【正文】 ly his mistakes, but︵ also those︵ of his family and culture. A loser has difficulty giving↗ and receiving︵ affection. He does not enter︵ into intimate,↗ honest,↗ direct relationships with︵ others. Instead, he tries to manipulate them into living︵ up to his expectations▼ and channels his energies into living︵ up to their expectations. 參考譯文 失 敗 者 盡管成功立業(yè)的能力與生俱來，人們出生之際也是無助的，完完全全地依賴環(huán)境而生存。他竭盡力之所能，使這個(gè)世界成為更加美好的地方。他有一顆關(guān)注的心、同情的心，全身心致力于提高人生的質(zhì)量。 成功者關(guān)注世界，關(guān)心他人。為了未來的享受更加豐厚，他可以在時(shí)下約束自己，追求自己的目標(biāo)，他無所畏懼，但總是行之有道，不逾規(guī)矩。他享受成功的樂趣而問心無愧；他分享他人的成就而心無 芥蒂。成功者對(duì)人生充滿了熱忱。他無須以既定的、僵硬的方式用出回應(yīng)。他傾聽他人的意見，評(píng)估他們的話語，可是結(jié)論要由自己作出，他可以欽慕、敬重別人，可是他決不為他人所局限、所束縛，不會(huì)對(duì)他們敬若神靈。他能夠區(qū)分出哪些是事實(shí)、哪些是觀點(diǎn)。他實(shí)現(xiàn)獨(dú)特的永不重復(fù)的自我，同時(shí)也尊重他人的獨(dú)特性。成就并不是最重要的，活得真實(shí)才是。每一個(gè)人都可以憑自己的努力成為一個(gè)有價(jià)值、有頭腦、有感悟、有創(chuàng)造力、有成就的人，即成功者。每一個(gè)人都可以以其獨(dú)特的方式觀察、 傾聽、觸摸、體味和思索大千世界。t have to respond ︵ in predetermined,↗ rigid ways. He can change his plans when the situation calls for︵ it. A winner has︵ a zest for life. He enjoys work,↗ play,↗ food,↗ other people,↗ and the world︵ of nature.↘ Without guilt he enjoys his own acplishments. Without envy he enjoys the acplishments︵ of ︵ others. Although a winner can freely enjoy himself, he can also postpone︵ enjoyment. He can discipline himself in the present▼ to enhance his enjoyment︵ in the future. He is not︵ afraid to go after what he wants▼ but does so in︵ appropriate ways. He does not get his security by controlling others. A winner cares︵ about the world and︵ its people. He is not︵ isolated from the general problems︵ of society. He is concerned, ↗ passionate↗ and mitted to improving the quality of life. Even︵ in the face︵ of national↗ and international︵ adversity, he does not see himself︵ as totally powerless. He does what he can to make the world▼ a better place. 參考譯文 成 功 者 每一個(gè)人生來就是一個(gè)先前從未存在過的嶄新的個(gè)體。 Each human being is born︵ as something new, something ▼that never existed before. He is born with what he needs▼ to win at life. Each person in his own way▼ can see,↗ hear,↗ touch,↗ taste,↗ and think for himself.↘ Each has his unique potentials, his capabilities︵ and limitations. Each can be a significant,↗ thinking,↗ aware,↗ and creatively productive person▼ in his own righta winner. Winners have different potentials. Achievement︵ is not the most︵ important thing. Authenticity is. The authentic person experiences the reality of himself▼ by knowing himself,↗ being himself,↗ and being a credible,↗ responsive person. He actualizes his ︵ own ︵ unprecedented uniqueness▼ and appreciates the uniqueness︵ of︵ others. A winner is not︵ afraid to do his︵ own thinking▼ and to use his︵ own knowledge. He can separate facts from︵ opinion↗ ▼and doesn39。你的難題終將解決。嚴(yán)冬必然會(huì)化為春光。歷史告訴我們，每一個(gè)難題都有始有終，任何難題都不會(huì)永遠(yuǎn)存在。 歸根結(jié)底，堅(jiān)韌的人之所以能挺過艱難的歲月，是因?yàn)樗麄冞x擇積極地去應(yīng)對(duì)困境。難題能對(duì)你產(chǎn)生什么樣的影響呢？它可以使你脆弱，也可以使你堅(jiān)強(qiáng)；它可以使你升華，也可以使你痛苦。對(duì)于人生中看似無法控制的難題，當(dāng)你能夠控制自己的應(yīng)對(duì)，那么你就事實(shí)上控制了難題對(duì)你的影響。譬如，遭遇一次嚴(yán)重的經(jīng)濟(jì)挫折，究竟怎么做才稱得上積極應(yīng)對(duì)呢？放棄而后潛逃？借酒澆愁？吸毒麻醉？抑或自殺？這樣的逃避是積極應(yīng)對(duì)嗎？當(dāng)然不是！這樣一些消極的反應(yīng)似乎暫時(shí)解決了迫在眉睫的難題，但事實(shí)上只會(huì)招致更棘手的難題。你既可以把痛苦轉(zhuǎn)換為怨天尤人的詛咒，也可以賦予之以詩意，這全在于你自己的選擇。隨著時(shí)間的推移，一切難題都會(huì)迎刃而解。 人生也有興衰起伏，不會(huì)有人一生都時(shí)乖命蹇。還是接受這個(gè)事實(shí)吧。不錯(cuò)，人人有本難念的經(jīng)。s the bottom line. What will︵ you let this problem do to you?↘ It can make you tender↗ or tough.↘ It can make you better↗ or bitter.↘ It all depends︵ on you. In the final︵ analysis, the tough people who survive the tough times do so▼ because they39。s all︵ in how they perceive their problems. Yes, every living person has problems. A problemfree life is︵ an︵ illusiona mirage︵ in the desert. Accept that fact. Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point. Life has its ups︵ and downs,↗ its peaks︵ and its valleys.↘ No one is︵ up all the time,↘ nor︵ are they down all the time. Problems do end. They are all resolved︵ in time. You may not be able to control the times, but you can pose︵ your response. You can turn your pain︵ into profanity or into poetry. The choice︵ is︵ up to you. You may not have chosen your tough time, but you can choose how you will react to it. For instance, ↗ what is the positive reaction▼ to a terrible financial setback?↘ In this situation↗ would it be the positive reaction to cop︵ out and run︵away?↗ Escape through alcohol, ↗ drug,↗ or suicide?↘ No! Such negative reactions only produce greater problems▼ by promising a temporary solution to the pressing problem. The positive solution to a problem▼ may require courage to initiate it. When you control your reaction to the seemingly uncontrollable problem︵ of life, then︵ in fact you do control the problem39。 English Recitation School of Froeign Languages Contents 101. Every Living Person Has Problems ........................................................................................................... 4 102. Winners ................................................................................................................................................. 5 103. Losers ................................................................................................................................................... 7 104. If I Were a Boy Again .............................................................................................................................. 8 105. I Dread the End of the Year .................................................................................................................... 10 106. Are These the Best Years of Your Life? .................................................................................................... 11 107. Pain and Growth ................................................................................................................................... 12 108. The Nature of Happiness.................................................