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reasonable, but try not to let your eyes wander to whatever is going on around you.3.Reflect back.Restate, but don39。t repeat word for word. Paraphrase what you think the other part is saying with responses such as, “What I39。m hearing is...” or “Let me see if I39。m following you...” 4 4.Respond appropriately.Be open and honest in your responses. Share your thoughts, insights and feelings in a clear, but respectful and considerate manner even if you disagree.Active listening is a model for good munication. 5 It takes practice to develop active listening skills, and it39。s a habit that has to be reinforced (加強). Remind yourself that the goal of conversation is not merely to trade words, but to truly understand what the other party is saying and to be understood in turn.A.Maintain eye contact.B.Instead, focus on what is being said.C.You do not have to agree on everything.D.Also, set aside other internal thinking and dialogue.E.Listening is not something that es naturally or easily for most of us.F.Reflecting what you39。ve heard signals that you39。re attempting to understand fully.G.Remember that listening is not just to gather information and share ideas, but also to gain perspective and understanding.【語篇解讀】 文章主要說明人際交流中傾聽是很重要的環(huán)節(jié),并介紹了提高傾聽質(zhì)量的幾種技巧。1.解析:選E 根據(jù)空后一句“Instead,it is a skill that must be cultivated and practiced.”可知,相反它是一種需要培養(yǎng)和鍛煉的技能。E項“對于大多數(shù)人來說,傾聽并不是與生俱來的或者是非常簡單的?!迸c下文銜接緊密,符合語境。故選E。2.解析:選D 根據(jù)本段小標題“Give focused attention.”可知,本段內(nèi)容主要與專注有關(guān)。D項“同樣,將其他的內(nèi)心的思考與對話放到一旁?!狈险Z境。故選D。3.解析:選A 空處是本段的小標題。本段主要講述直接的眼神交流表現(xiàn)了你對傾聽的渴望和耐心。A項“保持眼神交流。”符合語境,適合作本段的小標題。故選A。4.解析:選F 根據(jù)本段小標題“Reflect back.”可知,本段內(nèi)容主要與作出回應(yīng)有關(guān)。F項“對你所聽到的內(nèi)容作出回應(yīng)標志著你想要完全地理解?!狈险Z境。故選F。5.解析:選G 空前講積極地傾聽是良好溝通的一種模式。G項“記住,傾聽不僅是為了收集信息,分享想法,也是為了獲得觀點和理解?!背薪由衔?,符合語境。故選G。 7