【正文】 孩子，在你的成長中，我也許做不到最好，但經(jīng)歷了這次，我相信我能做得更好，你能嗎？ 親愛的寶貝，媽媽還希望你今后能做一個踏實(shí)的人，不要輕視平凡的人，不要投機(jī)取巧，不要苛求自己做不到的事。寬待自己，也寬待別人。土地不臟，汗味也不難聞。不要相信在戀愛上用手段的人。千萬不要認(rèn)同那些偽裝的酷和另類。 Stop, and Breathe… 停一下，深呼吸吧No matter what you’re doing in life or how your day is going, there’s always room to just stop for a moment and just it right now to celebrate getting through this list of everything you’re doing ，這一天過得怎么樣，你都需要好好停一下深呼吸。垃圾蟲最讓我厭惡，而且永遠(yuǎn)多的讓你數(shù)不清。每次做承諾都是不禁給自己增添了責(zé)任，無論你的出發(fā)點(diǎn)有多好，你都不可能完成所有的部分。沒必要去報(bào)復(fù)，除非你也想成為那一類的人。愛你們的父親第三篇：奧巴馬告誡女兒的話(中英文) Doubting Yourself 停止懷疑自己If you don’t believe in yourself, nobody starts in your mind, and if all you’re doing is putting yourself down and predicting failure, it’ll bee a selffulfilling of doubting yourself, think only will you be happier and more successful, you’ll spread it to everyone around ，那沒人會相信你。有時候?yàn)榱吮Ｗo(hù)我們的國家，我們不and other dangerous situations to protect our country — but when we do, I want to make sure that it is only for a very good reason, that we try our best to settle our differences with others peacefully, and that we do everything possible to keep our servicemen and women I want every child to understand that the blessings these brave Americans fight for are not free — that with the great privilege of being a citizen of this nation es great was the lesson your grandmother tried to teach me when I was your age, reading me the opening lines of the Declaration of Independence and telling me about the men and women who marched for equality because they believed those words put to paper two centuries ago should mean helped me understand that America is great not because it is perfect but because it can always be made better — and that the unfinished work of perfecting our union falls to each of 39。t count for much unless I was able to ensure that you had every opportunity for happiness and fulfillment in the end, girls, that39。這就是我?guī)ьI(lǐng)全家踏上這條偉大征程的原因。我希望，每個孩子都有機(jī)會接受大學(xué)教育，即使有些孩子能夠找到工作，能拿到滿意的報(bào)酬，能享受各項(xiàng)福利，能在工作之余有時間陪自己的子女，能在退休后仍能享有做人的尊嚴(yán)。爸爸年輕的時候，曾認(rèn)為生活的全部內(nèi)容只有我自己，以為生活的全部意義就是怎樣才能在世界的矚目下闖蕩出一條屬于自己的路，一條成功的路，一條能夠得到我想要的一切的路。那時的我和你們差不多大，當(dāng)他指著獨(dú)立宣言一字一句讀給我聽時，他告訴我，我們的戰(zhàn)士之所以勇敢地踏上追求平等的征程，正是因?yàn)樗麄兿嘈牛覀兊淖嫦仍?00年前寫在紙上的這些文字，一定有著深刻的內(nèi)涵。t always been easy for you and Mom, and that as excited 媽的日子，有時候并不愜意?？偠灾?，我的女兒，這就是我競選總統(tǒng)的原因：我要讓你們倆和這個國家的每一個孩子，都能擁有我想要給他們的東西。因?yàn)?，唯有在把你的馬you hitch your wagon to something larger than yourself that 車套在更大的東西上時，你才會明白自己you will realize your true are the things I want for you — to grow up in a world with no limits on your dreams and no achievements真正的潛能有多大。一旦開始拖延，其實(shí)你已經(jīng)停滯不前了。這可以理解，但要注意你吐槽的頻率。那么為什么要讓別人的想法阻止你呢? Being Wasteful 停止浪費(fèi)You don’t finish your meals, and away food leave the faucet running when you brush your teeth, pouring precious water down the drive places you could easily walk, burning gasoline(a nonrenewable resource)。就拿Kendrick Lamar這個夏天備受爭議的歌曲《Control》為例：他在歌詞中挑釁了一些他認(rèn)為比他弱的說唱歌手(的確是這樣)，一石激起千層浪，整個說唱界的歌手都蜂擁錄歌作為回?fù)?。不要流于小感傷和小感動。偶爾可以停下來休息，但是別蹲下來張望。不可以恨這個世界。有小心機(jī)的女生是可愛的，但別把這種心計(jì)用在勾心斗角上，那樣會很累。我要讓你懂得珍惜生活中的每一個人、每一件事。媽媽永遠(yuǎn)愛你。其實(shí)從你出生那天開始，你是每天在學(xué)習(xí)中逐漸長大，爸媽也是在你的成長歷程中得到了經(jīng)驗(yàn)。原諒，但并不遺忘。相信愛情，相信好男人在茫茫人海中終會尋覓到你。好好去愛，去生活。不要瑣碎，無病呻吟。 Taking Everything Personally 別把每件事太往心里去People get offended about the strangest Kendrick Lamar’s nowinfamous verse on ―Control‖ this summer: he called out a list of a dozen rappers he thinks he’s better than(and he’s right)。我的想法不會阻