【正文】
om figure 3, when having trouble, Chinese students would like to solve the problem by themselves, if the problem is beyond their power, they tend to seek help from friends. And 70% of Chinese students think that they would like to give help to certain friends without asking for return. Chinese endow friendship with great responsibility. They have high expectations to friends. For them the purpose of making friends is to mutual help and look out for each other. In Chinese culture, you must prepare for taking risk and sacrificing the old saying goes, depend on parents when at home, depend on friends when outside and a friend in need is friends indeed. The friend is deserve to trust in Chinese culture. To a great degree, Chinese depend on their friends a lot. People in western countries think friend is someone you can exchange hobbies and feeling. The friendship is an easy friendship. So they expect to own an independent friendship. And they don’t like to rely on friends too much. That’s the reason why they are willing to solve problem by themselves from figure 4. People in different countries develop and maintain their unique relationships and cultures. Because of the differences among the definition of friendship, the attitude towards the treatment of friends and how to maintain a friendship, the differently expected return between Chinese and the west , which would mislead our intercultural munication. Differences on friendship between China and western countries contain the three aspects. Chinese attach more importance to friendship than westerners, and Chinese long for lasting, stable friendship, and Chinese hold the view that it is normal to help friends and have higher expectation to friends than ’s more, it proposes some suggestions to overe the obstacles. As globalization is quickening its pace, crosscultural munication has bee part of our daily life. Cultural shock and misunderstanding between people with different cultural background frequently happen. People’s value and attitudes can affect people’s pattern of behavior. A deeper understanding and consciousness of the differences may promote a more effective munication between different cultural backgrounds. So, we should learn more about different cultures and build good relationships. Limitation and suggestions: The sample of the questionnaire is small because foreigners I can contact are limited, it decreases the accuracy of the questionnaire research. And participants are all Chongqing university students, their ideas don’t represent others ideas who are of different age. So further discussion is supposed to expand the sample range and collect more information. REFERENCES [1] Mary F. . crosscultural parison of perceived hazard in response to warning ponents and configurations: US vs. China[J]. Applied Ergonomics, 20xx, 40(5) [2] Takayuki friendship estimation model for m