【文章內(nèi)容簡介】 penly say “no” to their mothers. Third, they care too much for their daughters’ life. The Chinese parents hope that their offspring will have a happy life. Even if their child or children get married, they 黑龍江外國語學(xué)院 2020 屆畢業(yè)論文 5 will still pay much attention to their marital life, and want to make sure that their offspring have a happy life. For the Joy Luck Club mothers, their care and love can be reflected in the assistance they provide their daughters to solve their marriage problems. They never hesitate to help their daughters when their daughters have marriage problems. They try their best to pull their daughters out of troubles. Both Rose and Lena marry Americans. In front of their American husbands, they have a sense of inferiority. Rose does not make any decision on anything. Instead, she lets her husband decide because she believes her husband’s decision is always better. Gradually, she begins to lose charms to her husband who believes that she is shouldering off responsibility. He even proposes a divorce. Crisis also exists in Lena’s marriage. They fight to solve the problems, but they are too weak to work out a solution. At this critical moment, their mothers do not walk away from them but try their best to help their daughters. Anmei encourages Rose to speak up, “Why do you not speak up for yourself? Why can you not talk to your husband?” When Rose takes her mother’s advice and does speak up for herself, she not only astounds her arrogant husband, but also saves her marriage. Yingying shows her daughter what disastrous consequences would happen if she continues to ignore the imbalance between her and her husband. In this way, she reminds her daughter to take immediate actions to get rid of the imbalance in her marriage. From the assistance that their mothers provide them, the two daughters feel the deep love as well as the powerful strength of their Chinese mothers, although sometime they may feel annoyed. Rose finally realizes that her mother is more enthusiastic and helpful than an American psychiatrist in pulling her out of psychological troubles. The American psychiatrist only makes her feel “hulihutu”. As for Lena, she finds out that her mother loves her better even than her American husband because her mother still clearly remembers that she never eats icecream while her husband knows nothing about it even though he has been married to her for many years. From this aspect, the Joy Luck Club mothers give their daughters a lot of help and fort. In fact, the maternal love of the Joy Luck Club mothers exists almost everywhere. The four daughters e to realize that their mothers are always loving them in every 黑龍江外國語學(xué)院 2020 屆畢業(yè)論文 6 possible situation. They find out that their mothers would express maternal love at any moment. At the crab dinner, Suyuan would not let her daughter Jingmei pick the crab with a broken leg after every guest has taken away the good ones. In Suyuan’ eyes, a crab with a broken leg is a symbol of bad luck. She does not want her daughter to suffer from bad luck. In order to protect Jingmei from bad luck, when there are only two crabs in the plate, Suyuan picks the one with a broken leg for herself, and gives her daughter the better one. Again, the maternal love of a Chinese mother is vividly shown here. The mothers would always protect their daughters and make any sacrifice for them at any moment. In all, the maternal love that the Joy Luck Club mothers show to their daughters is brim with Chinese culture. In the beginning, because their daughters don’t know anything about their mothers’ motherland culture, they cannot understand their mothers, but after hearing their mothers’ experiences in China, and sensing their mothers’ sincere love, they begin to understand and accept their mothers. Although they have been soaked in the American culture, the same blood of the Chinese people in their bodies and their mothers’ love reminds them that they cannot deny their mothers’ culture. Different Views of Marriage Comparison of the Western Concept of Marriage Female failed marriage seems to be the theme in the film “The Joy Luck Club”, touch one deeply in the heart, for example: the young aunt Lin became a child bride, When she found her husband’s position is determined by the pregnant belly, she used own wisdom ended her marriage without love successfully. The film can be seen different attitudes and ideas about life of the two generations after emigrated to the United States, it is the direct embodiment of the difference in marriage concept of west and east culture. Chinese marriage multilegged no autonomy. Mothers in the film 黑龍江外國語學(xué)院 2020 屆畢業(yè)論文 7 the marriage is good portrayal。 such as marriage, child bride. Theory of personality structure can be a very good explanation of this point, Chinese is based on interpersonal self as the core to fe their own personality, self not from others of their own requirements. This decision in Chinese parents marriage plays a dominant role in micro, daughter and her mother39。s marriage is the direct reflection, micro in order to get the mother recognized and experienced a failure marriage, while his mother is the direct victims of child bride. In order to interpersonal self as the core personality of Chinese especially pay attention to their relations with others, pay attention to the opinions of others on their own. In addition, Chinese marriage represents the reproductive marriage model of sex, also reflect the personality characteristics of R in china. In Chinese marriage is based on reproduction, marriage is a personal belongs to family and family, sex in the secondary position, resulting in a lack of emotional arranged marriage and child bride. In contrast, American marriages are independent random. This point can be refl