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種人你除了學會和其接觸無計可施,同時你也要學會擇友,選擇那些對你友善的,那些真正關心你的,那些令你對自己感到很好的人做朋友。[7] There39。[8] 有時你會遭遇挫折而非成功。這是另一件你需要學會處理的事情。接受挫敗并學會堅持,不畏風險地追求你的夢想。[8] There will be times when you are met with disappointment instead of won39。ll have to learn to deal instead of letting these things get you down, push disappointment and learn to persevere, to pursue your dreams despite to turn negatives into positives, and you39。[9] 你同樣會面臨心碎時刻以及你深愛的人的拋棄。讓這些痛苦成為你通向更美好生活的墊腳石,并學會利用它們讓自己更堅強。t have to face this too much, but it , not much you can do but to heal, and to move on with your these pains bee stepping stones to better things in life, and learn to use them to make you stronger。不要逃避生活,不要躲藏,抑或封閉自己。[10] Yes, you39。t let that close you to new 39。t hide or wall yourself open to new things, new experiences, new people。如果你把自己關在愛的門外,你就會錯過這個女子,和你生命中最快樂的時光。ll miss out on that woman, and the happiest times of your life。如果你拒絕接觸新人群,并不向他們敞開心扉,你會避免受傷……但是同時也失去了認識這些不可思議的人的機會,他們會在你生命最困難的時刻陪伴著你,并帶給你人生當中最美好的時光。t open your heart to them, you39。[13] 你會失敗多次但是如果你讓失敗打到了你,不再努力,你就會錯過那種當你達到成就新高度的難以言喻的成就感。[13] You will fail many times but if you allow that to stop you from trying, you will miss out on the amazing feeling of success once you reach new heights with your is a stepping stone to success。t a Competition [14] 你會遇到一些人他們總是試圖超過你,在中學,大學,在工作中。對他們來說,生命就是一場競賽他們不得不比同輩做得更好來讓自己感到快樂。ll try to have nicer cars, bigger houses, nicer clothes, cooler them, life is a petition — they have to do better than their peers to be happy。而是一段旅程。與之相反,學會享受它,讓之成為快樂之旅,永恒的學習之旅,持久的進步之旅以及愛之旅。s a secret: Life isn39。s a you spend that journey always trying to impress others, to outdo others, you’re wasting your , learn to enjoy the it a journey of Happiness, of constant learning, of continual improvement, of love。這些根本無足輕重,也不會使你快樂。與之相反,學會滿足你已經擁有的然后學會利用你原本想要浪費在為掙錢買這些東西的時間去做你真正熱愛的事。t worry about having a nicer car or house or anything material, or even a betterpaying of that matters a whit, and none of it will make you 39。[17] 找到你的激情,堅持不懈地追求它。生命太短暫了,更不可將之浪費在你所厭惡的工作上。t settle for a job that pays the is too short to waste on a job you hate。也許這聽來已是老生常談,我也清楚… 但是請信任我,再沒有更好的生活準則了。s a single word you should live your life by, it should be this: might sound corny, I know … but trust me, there39。[19] 一些人以成功作為生活準則。[19] Some would live by the rule of lives will be stressful, unhappy and shallow。他們孤獨一生,終究也不會快樂。[21] 還有一些人他們?yōu)檎x而生努力展示其道路的正確性,并試圖勸服任何一個不以正義為生活準則的人。[21] Still others will live by the rule of righteousness — trying to show the right path, and admonishing anyone who doesn39。s a horrible panion。愛你的妻子,你的孩子,你的父母親,你的朋友,全心全意地去愛。向他們敞開靈魂。[23] 不僅僅愛你深愛的人,也要愛你的鄰居.。給你遇到的任何一個人一個微笑,一句善語。[23]Love not only your loved ones, but your neighbors … your coworkers … strangers … your brothers and sisters in anyone you meet a smile, a kind word, a kind gesture, a helping hand。對你最殘酷的人,對曾經對你不善的人…愛他。[24] Love not only neighbors and strangers … but your person who is cruelest to you, who has been unkind to you … love is a tortured soul, and most in need of your love。當別人批評你時,學著不要強加自己,去認為自己丑,笨或者不值得去愛…而要想著自己是一個很完美的人,值得擁有幸福和真愛…并學會愛現(xiàn)在的自己。[26] 最后,要知道我愛你并且永遠都會,你即將開啟一段有點奇怪,令人害怕,令人心悸但最終很不可思議的巧妙旅程,我永遠會支持你。[26] Finally, know that I love you and always are starting out on a weird, scary, daunting, but ultimately incredibly wonderful journey, and I will be there for you when I 。其實,你并不知道,每天晚上我到家,都會借著手機的光亮看看你。那天中午,我回家,你高呼,奇跡出現(xiàn)了。我沒有看到你成長的過程,從一個小屁孩兒到現(xiàn)在的小伙子啦。明天是兒童節(jié),你最后一次度過了。給你寫這封信,就算是禮物了吧,我實在想不出拿什么送給你。馬上上初中了,是不是也應該有自己的規(guī)劃了呢。但我知道不是了,你一定有自己許多想法了,一定有自己的是非判斷了。你是一個善良敦厚的孩子,我相信這個品質是有血統(tǒng)的,也將永遠流淌在你的血液里。你用善良的目光打量這個世界,這個世界也一定會給你善良。爸爸希望你遇到什么問題,一定要堅強,一定要想到船到橋頭自然直,一定會有辦法的。背向陽光的人,一定活在陰影中,如果發(fā)現(xiàn)陰影,一定學會轉身。你喜歡讀書,我支持你,希望你結交朋友也像你讀書一樣,選擇朋友是最為重要的,你選擇好書去讀,也一定選擇好人去交。見賢思齊,寫在你們的教學樓上,你一定要思考它的含義,一定把它記在心頭,一定要這樣去做,那么你一定會成為優(yōu)秀的人。人最難的就是始終如一。對你說得似乎太多了,說多了,你會累的。越是泥濘的路,越能留下人生堅實的蹤跡。爸爸也過一次兒童節(jié),爸爸就是老頑童,愿我們都快樂。你、爸爸、媽媽永遠在