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not your teeth with the table cloth napkin,fork, or knife。neither gaze about you while you are ;喝東西時也不要直直地環(huán)視四周。let not your morsels be too ;一口別吃太多。Speak not evil of the absent, for it is ,因為這樣很不公平。make not many digressions。Undertake not what you can not perform but be careful to keep your ,但要注意遵守諾言。Treat with men at fit times about business and whisper not in the pany of ,也不要在別人面前竊竊私語。Think before you speak。give not advice without being asked, and when desired do it ;在沒被問及的情況下不要給別人建議,當(dāng)被問及時,建議要簡短。Detract not from others, neither be excessive in ,也不要過度指揮別人。Speak not injurious words, neither in jest nor earnest。Associate yourself with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation。Be not hasty to believe hasty flying reports to the disparagement of 。Use no reproachful language against any one。and if you deliver any thing witty and pleasant, abstain from laughing thereat 。and in preproving show no sign of color but do it with all sweetness and ,考慮一下是該在公共場合還是在私下里,是現(xiàn)在還是另找時間;以何種措辭進行;而且在批評別人時,不要面露怒色,而是要態(tài)度溫和親切。Being to advise or reprehend any one, consider whether it ought to be in public or private, and presently or at some other time。Strive not with your superior in argument, but always submit your judgement to others with ,但可以謙虛地向別人提出自己的觀點。Let your discourse with men of business be short and 。Show not yourself glad at the misfortune of another though he were your ,即使他是你的敵人。Let your countenance be pleasant but in serious ,但在嚴(yán)肅場合時要莊重。lift not one eyebrow higher than the other, wry not the mouth, and bedew no man’s face with your spittle by approaching too near him when you ,不要晃動腿和腳;不要骨碌碌轉(zhuǎn)眼睛;不要挑高一邊的眉毛,也不要撇嘴,和人說話時不要靠對方太近而使唾液濺到對方臉上。Shake not the head, feet, or legs。walk not on when others ,不要睡覺;別人站立時,不要坐下;該保持安靜時不要講話;別人停下時不要前進。sit not when other stand。If you cough, sneeze, sigh, or yawn, do it not loud but