【正文】 let is beautiful but Melanie is not. Melanie is just a mon girl who does not have the charming appearance. But she is also as attractive as Scarlet.The description of Melanie’s appearance is as follows.Melanie was a tiny, frailly built girl, who gave the appearance of a child masquerading in her mother’s enormous hoop skirtsan illusion that was heightended by the sky, almost frightened look in her two large 英語(yǔ)畢業(yè)論文 vibrown eyes. She had a cloud of curly dark hair which was so stemly represented beneath its that no ragant tendrils escaped, and this dark mass, with its long widow’s speck, accentuated the heart shape her face, too wide across the checkbones, too pointed at the chin. It was a sweet, timid face but a plain face, and she had no feminine tricks of allure to make observers fet its plainness. She lookedand was –as simple as earth, as good as bread, as transparent as spring water. But for all her plainness of feature and smallness of stature, there was a sedate dignity about her movement that was oddly touching and far older than her seventeen years. (Margaret, 121)Melanie was like her aunt in many ways. She had her shyness, her sudden blushes, her modesty, but she did have mon sense. Melanie had the face of a sheltered child who had never know anything but simplicity and kindness, truth and love, a child who had never looked upon harshness or evil and would not recognize them if she saw them. Because she had always been happy, she wanted every one around her to be happy, or at least, pleased with themselves. To this end, she always saw the best in everyone and remarkable kindly upon it. There was no servant so stupid that she did not find some redeeming trait of loyalty and kind heartedness, no girl so ugly and disagreeable that she could not discover grace of form or nobility of character in her, and no man so worthless or so boring that she did not view him in the light of his possibilities rather than his actualities.Because of these qualities that came sincerely and spontaneously from a generous heart, everyone flocked about her. She had more girl friends than anyone in town and more men friends too, though she had few beaux, for she lacked the willfulness and selfishness that go far towards trapping men’s hearts.From the above we can know that Melanie was really not a beautiful person with charming appearance. What made her appreciated by others was her internal beauty: smile, sincerity, and kindness.1. SmileSmile has an unconscious charm to people in interpersonal relationship. People will not refuse a person who smiles. Smile plays an important role in interpersonal relationship, which can create miracle in life. Shakespeare, a famous English play writer, said that he would prefer to be made happy by a fool rather than to be made sad by a clever person. Every person wants to have a happy life. If women want to build a good interpersonal relationship, firstly, she should make other happy instead of sad or grieve. Smile can change person’s appearance。 in your warm greetings. For Chinese people, when we make friends with others, we first consider if he or she is kind or not. Because kindness is the basic virtue a person should have. If one is not kind, it means that he or she is evil, troublesome or odious. The fundamental respecting principle is to show your kindness to others. Yes, show a little kindness, and you will overlook the blindness of narrow minded people on the narrow minded streets. ConclusionFrom what has been discussed the above a conclusion can be drawn that women have wakened from the long sleep. Today’s women, holding half the sky, are masters of their own fate, which bring them great desire to achieve what they dream of. An ideal woman should be successful in career, family life and interpersonal relationship, which is not easy to achieve. But women need not be scared by these difficulties on the way to success. Women can get some inspiration from Gone with the Wind. In terms of success in career, women can learn Scarlet’s innovation, confidence and selftrust. As for success in family life, women can follow Melanie to hold the trust, respect and love for their spouses. As to success in interpersonal relationship, women can learn from Scarlet and be a woman with beautiful appearance and unique character。 in your eyes。 how to walk pigeontoed so that her wide hoop skirts swayed entrancingly 。她們渴望社會(huì)認(rèn)可，發(fā)揮潛力；渴望魅力四射，展示自我；渴望獨(dú)立進(jìn)取，事業(yè)成功；渴望婚姻美滿，人生幸福，但要真正成為這樣的成功女性并不容易。 family life。 career。不可否認(rèn)，伴隨經(jīng)濟(jì)全球化，知識(shí)經(jīng)濟(jì)，我國(guó)入世等諸多因素的影響，女性的人生舞臺(tái)得到了極大拓展，其修養(yǎng)意識(shí)、交際意識(shí)、家庭意識(shí)、成功意識(shí)等迅速?gòu)?qiáng)化。 women can also do it and even do it better than men. Scarlet could run the mill which was considered as men’s work. Women in today’ society can also do such kind of work which is traditionally regarded as only men’s work.To be innovative, women should collect the current information about what is a promising job. Knowledge is necessary. Nowadays the society is one with information. Women should read magazines, newspapers or spend enough time in searching information through Inter. It will be easier for you to succeed if you gain information before others. So innovation is the key for women’ success.2. Confidence and SelftrustBesides innovation, women should also have confidence and selftrust.“Selftrust is the first secret of success”, said Emerson. It is known that one’s life couldn’t go smoothly without difficulty. Difficulties or frustration are the obstacles on the road to success. Now that we can not avoid these terrible factors, why not be confident to overe them. Scarlet always said “tomorrow is another day”. Why can not the women say that “Today I meet and fight against the difficulties, tomorrow I will meet the success?” There is a saying that confidence is half the success. Be confident means that you should also be o