【正文】 想自己是什么樣的人，只要你想，努力去實(shí)現(xiàn)，就會(huì)的?。ê芏嗳藶槭裁礇](méi)實(shí)現(xiàn)，就是沒(méi)毅力）第七：學(xué)會(huì)調(diào)整情緒，盡量往好處想，很多人遇到一些事情的時(shí)候，就急的象熱鍋上的螞蟻，本來(lái)可以很好解決的問(wèn)題，正是因?yàn)榍榫w的把握不好，讓簡(jiǎn)單的事情復(fù)雜化，讓復(fù)雜的事情更難．其實(shí)只要把握好事情的關(guān)鍵，把每個(gè)細(xì)節(jié)處理的得貼就會(huì)游刃有余．遇到棘手的事情，冷靜點(diǎn)，然后想如何才能把它做好，你越往好處想，心就越開(kāi)，越往壞處想，心就越窄！第八：珍惜身邊的人，用語(yǔ)方面盡量不傷害，哪怕遇到你不喜歡的人，你盡量迂回，找理由離開(kāi)也不要肆意傷害，這樣不僅讓自己心情太壞，也讓場(chǎng)面更尷尬．珍惜現(xiàn)在身邊的一切。第四：多和自己競(jìng)爭(zhēng)，沒(méi)有必要嫉妒別人，也沒(méi)必要羨慕別人。那么我們應(yīng)該怎么減輕這樣的負(fù)面情緒呢？第一：學(xué)會(huì)讓自己安靜，把思維沉浸下來(lái)，慢慢降低對(duì)事物的欲望?！边@既是他的一種超然的人生境界，也是檢驗(yàn)我們心態(tài)好不好的一面鏡子，不妨經(jīng)常照一照，看看自己的心態(tài)是否調(diào)整好了?！比绻聧徆と吮却?，跟農(nóng)民兄弟比收入，跟先進(jìn)人物比貢獻(xiàn)，心態(tài)就能平衡，怨氣就自然消了。一是欲望不要太高。人活的快樂(lè)，就必須要有一個(gè)好心態(tài)。精神打起來(lái)，好運(yùn)自然來(lái)。進(jìn)行平穩(wěn)的較長(zhǎng)的問(wèn)候，慢慢開(kāi)始。深呼吸，進(jìn)行簡(jiǎn)短、安靜的沉思，在腦海中想想最喜歡的旋律，想象你的朋友在向你歡呼，或者看到你過(guò)去的成功。到場(chǎng)要在演講開(kāi)始前。演講新的主題很好，但是不要愚蠢的接受，特別是對(duì)你一個(gè)初學(xué)者。第一篇：演講時(shí)建立信心和良好心態(tài)[精選]尋找和抓住演講的機(jī)會(huì)。否則的話(huà)，禮貌地拒絕。通常試著說(shuō)得簡(jiǎn)短、輕松和美好，人們會(huì)喜歡你的。在等著被叫到的時(shí)候，做在椅子上讓自己身心放松。當(dāng)你的名字被叫到你，慢慢站起來(lái)，以正常步幅（不要太悠閑或顯得懶散）走上演講臺(tái)，自信地走上去，看看周?chē)娜?，微笑，然后開(kāi)始你的演講。心態(tài)好，運(yùn)氣就好。人活在世上，凡事都要看開(kāi)點(diǎn)，看遠(yuǎn)點(diǎn)，看淡點(diǎn)，心胸要豁達(dá)些、大度些，相信“任何事情的發(fā)生必有利于我、”且“辦法總比困難多”，也就沒(méi)有流不出的水和搬不動(dòng)的山，更沒(méi)有鉆不出的窟窿及結(jié)不成的緣。如何調(diào)整好自己的心態(tài)？筆者認(rèn)為有三點(diǎn)至關(guān)重要。如果盲目攀比，就會(huì)“人比人，氣死人。中國(guó)科學(xué)院院士裘法祖有一句座右銘，“做人要知足，做事要知不足，做學(xué)問(wèn)要不知足。不難看出，隨著社會(huì)的進(jìn)步，競(jìng)爭(zhēng)的激烈，讓人們的各種壓力增大，如果當(dāng)這種壓力超過(guò)了某種負(fù)荷能力的時(shí)候，就會(huì)讓人出現(xiàn)偏**緒，這樣帶來(lái)的后果是無(wú)法想象的，我個(gè)人覺(jué)得如果人能在適當(dāng)?shù)碾A段給自己找一個(gè)出口，會(huì)逐漸排除這樣的精神壓力，讓你走向更輝煌的道路。第三：遇到心情煩躁的情況的時(shí)候，你喝一杯白水，放一曲舒緩的輕音樂(lè)，閉眼，回味身邊的人與事，對(duì)新的未來(lái)可以慢慢的輸理，即是一種休息，也是一種冷靜的前進(jìn)思考。為自己的每一次進(jìn)步而開(kāi)心（事是不分大與小的，復(fù)雜的事情簡(jiǎn)單做，簡(jiǎn)單的事情認(rèn)真做，認(rèn)真的事情反復(fù)做，爭(zhēng)取做到最好）第五：廣泛閱讀，閱讀實(shí)際就是一個(gè)吸收養(yǎng)料的過(guò)程，現(xiàn)代人面臨激烈的競(jìng)爭(zhēng)，復(fù)雜的人際關(guān)系，為了讓自己不至于在某些場(chǎng)合尷尬，可以進(jìn)行廣泛的閱讀，讓自己的頭腦充實(shí)也是一種減壓的方式，人有時(shí)候是這樣的，肚子里空空的時(shí)候會(huì)自然的焦急，這就對(duì)了，正是你的求知欲在呼喊你，要活著就需要這樣的養(yǎng)分。s mental state, with good attitude, you can maintain the full daily attitude, luck spirit of fight, good luck will e to do anything must have a positive attitude, once losing him to jump out, to learn to adjust their mentality, a good attitude and work would have the direction, as long as not lose the direction to not lose quality of mind, is the usual practice to adjust and to form living in the world, everything should be to understand, to see far point, bearish point, mind to more openminded, more generous, I believe, “Whatever happens, happens there must be conducive to me,” and “way better than more difficult”, but also Liu Buchu no water and not move the mountain, not to drill the hole and not the edge node live happy, must have a good philosopher when he said, “Since reality can not be changed, then only change their own.” Is adjusted to change their own to adjust their mentality? I believe that there are three is the desire not to be too desire, desire higher, if not met, the greater the contrast formation, state of mind more easily , parisons can not be thinking too the blind petition, it will “than people, mad people.” Than if the treatment with the laidoff workers, with the brothers than the ine of farmers, with the advanced people and contributions, will be able to balance the mind, anger naturally , we must learn to not thing of the past to heart, what passed for it in the past, this will be less to a lot of headaches, mood can be Academy of Sciences Qiu had a motto, “everyone should be content, you have to know enough, scholarship or else be content.” This is one of his transcendent realm of life, is it really a good test of our mind a mirror, it may often according to a photos, to see whether the adjustment of their good state of has a philosophy of life is self, and some people very happy life, and some surprising disappointments of life who are not seized, in the final Jiedi is the mentality of the will always be a lot of sudden disaster, people will suddenly fall into a loss, anxiety, manic mood, worse, the despair of is obvious that as society advances, intense petition, increased pressure for a variety of people, if and when this pressure exceeds a certain load capacity when the people there will be partial ** thread, so bring The consequences are unimaginable, I personally feel that if people can give yourself at the appropriate stage to find an exit, will gradually eliminate this stress, you bee a more glorious how should w