【正文】 ，但并不是缺少就不行，如果沒有你就無法生存，那我就不能自由地愛你 . 5) Love means identifying with the person I . 6) Love is . 7) Love involves seeing the potential within the person we . LESSON 8 How I Designed an ABomb in My Junior Year at Princeton John Phillips will be out if flunking one more course→ he decided to design a workable nuclear bomb as his independent project→ asked a physicist to be his adviser, who posed a list of reference books for him→ went to Washington for declassified documents→ worked day and night on the design→ two problems still troubled him, the arrange of the explosives and which explosive to use→ when paper was due, ran through all the old calculations mathematically→ phone Dupont to confirm his calculations→ got one of the only A. LESSON 9 Forty Years On 1) I think goading is a good way to prod（ ） the children to behave well. In a way, goading is positive. As human beings, we all have the sense of selfrespect and will be proud of our little achievement. If there are occasions prods in the rear, we will in time be conscious of our inefficiency（ ） , and then press ourselves to achieve higher aims. Just as it affected John and his cousin, goading from time to time can prevent children from being proud of their little achievement. It can make them more modest and prudent（ ，精明的） . The modest receive benefit, while the conceited（自負） reap（獲得） failure. However, we could not say it is without any harm. Sometimes it might be harmful. It may disappoint children and cause them to lose heart. Perhaps they will collapse after one setback（挫折） . Therefore, only goading itself is not enough。 it must be bined with the proper method to carry it out. LESSON 10 On Friendship 1) American： Few Americans stay put for a friends flow in and out of americans’ house with little ceremony and little personal people， old and young， are called by first view friendship more tentatively， subject to changes in intensity as people move， change their jobs， marry， or discover new interests. 2) French： …is a onetoone relationship that demands a keen awareness of the other person’s intellect， temperament and particular interests….are not made part of family life. 3) Germany： is a matter of feeling， not so mu to polish their wits as to share their hopes ans fears and usually are brought into the family. 4) English： their basis is shared can take up just where you left can’t put up with misjudgement. 5) Friendship： choose and is individual give and take. 6) There are many important qualities in a friend。 In my opinion, the most important ones are listed as follows:First of all, a friend should have a keen awareness of the other person’s temperament and a friend, your best qualities will be drawn out and be example, if you have a friend who has a deep appreciation of a play, he will encourage you to develop this taste and therefore your own taste will be intensified , a friend should have shared activities with you, which might be of very different , in the middle of the activity, whatever it may be, you will fall into step and the friend can easily anticipate what you will do day by day or in some critical but not the least, a friend should learn how to give and take, he should identify with the other person’s different characters, feelings and even shortings, and care about each other’s growth. LESSON 11amp。12 Selling the Post Mother’s character： 1) selfreliant自立 : she brought two children up all by herself and made something of Russell. 2) Strict嚴格 : she always cited（ ） maxims to goad her son when he plained about difficulties. 3) Considerate 考慮周到的 : when she found Russell couldn’t make a success in the world of business, she didn’t stick to it but rather encouraged Russell to do something he was good at. Difference between young Russell and Doris Take the example of“gumption”， Baker lacked it but Doris had enough of it for a dozen people. Baker liked to do most was lying in front of the radio reading his favorite Big Little contrast， Doris liked dishes、 making beds、 cleaning the house and so she was only seven， she could carry a piece of shortweighted cheese back to the store， threaten the manager with legal action. Others： 1) a salesman should possess a quality of neversayquit spirit 2) gumption ia a spirit of improvement LESSON 13 How to Grow Old（詳見課后翻譯） 1) The recipe for keeping