【正文】 那么，怎樣才能真正獨處呢?When you spend time in solitude, you?re free from the influences of other people, and can trulyopen yourself and explore whatever you?d where your thoughts take goldenticket here is to not let yourself bee distracted。這時，你就要問問自己：What parts of myself could I do without? 我有哪些可以完全拋棄的性格?How do I get in my own way? 有哪些品性會妨礙我的成長?Is there anything I?m hiding from myself? 我對自己是不是足夠誠實坦白?Don?t be afraid of what es out。而這種直覺恰好是我們探索結(jié)果的潛在自我。下次感到不安時，不管有多害怕，也請試著勇敢面對吧。呼出呼吸，更多新奇與經(jīng)歷又將拉開序幕。當(dāng)悲傷來襲時，試著深呼吸，然后直面它。我們假裝一切仿佛都不曾發(fā)生，以此試圖忘卻傷痛，可就算隱藏得再好，最終也還是騙不了自己。森羅萬象紛至沓來，各種欲望隨之而生，使我們騰不出工夫想死亡。并且，由于經(jīng)驗少而感情盛，誤以為自己也能和大自然一樣永世長存。and feel inourselves all the vigor and spirit to keep pace with it, and do not foresee from any presentsymptoms how we shall be left behind in the natural course of things, decline into old age, anddrop into the ——生機盎然，變動不居，日新月異。So, in the mencement of life, we set no bounds to our inclinations, nor to the unrestrictedopportunities of gratifying ，我們聽任自己的志趣馳騁，放手給它們一切滿足的機會。Death, old age, are words without a meaning that pass by us like the idea air which we regard ，老年，不過是空話，毫無意義。There is a feeling of Eternity in youth, which makes us amendfor ——它能彌補一切。s was stillyoung though his faults were had not yet entered the deep dark cave, and he was still freeto walk on the road which leads to the peaceful and sunny ，所有這些只是一個夢，一個他在新年之夜所做的夢，他仍然年輕，雖然他犯的錯誤是真實的；他尚未走入那幽深黑暗的洞穴，還有自由選擇通向安寧、快樂的道路：Those who still linger on the entrance of life hesitating to choose the bright road remember thatwhen years are passed and your feet stumble on the dark will cry bitterly, but invain.“0h youth return!Oh give me back my early days!” 仍在人生路口徘徊，仍在為是否應(yīng)當(dāng)選擇光明坦途而猶豫不決的人們啊，請記?。寒?dāng)青春不再，當(dāng)你在黑暗的山嶺間跌倒時，你會痛苦地呼喊：“啊，青春，回來吧！啊，還給我往昔吧！”此時，一切已是徒勞。他又記起和自己一同邁入人生之途的兒時玩伴，j但他們已功成名就，在這個新年之夜，倍受尊崇，幸福快樂。He saw the lights flowing away in the darkness, and these were the days of his wasted life。一條路通向安寧、快樂的世界，鮮花遇布，果實豐碩，甜美輕柔的歌聲在空中回蕩；另一條路則通向幽深黑暗，沒有盡頭的洞，洞內(nèi)流淌著的不是水而是毒液，群魔亂舞，毒蛇嘶嘶爬動。他已走過通向墳?zāi)沟牧壟_階，除了錯誤和悔恨，他一無所獲。s aged man was standing at raised his mournful eyes towards the deep blue sky,where the stars were floating like white lilies on the surface of aclear calm he cast them on the earth where fewmore hopeless people than himself now moved towards theircertain goalthe had already passed sixty of the stagesleading to it, and he had brought from his journey nothing but errors and his healthwas poor, his mind vacant, his heart sorrowful, and his old age short of ，憂傷的眼睛眺望著深藍的天空空中的繁星，猶如漂浮在清澈如鏡的湖面上的朵朵百合。兩個人都為自己把思想、行為、生活的希望放在”如果和到那時“上感到慚愧?！盜F and WHEN both looked surprised, and suddenly realized that what the gentleman had said wasso of them were guilty of thinking,acting and living their life for the “ifs and whens39。男人繼續(xù)說從現(xiàn)在開始，數(shù)一下你們用了多少次?如果39。if and when39。if39。如果讓他認識到他們所面對的困難，恐怕他再也不會那樣說了。”“如果”和“到那時”吃驚地看著他，不知道他要做什么。msorry, but I couldn39。”然后，“到那時”繼續(xù)跟“如果”談?wù)撝男瞧谟媱潱Ｍ@樣能使他的朋友高興起來。但是它壞了，我無法打印簡歷，所以只能放棄了?！癢HEN knew exactly how IF felt.”Yeah,“ replied WHEN, ”I too saw a course and I am going toregister when I get enough money together.