【正文】 can municate with them in a correct way,not only by words,but also by body think that it is important in our lives to show and learn body language.Body Language (Ⅲ)The very best instrument there is for finding out what is going on with a person is her state of the body will be a reflection of her overall information is very useful,both to the person herself and to a process facilitator.The best thing is if the person herself is in tune with her body and she feels what is going on with even if she doesn’t,the facilitator will be able to pick up much information.A person’s external body language speaks observing somebody’s posture,eye movements,breathing and skin color,you can gain information about what she is doing in her can get the same information by listening to the qualities of her tone of this is without being psychic,just by looking and you add a bit of ESP to it,it just gets much easier.Body language is a big subject and to master the reading of it to perfection requires a good deal of training and we will just present some of the most practical things you can notice.In the absence of knowing what different body movements mean,you can simply notice when there is a change in the client’s example,if she is sitting perfectly still and suddenly starts twitching or moving her eyes—that is a if she changes her rate of breathing—that is a change.Let’s say you have asked the client to close her eyes and move back to a past first she is just sitting still,her eyes not suddenly you can see her eyes moving behind her eyelids and her head is jerking a little bit,and maybe her breathing gets ,that most likely means that she found an ,she might not herself have noticed she has the incident right there,but consciously she might not have acknowledged ,if she doesn’t start speaking by herself you can say “What’s that?”,or “What do you see?”If we are dealing with an incident,the body will often show what is in it,or how she relates to her eyeballs are moving,it means that there is something to look she suddenly breathes painingly,it means something exciting or stressful is going on.If the client is leaning forward,she is probably into the incident,involved directly in the she is leaning back,she is probably seeing it from a distance.You can not be sure,just from a specific body motion,what is going it gives you a very good when you notice the changes in response to your you ask “Is there another viewpoint in the incident?” and she suddenly leans back,that probably means that it is an external viewpoint,seeing things from a distance.There are a whole set of signals that tell you what kind of perceptions the person is make things simple,we can divide body perceptions into visual,auditory,and kinesthetic,sounds,and is not only what the person mostly takes in the present,it is also mostly what she has stored in her of what you find in the mind is made out of some sort of bination of pictures,sounds,and the person accesses an item in her mind her body will tend to reflect what kind of information it is,if it predominantly has pictures,sounds,or feelings.Feeling has a low frequency,it is slow and has a higher frequency,it is faster,more is high frequency,fast and qualities show in various ways in the body.A person will breathe shallowly and high in the chest when accessing visual will breathe deeply and slowly when accessing kinesthetic somewhere in between when accessing auditory information.When accessing visual information,the person will tend to look up,straighten up her body,and make gestures into accessing auditory,she will tend to look to the side,maybe slant her head and cross her accessing kinesthetic,she will tend to look down and slump over.The person will speak faster and more highpitch when accessing visual information than when accessing auditory accessing kinesthetic she will speak with a lower,slower tone of voice.You can be more or less of a specialist in interpreting all these bod