【正文】 e there39。Technology is also not going to change whoyou choose to study the biology of personality, and I39。Even dating sites are not changing 39。There39。ve evolved three distinctly different brain systems formating and reproduction: sex drive, feelings of intense romantic love andfeelings of deep cosmic attachment to a longterm together, thesethree brain systemswith many other parts of the brainorchestrate oursexual, our romantic and our family ：性驅(qū)動(dòng)、感受濃烈的浪漫以及對(duì)長(zhǎng)期伴侶深層的強(qiáng)烈的依賴感。How is technology changing love? I39。human beings 39。”Eightysix percent of human societiespermit a man to have several wives: in the vast majority of thesecultures, only about five or ten percent of men actually do have several several partners can be a fact, cowives can fight witheach other, sometimes they can even poison each other39。她在這場(chǎng)活力充沛、巨細(xì)靡遺的演講中，以第一手資料解釋：更快速度的連結(jié)反而產(chǎn)生步調(diào)更慢、更親密的關(guān)系。 And he leaned towards me and he whispered,39。事實(shí)上，妻子們之間會(huì)產(chǎn)生爭(zhēng)執(zhí)，有時(shí)甚至?xí)竞?duì)方的孩子。s very monaround the world, but we are built to 。是的，長(zhǎng)期處于熱戀期是有可能的。它們位于大腦中最原始的位置，和能量、注意力、渴望度、動(dòng)力、欲望及能動(dòng)性相連。電子郵件、短信、表達(dá)情感的符號(hào)、色情短信、給照片或自拍點(diǎn)贊...關(guān)于如何求愛有了新的規(guī)則和禁忌，但是，這真的徹底改變了愛嗎？來看看上個(gè)世紀(jì)40年代，那時(shí)候汽車剛大行其道，頓時(shí)人們便有了“可移動(dòng)臥室”。When you sit down in a bar, in a coffee house, on a parkbench, your ancient brain snaps into action like a sleeping cat awakened, andyou smile and laugh and listen and parade the way our ancestors did 100,000years can give you various peopleall the dating sites canbutthe only real algorithm is your own human is not going tochange 、咖啡館或坐在公園的長(zhǎng)椅時(shí)，你的大腦會(huì)立即開始反應(yīng)，就像一只沉睡的貓被喚醒一樣。ve been able to watch who39。那些血清素系統(tǒng)反應(yīng)活躍的人往往更加傳統(tǒng)，遵循慣例與規(guī)則，尊重權(quán)威 他們通常篤信宗教 —宗教信仰正屬于血清素系統(tǒng)— 傳統(tǒng)派自然找傳統(tǒng)派的人 如此一來，是同類相吸。But technology is producing one moderntrend that I find particularly 39。I don39。So I39。t poll the Match population, we poll the use 5,000plus people, a representative sample of Americansbased on the US ，我想正是由于這種認(rèn)知超載我們引進(jìn)了一種新型求愛方式，我稱其為“慢慢愛”。Americans think that this is doubted that for a long time。他們擔(dān)心離婚后面對(duì)的社會(huì)、法律、情感以及經(jīng)濟(jì)后果。且對(duì)婚前性行為毫無愧疚感，在這種情況下人們選擇愛得慢一些。如今，在美國(guó) 86%的美國(guó)人將在49歲結(jié)婚，即便在世界上結(jié)婚率不高的文化里，最終他們也會(huì)和長(zhǎng)期伴侶安定下來。