“ WHEN then said, ”well what about that new job youwere going to apply were so excited about it last week, did you apply?“ ”到那時“非常理解”如果“的感受。“IF looked at WHEN and replied, ”I39。This particular Saturday when they met, WHEN sensed that IF was not in a great usualthey sat at the table reserved for them and ordered their they placed their order,WHEN questioned IF.“IF what is wrong with you? You don39。美文:我們心中的“如果”“到那時”IF and WHEN were week they met and had conversation usually centered on all the things they weregoing to both had many dreams and they lovedto talk about them.“如果”和“到那時”是一對好朋友。它讓我們觸及藍天，它教會我們?nèi)绾紊妫o予我們一條特殊的路。人生也是一個學(xué)習(xí)的過程。假如我又回到了童年，我就要要求自己對伙伴和朋友更加禮貌，而且對陌生人也應(yīng)如此?！罢l拒愛于門外，也必將被愛拒諸門外。對一切禍福做好準備，那么就沒有什么災(zāi)難可以害怕的了。一位明智的作家曾說過：“世上沒有東西比勇氣更溫文爾雅，也沒有東西比懦怯更殘酷無情。我要采取一切可能的辦法，并且在一切可能的場合，增強記憶力。如果及早養(yǎng)成這種專心致志的習(xí)慣，它將成為我們生命的一部分。毅力在效果上有時能同天才相比?！贝蟪砸惑@的亞歷大繼而迅速回答道：“假如我不是亞歷山大，我就會是提奧奇斯。于是這位君主在大臣們的簇擁下走過去，對提奧奇尼斯說：“我是亞歷山大大帝。他認為財富、財產(chǎn)束縛了人們天生的自由狀態(tài)。t stand between me and the sun.”A surprised Alexander then replied quickly,“If I were not Alexander,I would be Diogenes.”提奧奇尼斯是公元前四世紀一位著名的希臘哲學(xué)家,就是他創(chuàng)立了犬儒派哲學(xué)。re starting to singso fine every shalala every wo39。wo still shines every shingalingaling that they39。re startingto sing so fine when they get to the part where he39。d sing along，it make me were such happy times and not so long ago how I wondered where they39。在爐柵邊，你彎下了腰，低語著，帶著淺淺的傷感，愛情是怎樣逝去，又怎樣步上群山，將面龐藏在了繁星之間。對于這樣的作品，我們不妨取其精華，去其糟粕。我不是說每一部作品都值得逐字逐句去閱讀?，F(xiàn)在的我通常沒有足夠的時間和精力去逐字逐句地閱讀一個可愛的故事。不過，我堅持我喜歡做的事，沒理會他們?！蔽叶嗝聪Ｍ约耗軌蛳?歲甚至更年幼的時候那樣，悠閑、有耐心、逐字逐句地進行閱讀。機遇就存在于生活的細節(jié)中?！盝ohn was very impressed and realized the difference between himself and decided not to resign but to learn from Bobby。老板讓約翰等一會兒，這時他把博比叫到辦公室。約翰去了并很快回來?；蛟S到時你會改變決定，收回辭呈。約翰再也無法忍受，沖動之下寫了一封辭職信，并抱怨老板不會用人，不重用那些敬業(yè)的員工，只提升那些奉承他的人。同樣的一件事，一個成功的人會看得更多更遠??John and Bobby joined a wholesale pany togther just after graduation from college the same worked very several years, however, the boss promoted Bobby to the posotion of manager but John remained an ordinary could not take it anymore, tendered his resignation to the boss and plained the boss did not know how to delegate and did not value hard working staff, but only promoted those who flattered him。工作中,我們需要一個對手,對自己橫挑鼻子豎挑眼,督促你發(fā)現(xiàn)不足,嚴要求,高標準。一個人假如沒有了對手,同樣難免會變得安于現(xiàn)狀,不思進取,知難而退,在怠惰和沒落中消沉。一般來講,許多人都會把推他“下河” 的人視為敵人,但只要仔細想一想,便會發(fā)現(xiàn)有一個強勁的推自己“下河”的人存在,未嘗不是一種福分,一種機遇。正在互相觀望之際,突然有一個男子“撲通”一聲跳了下去,然后以超乎尋常的速度游到對岸。Actually, this principle does not only apply to animals, but also apply to human is another was a rich man who was selecting a husband for his only child among a multitude of man led all the pursuers to a river and pointed to the crocodiles, saying, “Anyone who can swim across the river safe and sound will marry my daughter.” Those pursuers looked at each other and no one dare take the that moment, a man plunged into the river bravely and swam at a staggering speed to the other the people applauded for his courage with great sense of , the ma