 Being Mean 不要那么刻薄It’s pletely possible to step on someone’s toes without meaning to – it happens all the ’s no need to pile on by purposefully doing mean things, so make a conscious effort to stop being someone wrongs you, let it ’s no need to seek vengeance unless that’s the type of person you want to ——常常會發(fā)生。但沒必要去處心積慮地做一些不好的事情，所以要有意識地讓自己不要那么刻薄。如果有人對你無理地對待，隨他們去好了。沒必要去報復，除非你也想成為那一類的人。 Eating Out 不要在外吃飯Eating out is the biggest waste of so often it’s nice to treat yourself, but eating out for every meal is the quickest way to drain your bank how to cook at least a handful of foods you enjoy: It’ll save you money, keep you healthier, and occasionally impress 。也許每次對于你而言都是一次犒賞，但每頓都在外面吃反而是花光積蓄的最快方式。至少也去學學怎么做一些自己喜歡的菜：既能省錢，還能讓你更健康，還會讓其他人眼前一亮。 Being Lazy 不要再偷懶Lazy people are annoying – it’s like pulling teeth getting them to do I can’t do something as simple as going to a movie with you without having to factor in an hour of convincing you to get your lazy butt out of bed, I’d rather go have enough trouble motivating themselves。don’t make your friends and family waste their valuable energy motivating you as ——得像趕驢磨墨一樣逼著他們做事情。如果我想跟你看一場電影，卻不得不花一個小時說服你起床，那我寧愿一個人去看。給自己動力都不是件容易的事情，就別讓朋友和家人浪費寶貴的精力再來給你動力了吧。 Complaining 停止抱怨We all have problems, and sometimes we need to vent to ’s acceptable, but pay attention to how often you’re all love helping our friends and family, but when all you get from someone is negativity, it’s easier to cut them off than help, especially if they’re always plaining about the same ，有時候總想跟別人傾訴。這可以理解，但要注意你吐槽的頻率。我們都喜歡幫助朋友和家人，但如果從那個人身上我只能感知到負能量，那么還是離得越遠越好吧，尤其是當他們在反復抱怨同一件事的時候。 Being Selfish 別再那么自私If you only think about yourself, you’ll soon find yourself by for a minute and think about how your actions affect other people – did you take the last cup of coffee from the break room? Refill it!Do you live with others? Don’t drink out the milk share this world 100% of the time, so every action you take can affect other ，那么很快你會發(fā)現(xiàn)身邊只剩下你自己。停一分鐘想想你的行為會給別人帶來什么影響吧——你是不是從休息室拿了最后一杯咖啡?再倒?jié)M呀!你是不是和別人合租?不要喝光所有的牛奶，這個世界是一個完全由大家分享的世界，你所做的每件事都會影響到別人。 Wast