于是，我研究了美國(guó)1100位已婚人士。s jobs became more important: they had to move the rocks, fell the trees,plow the brought the produce to local markets, and came home withthe equivalent of ，人類開始以農(nóng)耕為主，男女似乎有義務(wù)尋找合適的人結(jié)婚。We are right now in a marriage are shedding 10,000 years of our farming tradition and moving forwardtowards egalitarian relationships between the sexessomething I regard ashighly patible with the ancient human ，我們摒棄了1萬年前的農(nóng)業(yè)傳統(tǒng)，朝著兩性平等的方向發(fā)展。s a whole pile of William Butler Yeats,the poet, once said, 39。葉芝所說 “愛情是個(gè)狡猾的家伙” 我會(huì)再加一句，“沒人能活著出來”。s another speaker here with us that works in yoursame es at it from a different Perel is apsychotherapist who works with study data, Esther studies thestories the couples tell her when they e to her for 39。d like to ment on?誒斯特當(dāng)您觀看海倫演講的時(shí)候是否有和您所做的工作產(chǎn)生共鳴的地方？您可以和我們說說嘛？Esther Perel: It39。s like, 39。s a set oftactics that kind of prolong the uncertainty of a relationship but also theuncertainty of the 。Yeah?說的對(duì)嗎？So I was thinkingthese words came upfor me as I was listening to you, like how a vocabulary also creates a reality,and at the same time, that39。我認(rèn)可你的觀點(diǎn)，但我不明白的是環(huán)境改變的程度——它是從某一點(diǎn)開始改變的呢？如果意義變了，需求是否也會(huì)改變呢？或需求本身不受整個(gè)大環(huán)境影響？ HF: Wow!Well海倫：哇！Well, I39。EP: The list grows誒斯特：清單越來越長(zhǎng)了吧？ HF: Well, basic thing is over 97percent of people want somebody that respects them, somebody they can trust andconfide in, somebody who makes them laugh, somebody who makes enough time forthem and somebody who they find physically never 39。redoing it in ：過去人們會(huì)說他們想找能夠與自己作伴、提供經(jīng)濟(jì)支持、喜愛孩子的人，我們從生產(chǎn)經(jīng)濟(jì)轉(zhuǎn)變?yōu)榉?wù)經(jīng)濟(jì)。ve been talking about is that temperament is certainly going to change with changingtimes and changing ：你的文化、成長(zhǎng)過程信仰和言行以及性格，我討論的基本上都是性格。ve always is alwaysin fact, the brain is wellbuilt to what wecall 39。我想你今晚要和很多人共進(jìn)晚餐了。創(chuàng)新就是這樣一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)培養(yǎng)起來的。本系列的目的就是逐步地將已翻譯好的主題簡(jiǎn)介帶給大家，并為大家推薦相關(guān)主題下的已翻譯演講、待翻譯演講和待校對(duì)演講。卡特談及了她為曾陷入腐化的的紐約南布隆克斯區(qū)帶來綠色生機(jī)的工程?？肆诸D掌政時(shí)擔(dān)任美國(guó)第四十五任副總統(tǒng)。