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What have you experienced this year? What have you learned from them? With every experience we face, there are important things to learn. We can either let these incidences paus by, or we can stop to understand, internalize them, and draw lessons from them. Life is your school, and the lessons are dressed up as your everyday incidences. You don’t want to be living year after year without learning from your experiences. That’s just sleepwalking your life away. 這一年,你經(jīng)歷了些什么?從中你又學(xué)到了些什么?我們面對的每一次經(jīng)歷,都有一些重要的東西值得學(xué)習(xí),我們可能會讓發(fā)生的這些事情就從我們的生命中匆匆而過,或者我們也可以選擇停下來,理解并消化這些經(jīng)歷,從中學(xué)到經(jīng)驗教訓(xùn)。你也不想年復(fù)一年只是過生活,卻從不從經(jīng)歷中學(xué)到些什么吧,那樣的話,你只是在夢游度日?,F(xiàn)在回頭看看我2020年的總結(jié),我學(xué)到的最重要的一課是“我們對生活環(huán)境的反應(yīng)是一種選擇”,取決于我們?nèi)绾谓鉀Q遇到的情況。其實那時候我是個很積極向上的人,但是當(dāng)時的情況完全不在我的掌控下,讓我也變得消極了。我也可以選擇采取行動做到。這也讓我意識到,我們許多人在遇到不利狀況時,總是背負(fù)了太多不必要的包袱,只要采取行動,我們就能創(chuàng)造想要的生活。 Because I would write down lessons I learned each time (in my life handbook), I could then build upon my learnings. Rather than deja vuing through life situations, every time I would think about how I could apply what I had learned earlier and how I could do something different. As a result, I kept moving forward in my growth. 因為我每次都會記下學(xué)到的經(jīng)驗教訓(xùn)(在我的生活手冊里),所以我從所學(xué)中慢慢成長。就這樣,我在成長的路上一步步前進。生活中有一些起起落落?你升職了?最近剛辭職進入新的工作環(huán)境?剛開始創(chuàng)業(yè)?搬到新地方?剛結(jié)束一段不快樂的感情?走出了一段很糟的伙伴關(guān)系?發(fā)生了很多大事?也或許沒什么重要的事情發(fā)生? This is the time to wrap up the year. It’s time to let go of past baggage, tie up the loose ends, tidy up your feelings, and get ready for what’s ahead. 現(xiàn)在是該打包這一年的事了,也是時候放下這些過去的包袱,做一些收尾讓工作有始有終,收拾起情緒,準(zhǔn)備迎接即將到來的新一年。然后不知不覺,工作就很容易變成例行公事的老套路。 It’s just like driving. When you’re driving in a car, it can be hard to see where you are and where you’re