【正文】 ou 39。s a horrible your life by the rule of your spouse, your children, your parents, your friends, with all of your to them what they need, and show them not cruelty nor disapproval nor coldness nor disappointment, but only your soul to not only your loved ones, but your neighbors … your coworkers … strangers … your brothers and sisters in 5 anyone you meet a smile, a kind word, a kind gesture, a helping not only neighbors and strangers … but your person who is cruelest to you, who has been unkind to you … love is a tortured soul, and most in need of your most of all, love others may criticize you, learn not to be so hard on yourself, to think that you’re ugly or dumb or unworthy of love … but to think instead that you are a wonderful human being, worthy of Happiness and love … and learn to love yourself for who you , know that I love you and always are starting out on a weird, scary, daunting, but ultimately incredibly wonderful journey, and I will be there for you when I , Your Dad in Japan一位偉大而又平凡的父親，一封情真意切的信。ve been thinking a lot about the life that you have ahead of you, about my life so far as I reflect on what I39。[3] You are young, and life has yet to take its toll on you, to throw disappointments and heartaches and loneliness and struggles and pain into your have not been worn down yet by long hours of thankless work, by the slings and arrows of everyday life。ve with any advice, take it with a grain of works for me might not work for you。[7] 對這種人你除了學(xué)會和其接觸無計可施，同時你也要學(xué)會擇友，選擇那些對你友善的，那些真正關(guān)心你的，那些令你對自己感到很好的人做朋友。接受挫敗并學(xué)會堅持，不畏風(fēng)險地追求你的夢想。讓這些痛苦成為你通向更美好生活的墊腳石，并學(xué)會利用它們讓自己更堅強(qiáng)。t let that close you to new 39。如果你拒絕接觸新人群，并不向他們敞開心扉，你會避免受傷……但是同時也失去了認(rèn)識這些不可思議的人的機(jī)會，他們會在你生命最困難的時刻陪伴著你，并帶給你人生當(dāng)中最美好的時光。t a Competition [14] 你會遇到一些人他們總是試圖超過你，在中學(xué)，大學(xué)，在工作中。與之相反，學(xué)會享受它，讓之成為快樂之旅，永恒的學(xué)習(xí)之旅，持久的進(jìn)步之旅以及愛之旅。與之相反，學(xué)會滿足你已經(jīng)擁有的然后學(xué)會利用你原本想要浪費(fèi)在為掙錢買這些東西的時間去做你真正熱愛的事。t settle for a job that pays the is too short to waste on a job you hate。[19] Some would live by the rule of lives will be stressful, unhappy and shallow。s a horrible panion。給你遇到的任何一個人一個微笑，一句善語。當(dāng)別人批評你時，學(xué)著不要強(qiáng)加自己，去認(rèn)為自己丑，笨或者不值得去愛…而要想著自己是一個很完美的人，值得擁有幸福和真愛…并學(xué)會愛現(xiàn)在的自己。那天中午，我回家，你高呼，奇跡出現(xiàn)了。馬上上初中了，是不是也應(yīng)該有自己的規(guī)劃了呢。爸爸希望你遇到什么問題，一定要堅強(qiáng)，一定要想到船到橋頭自然直，一定會有辦法的。人最難的就是始終如一。你、爸爸、媽媽永遠(yuǎn)在一起。越是泥濘的路，越能留下人生堅實的蹤跡。你喜歡讀書，我支持你，希望你結(jié)交朋友也像你讀書一樣，選擇朋友是最為重要的，你選擇好書去讀，也一定選擇好人去交。你是一個善良敦厚的孩子，我相信這個品質(zhì)是有血統(tǒng)的，也將永遠(yuǎn)流淌在你的血液里。明天是兒童節(jié)，你最后一次度過了。[26] Finally, know that I love you and always are starting out on a weird, scary, daunting, but ultimately incredibly wonderful journey, and I will be there for you when I 。對你最殘酷的人，對曾經(jīng)對你不善的人…愛他。向他們敞開靈魂。[21] 還有一些人他們?yōu)檎x而生努力展示其道路的正確性，并試圖勸服任何一個不以正義為生活準(zhǔn)則的人。s a single word you should live your life by, it should be this: might sound corny, I know … but trust me, there39。[17] 找到你的激情，堅持不懈地追求它。s a you spend that journey always trying to impress others, to outdo others, you’re wasting your , learn to enjoy the it a journey of Happiness, of constant learning, of continual improvement, of love。ll try to have nicer cars, bigger houses, nicer clothes, cooler them, life is a petition — they have to do better than their peers to be happy。[13] 你會失敗多次但是如果你讓失敗打到了你，不再努力，你就會錯過那種當(dāng)你達(dá)到成就新高度的難以言喻的成就感。如果你把自己關(guān)在愛的門外，你就會錯過這個女子，和你生命中最快樂的時光。不要逃避生活，不要躲藏，抑或封閉自己。ll have to learn to deal instead of letting these things get you down, push disappointment and learn to persevere, to pursue your dreams despite to turn negatives into positives, and you39。[8] 有時你會遭遇挫折而非成功。[6] There will be people in your life who won39。[4] For this, be are at a wonderful stage of have many wonderful stages of life still to e, but they are not without their costs and perils。t be able to understand this letter today, but someday, when you39。[1] You39。s a single word you should live your life by, it should be this: might sound corny平淡的。ll try to have nicer cars, bigger houses, nicer clothes, cooler them, lif