古道爾還熱心投身于環(huán)境教育和公益事業(yè)，由她創(chuàng)建并管理的珍史蒂芬看望可持續(xù)發(fā)展的未來“阿力克斯◎ 待校對(duì)演講（簡(jiǎn)體中文）推薦 Honore praises slowness“Journalist Carl Honore believes the Western world’s emphasis on speed erodes health, productivity and quality of there’s a backlash brewing, as everyday people start putting the brakes on their alltoomodern lives.” Meattle on how to grow fresh airResearcher Kamal Meattle shows how an arrangement of three mon houseplants, used in specific spots in a home or office building, can result in measurably cleaner indoor 。關(guān)于Ralph LangnerRalph Langner是德國(guó)控制系統(tǒng)的安全顧問。請(qǐng)注意繁簡(jiǎn)目錄是不一樣的。所以這真的引起了我的注意，我們開始進(jìn)行這方面的工作，幾乎日以繼夜，因?yàn)槲蚁?，好吧，我們不知道它的目?biāo)是什么，很可能的，比方說美國(guó)的發(fā)電廠，或德國(guó)的化工廠，所以我們最好盡快找出目標(biāo)。在這區(qū)域內(nèi)你不會(huì)找到幾千個(gè)目標(biāo)，基本上范圍可以縮小為布什爾核電廠及納坦茲濃縮鈾工廠。這些在伊朗的離心機(jī)細(xì)分為15種所謂的等級(jí)，你猜我們?cè)诠舸a中發(fā)現(xiàn)什么？一個(gè)幾乎相同的結(jié)構(gòu)。事實(shí)上，這個(gè)假的輸入數(shù)據(jù)是Stuxnet事先錄制的，因此，這就像來自好萊塢電影的搶劫過程中，監(jiān)視器被放入預(yù)錄的影片，酷吧？這里的想法顯然不僅是愚弄控制室中的操作者，實(shí)際上更加危險(xiǎn)且更具攻擊性，這個(gè)想法是規(guī)避數(shù)字安全系統(tǒng)。因此，所有這些綠色區(qū)域就是遭受最多攻擊的目標(biāo)，我們必須面對(duì)這個(gè)后果，我們最好現(xiàn)在開始做準(zhǔn)備。如果你這么做，最終它會(huì)變成具大規(guī)模破壞性的網(wǎng)絡(luò)武器，這是我們必然會(huì)面臨的后果。我們看到一些非?？岬臇|西，真的讓我印象深刻。每個(gè)層級(jí)由164臺(tái)離心機(jī)組成，這就說的通了，與我們的結(jié)果匹配。然后，我們尋找時(shí)間控制器和數(shù)據(jù)結(jié)構(gòu)，試圖將其與真實(shí)世界連結(jié)起來，尋找現(xiàn)實(shí)世界中的潛在目標(biāo)，因此我們必需進(jìn)行目標(biāo)推測(cè)，以便確認(rèn)或排除。之后，我們用不同口味的奶酪進(jìn)行實(shí)驗(yàn)，我意識(shí)到，哦，這是一個(gè)直接攻擊，完全直接的。Langner進(jìn)一步分析，發(fā)現(xiàn)Stuxnet可能的幕后源頭，并于TED2011演講中透露這個(gè)秘密。Ralph Langner及其團(tuán)隊(duì)協(xié)助破解Stuxnet編碼，找出這個(gè)數(shù)字彈頭的最終攻擊目標(biāo)－以及其幕后源頭。摩爾船長(zhǎng)是Algalita海洋研究基金會(huì)的創(chuàng)始人，他第一次發(fā)現(xiàn)了大太平洋垃圾帶——一片無邊無際漂浮著塑料垃圾的海域。戈?duì)栮P(guān)于避免氣候危機(jī)的演講“此次演講流露出的幽默感和人道主義跟在他的紀(jì)錄電影”難以忽視的真相“如出一轍，戈?duì)栮U明了15種應(yīng)對(duì)氣候危機(jī)立馬有效的方法而且簡(jiǎn)單易行，從購(gòu)買混合動(dòng)力產(chǎn)品到發(fā)明新產(chǎn)品替代碳排放產(chǎn)品，使“全球溫室效應(yīng)”更加深入人心。她的工作糾正了許多學(xué)術(shù)界對(duì)黑猩猩這一物種長(zhǎng)期以來的錯(cuò)誤認(rèn)識(shí)，揭示了許多黑猩猩社群中鮮為人知的秘密?！?演講者推薦阿爾麥克多納向人們展現(xiàn)了偉大設(shè)計(jì)的力量，它作用在整個(gè)文明體系上，而不僅僅是針對(duì)局部領(lǐng)域，并能持久地?fù)?dān)負(fù)起豐富的未來。但隨著TED的成長(zhǎng)和知名度的增加，TED演講所涵蓋的行業(yè)也越來越廣泛。然而，創(chuàng)新并不是遙不可及的。KS: Well, thank you both so thinkyou39。t square!And I39。s your cultureeverything you grew up to do and believe and sayandthere39。HF: That39。而幾千年來人們都遵從必須和來自匹配的背景和關(guān)聯(lián)的人結(jié)婚，每年我對(duì)5000人進(jìn)行調(diào)研，我問他們：“