【正文】 種人你除了學(xué)會(huì)和其接觸無(wú)計(jì)可施，同時(shí)你也要學(xué)會(huì)擇友，選擇那些對(duì)你友善的，那些真正關(guān)心你的，那些令你對(duì)自己感到很好的人做朋友。[7] There39。[8] 有時(shí)你會(huì)遭遇挫折而非成功。這是另一件你需要學(xué)會(huì)處理的事情。接受挫敗并學(xué)會(huì)堅(jiān)持，不畏風(fēng)險(xiǎn)地追求你的夢(mèng)想。[8] There will be times when you are met with disappointment instead of won39。ll have to learn to deal instead of letting these things get you down, push disappointment and learn to persevere, to pursue your dreams despite to turn negatives into positives, and you39。[9] 你同樣會(huì)面臨心碎時(shí)刻以及你深?lèi)?ài)的人的拋棄。讓這些痛苦成為你通向更美好生活的墊腳石，并學(xué)會(huì)利用它們讓自己更堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。t have to face this too much, but it , not much you can do but to heal, and to move on with your these pains bee stepping stones to better things in life, and learn to use them to make you stronger。不要逃避生活，不要躲藏，抑或封閉自己。[10] Yes, you39。t let that close you to new 39。t hide or wall yourself open to new things, new experiences, new people。如果你把自己關(guān)在愛(ài)的門(mén)外，你就會(huì)錯(cuò)過(guò)這個(gè)女子，和你生命中最快樂(lè)的時(shí)光。ll miss out on that woman, and the happiest times of your life。如果你拒絕接觸新人群，并不向他們敞開(kāi)心扉，你會(huì)避免受傷……但是同時(shí)也失去了認(rèn)識(shí)這些不可思議的人的機(jī)會(huì)，他們會(huì)在你生命最困難的時(shí)刻陪伴著你，并帶給你人生當(dāng)中最美好的時(shí)光。t open your heart to them, you39。[13] 你會(huì)失敗多次但是如果你讓失敗打到了你，不再努力，你就會(huì)錯(cuò)過(guò)那種當(dāng)你達(dá)到成就新高度的難以言喻的成就感。[13] You will fail many times but if you allow that to stop you from trying, you will miss out on the amazing feeling of success once you reach new heights with your is a stepping stone to success。t a Competition [14] 你會(huì)遇到一些人他們總是試圖超過(guò)你，在中學(xué)，大學(xué)，在工作中。對(duì)他們來(lái)說(shuō)，生命就是一場(chǎng)競(jìng)賽他們不得不比同輩做得更好來(lái)讓自己感到快樂(lè)。ll try to have nicer cars, bigger houses, nicer clothes, cooler them, life is a petition — they have to do better than their peers to be happy。而是一段旅程。與之相反，學(xué)會(huì)享受它，讓之成為快樂(lè)之旅，永恒的學(xué)習(xí)之旅，持久的進(jìn)步之旅以及愛(ài)之旅。s a secret: Life isn39。s a you spend that journey always trying to impress others, to outdo others, you’re wasting your , learn to enjoy the it a journey of Happiness, of constant learning, of continual improvement, of love。這些根本無(wú)足輕重，也不會(huì)使你快樂(lè)。與之相反，學(xué)會(huì)滿(mǎn)足你已經(jīng)擁有的然后學(xué)會(huì)利用你原本想要浪費(fèi)在為掙錢(qián)買(mǎi)這些東西的時(shí)間去做你真正熱愛(ài)的事。t worry about having a nicer car or house or anything material, or even a betterpaying of that matters a whit, and none of it will make you 39。