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known businesswoman said, “At business lunches ,I always ask people what they did that ’s a mon question , but it will get things going.”__2__ And how he/she answers will let you know how far you can go. __3__ This point seems clear, but it isn’ questions should have a point and help to tell you what sort of person you are talking to find out that, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means the following two , it means not to change the subject of listening also means not just listening to words, but to the tones of the voice sounds dull, then it’s time for you to change the subject. Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the occasion of you’re saying goodbye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, “I’ve really enjoyed talking with you.”__5__ Let people know what you feel , and they may walk away feeling as if they’ve known you half their lives. A. From there you can move on to other matters— sometimes to really personal questions. B. Second, good talkers always listen before they cut in to respond. C. If someone sticks to one topic, you can take it as a fact that he’s really interested in it. D. If you want to see that person again, don’t keep it a secret. E. By carefully listenin