【正文】 he needs more inner room(也許他需要自己的一些個人空間), not just have to answer his girl39。s question or always hear his girl saying I don39。t think u love me enough　　Nikky：(01829) 15:41 yes good point. but it doesn39。t matter i am sure he has someone else now that his mother will like and has moved on so it is no big deal(沒有什么大不了的，口語).　　And i never said kind of not enough love things to him, was never under him bugging him hell(bug someone hell,使某人生厭煩，我從來沒有讓他感到厭煩過) he lived in another state he had all the room he needed(他住在另外一個州，擁有自己想有的所有空間).　　Brian：(01829) 15:45 no big deal? anyway, he is your first man, first itself is something we can hardly forget. Which state he live, and how long does it take for you to meet him .　　Nikky：(01829) 15:46 he lives in Virginia(維吉尼亞州) it takes 4 hrs by bus　　Brian：(01829) 15:47 and his current girlfriend didn39。t know anything about you and he? neither does she mind his exrelationship with you?　　Nikky：(01829) 15:48 i don39。t know if he is dating i am just assuming(我不知道他是否有了新女友，我只是在猜測)　　Brian：(01829) 15:49 but you told me you got to work and got to school , so you still have time for assuming ?　　Nikky：(01829) 15:50 i try not to think bout him at all　　Brian：(01829) 15:51 got to make him understand you can work and live without him and with no difference(讓他明白沒有他你照樣能活的很好). i hope not to defend you with the question: what about if you didn39。t give yourself to him, will you feel better, not like your current desperate situation.　　Nikky：(01829) 15:52 yeah, I guess I wouldn39。t feel like fool　　Brian：(01829) 15:53 I might as well ask u, are u going to get married or what?(or what,別的什么，經(jīng)常用于口語中)　　Nikky (01829) 15:54 or what? well, it is either yes or no , I don39。t know, I don39。t know the answer to that question. For the past 7 months the answer has been yes, but now I will say that it depends(這個口語詞組的使用頻率極高，it depends，那要看情況), I was thinking about all the people who haveu knowwho have gotten married and are now divorced(我在想那些結婚的人們?nèi)缃駞s又離婚了), I think if we had gotten married, we probably wouldn39。t still be together because of the pressure(所以如果當初我結婚了的話，可能現(xiàn)在早因為壓力而離婚了). so I am pouring out about me, tell me more about you？(我已經(jīng)把我的事情都告訴你了，你呢，什么情況？)　　Brian的小結：就我個人來講，說一句流利地道的句子比說出一個單詞要有成就感；說一大段流利地道的段落比說一句流利地道的句子要有成就感。所以我主張脫口而出很大一段，很多人告訴我這有點不現(xiàn)實，我連一句話都不知道該怎么說，你叫我怎么說一段呢？　　本小節(jié)的好句子：　　It39。s no big deal(沒什么了不起的)　　I don39。t know the answer, I39。m just assuming(猜測)　　It depends!　　Now I am pouring out about me, what about u? (我已經(jīng)把我的事情都告訴你了，你呢，什么情況？） david (2006919 10:07:51)英文ICQ狂聊記錄167。 　　Brian：(01829) 15:55 me? what you want to know from me, you can e up with the question cause i am not used to introducing myself just like a fool(我不想象一個傻子一樣自我介紹，還是你問吧).　　Nikky：(01829) 15:56 you are not a fool, u have me up talking to you and it is 4 am here(你當然不是傻子，你讓我一直在和你談話，你知道現(xiàn)在這里已經(jīng)凌晨4點了)　　Brian：(01829) 15:58 this is the best words I39。ve heard today, I told you I am in shanghai but actually not a local shanghainese, I came from another city. 　　Nikky：(01829) 15:59 do u have brothers and sisters?　　Brian：(01829) 16:00 i have a older brother who is also in shanghai and pursuing in the university for his (我有一個哥哥也在上海讀博士)　　Nikky：(01829) 16:01 to be doctor?(醫(yī)生么？)　　Brian (01829) 16:01 no, kind of material engineering major, he39。s a big motivator for me, he has a lot of influence in my life in terms of u know, inspiring me to always try to move to the next level(哥哥對我影響很大，總是激勵我，推向人生下一個目標). So we spend a lot of time, sort of like what we are supposed to do , and you? do you have brothers and sisters ?　　Nikky：(01829) 16:01 u make me envy u so much(很羨慕你), 1 brother older　　Brian：(01829) 16:02 what he does?　　Nikky：(01829) 16:03 he is in college for puters　　Brian：(01829) 16:05 that39。s pretty good, you know, just before the graduation, i really want to go to overseas for further studying after taking the tofle and GRE test, but i cannot e up with a good statement.　　Nikky：(01829) 16:06 why u would like to study here　　Brian：(01829) 16:06 and no university in US can afford me a 100% scholarship(拿不到全獎去了也是刷盤子), the facts of no scholarship or even half one will make me wash the dishes all the time, and it scares the shit out of me(俚語：想到這我就不寒而栗，scare the shit out of somebody).　　Nikky：(01829) 16:07 well, a lot of Chinese are doing quite well here in America, they are smart and hardworking and successful not just limited to the China Town(唐人街，或者中國城) and doing some dirty dishes job like what have imaged , so u don39。t need to have the panic(恐慌，害怕) like this.　　Brian：(01829) 16:08 u bet!(你說的很對，再次溫習)All of my years of trying to figure out stuff for myself, so I guess I have been able to look at my life in a way that I guess a lot of people have, I try to catalogue it. 　　Nikky：(01829) 16:09 u did! My friend　　Brian：(01829) 16:10 and for u, I think that the only way to think of it is that , u know, people39。re saying your wound, is your gold(傷痛是金), u know. Wherever u39。re hurt, that39。s where u bee stronger. So that39。s what, that39。s what it39。s really about(習慣用法：就是這樣).　　Nikky：(01829) 16:10 yeah, u say that, that39。s what it39。s really about. But I39。m still a bit not confident about the stuff I have, I mean, I just sort of a girl who is very easily to please or kinda satisfy, I am not as hard for my former boyfriend as to understand, I just couldn39。t figure out……(我是一個很容易滿足的女人，但我的前男友卻不這么想，我真不知道是為什么)　　Brian：(01829) 16:11 well, Nikky, did ever u hear the California beach story(有個加州海灘的故事), A man was walking along a California beach and stumbled across an old lamp(碰到了一舊燈). He picked it up and rubbed it and out popped a genie(打開后，跳出一魔鬼). 　　The genie said, OK! You released me from the lamp, This is the first time this month . You can get one wish!(你把我從里面放出來，我準你許個愿望) 　　Nikky：(01829) 16:12 what did he want?　　Brian：(01829) 16:12 The man sat and thought about it for a while and said, I39。ve always wanted to go to Hawaii b