[17] 找到你的激情，堅(jiān)持不懈地追求它。生命太短暫了，更不可將之浪費(fèi)在你所厭惡的工作上。t settle for a job that pays the is too short to waste on a job you hate。也許這聽(tīng)來(lái)已是老生常談，我也清楚… 但是請(qǐng)信任我，再?zèng)]有更好的生活準(zhǔn)則了。s a single word you should live your life by, it should be this: might sound corny, I know … but trust me, there39。[19] 一些人以成功作為生活準(zhǔn)則。[19] Some would live by the rule of lives will be stressful, unhappy and shallow。他們孤獨(dú)一生，終究也不會(huì)快樂(lè)。[21] 還有一些人他們?yōu)檎x而生努力展示其道路的正確性，并試圖勸服任何一個(gè)不以正義為生活準(zhǔn)則的人。[21] Still others will live by the rule of righteousness — trying to show the right path, and admonishing anyone who doesn39。s a horrible panion。愛(ài)你的妻子，你的孩子，你的父母親，你的朋友，全心全意地去愛(ài)。向他們敞開(kāi)靈魂。[23] 不僅僅愛(ài)你深?lèi)?ài)的人，也要愛(ài)你的鄰居.。給你遇到的任何一個(gè)人一個(gè)微笑，一句善語(yǔ)。[23]Love not only your loved ones, but your neighbors … your coworkers … strangers … your brothers and sisters in anyone you meet a smile, a kind word, a kind gesture, a helping hand。對(duì)你最殘酷的人，對(duì)曾經(jīng)對(duì)你不善的人…愛(ài)他。[24] Love not only neighbors and strangers … but your person who is cruelest to you, who has been unkind to you … love is a tortured soul, and most in need of your love。當(dāng)別人批評(píng)你時(shí)，學(xué)著不要強(qiáng)加自己，去認(rèn)為自己丑，笨或者不值得去愛(ài)…而要想著自己是一個(gè)很完美的人，值得擁有幸福和真愛(ài)…并學(xué)會(huì)愛(ài)現(xiàn)在的自己。[26] 最后，要知道我愛(ài)你并且永遠(yuǎn)都會(huì)，你即將開(kāi)啟一段有點(diǎn)奇怪，令人害怕，令人心悸但最終很不可思議的巧妙旅程，我永遠(yuǎn)會(huì)支持你。[26] Finally, know that I love you and always are starting out on a weird, scary, daunting, but ultimately incredibly wonderful journey, and I will be there for you when I 。其實(shí)，你并不知道，每天晚上我到家，都會(huì)借著手機(jī)的光亮看看你。那天中午，我回家，你高呼，奇跡出現(xiàn)了。我沒(méi)有看到你成長(zhǎng)的過(guò)程，從一個(gè)小屁孩兒到現(xiàn)在的小伙子啦。明天是兒童節(jié)，你最后一次度過(guò)了。給你寫(xiě)這封信，就算是禮物了吧，我實(shí)在想不出拿什么送給你。馬上上初中了，是不是也應(yīng)該有自己的規(guī)劃了呢。但我知道不是了，你一定有自己許多想法了，一定有自己的是非判斷了。你是一個(gè)善良敦厚的孩子，我相信這個(gè)品質(zhì)是有血統(tǒng)的，也將永遠(yuǎn)流淌在你的血液里。你用善良的目光打量這個(gè)世界，這個(gè)世界也一定會(huì)給你善良。爸爸希望你遇到什么問(wèn)題，一定要堅(jiān)強(qiáng)，一定要想到船到橋頭自然直，一定會(huì)有辦法的。背向陽(yáng)光的人，一定活在陰影中，如果發(fā)現(xiàn)陰影，一定學(xué)會(huì)轉(zhuǎn)身。你喜歡讀書(shū)，我支持你，希望你結(jié)交朋友也像你讀書(shū)一樣，選擇朋友是最為重要的，你選擇好書(shū)去讀，也一定選擇好人去交。見(jiàn)賢思齊，寫(xiě)在你們的教學(xué)樓上，你一定要思考它的含義，一定把它記在心頭，一定要這樣去做，那么你一定會(huì)成為優(yōu)秀的人。人最難的就是始終如一。對(duì)你說(shuō)得似乎太多了，說(shuō)多了，你會(huì)累的。越是泥濘的路，越能留下人生堅(jiān)實(shí)的蹤跡。爸爸也過(guò)一次兒童節(jié)，爸爸就是老頑童，愿我們都快樂(lè)。你、爸爸、媽媽永遠(yuǎn)在