【正文】 to pick vegetable, the public chopsticks are the best choice, and you can send the meat dishes to the guests and the elders far from the food, which is a fine tradition. The dish is served one by one. If the leaders and the elders are at the dinner, they should get a start, so that the host can express their respect to them. The principles of spoons The spoons are used for eating soup, sometimes it can be used for getting food with small size. When you get food with it, don?t make your spoon full, and it will pollute the dinner table or your clothes. After fetching the food with spoon, you should eat it at once. If the food is too hot, you can put and cool it in your bowl, never blow it with your mouth, and you can?t put the spoon in your mouth. All in all, you should remember if you don?t know how to use knife and fork, you can observe others? behaviors. 6 The principles of dish The plate is usually used for holding the food。t blow when soup is too hot. Some people like to chew food for dinner, especially for stiff food。 But the western countries advocate democracy, freedom, equality, they pay attention to the value of the power of the individual, personal value , and the individualism, Socialist. The main religious belief is Christian for the country. And it has a great impact on the people. The people believe in Christian doctrine, which deems the God created man. The table wares can represent the cultural connotation. 2. The different thinking pattern between China and western countries The Chinese thinking is more prehensive, with perceptual and intuitional thinking, at the same time, it has China style. The Chinese attach importance to psychological bias and short in logic analysis. The western countries emphasizes analytical and bureau Logic thinking, and emphasizes the things of itself, with scientific standard for thought. At the same time in the west countries, they put the value of the individual into an important position. Take the example of tableware chopsticks and knife and fork, a few in China. Chopsticks have been saved as a symbol of china civilization. Using chopsticks means unity and collective social concept. And western countries are the reflection of modern civilization, a knife and fork in the process of use reflect the analytic philosophy thinking. 3. The different values between China and western countries The China with etiquette Bond , stresses filial piety, loyalty, reflects the values of collectivism. The Chinese emphasize respecting elders, as a result, Seats are put regularly, which has not only a fluctuation, and level, but also the specific sort of seats. For the westerners, the individualism is dominant, which emphasizes individual strength. This is western philosophy, tending to focus on Individualism, personality development and selfexpression. They think if a 11 man can?t reach their own purpose, that is not the day Life, it is laziness. At dinner time, each Individual choose their favorite things, it will not appear in China that they will be unwilling to eat dishes the host get for them. IV. Conclusion Comparing the differences of table manners between China and western countries, I find the deportment of a person has an impact on others. Confronted with everfierce challenges, our country is eager to need perfect and logical values both in psychological and cultural aspects. Only if we know more about the difference of etiquette culture, can we build a suitable system of etiquette culture, which can eliminate the misunderstanding and barriers across the munication and it will do great help to the development of the China?s culture and the existence in abroad. 12 Bibliography [1] 董保軍 . 中外禮儀大全 .北京 .民族 出版社 . 2020. [2] 陳弘美 . 餐桌禮儀實用知識 [M]. 北京世界圖書出版社 .2020. [3] 馮玉珠 . 餐飲禮儀全攻略 [M]. 對外經(jīng)濟貿(mào)易大學出版社 .2020. [4] 朱燕 . 現(xiàn)代禮儀學概論 .北京 .清華大學出版社 .2020. 論文題目： 中西方餐桌禮儀差異 作者： 賈靜 班級： 外國語學院英語系 2020 級 專本 2 班 指導教師： 張濤 。t make noises while eating。 setting would be arranged with men and women alternating on either side. The host leads the way for the guest. The hostess is always the last to go into the dining roo