【文章內(nèi)容簡介】 你除了學(xué)會和其接觸無計(jì)可施，同時(shí)你也要學(xué)會擇友，選擇那些對你友善的，那些真正關(guān)心你的，那些令你對自己感到很好的人做朋友。When you find friends like this, hold on to them, treasure them, spend time with them, be kind to them, love them。當(dāng)你尋找到像這樣的朋友，就一定要堅(jiān)守這份友誼，珍惜他們，花些時(shí)間和他們在一起，友善的對待他們并愛他們。There will be times when you are met with disappointment instead of success. Life won39。t always turn out the way you want. This is just another thing you39。ll have to learn to deal with. But instead of letting these things get you down, push on. Accept disappointment and learn to persevere, to pursue your dreams despite pitfalls. Learn to turn negatives into positives, and you39。ll do much better in life。有時(shí)你會遭遇挫折而非成功。生活并不總會如你所愿。這是另一件你需要學(xué)會處理的事情。但你要挺住向前，而不是讓這些事讓你陷入低谷。接受挫敗并學(xué)會堅(jiān)持，不畏風(fēng)險(xiǎn)地追求你的夢想。學(xué)會把消極轉(zhuǎn)化為積極，之后你就能做的好得多。You will also face heartbreak and abandonment by those you love. I hope you don39。t have to face this too much, but it happens.你同樣會面臨心碎時(shí)刻以及你深愛的39。人的拋棄。我希望你無須經(jīng)歷太多此類事件，但如果不幸發(fā)生了Again, not much you can do but to heal, and to move on with your life. Let these pains bee stepping stones to better things in life, and learn to use them to make you stronger。再一次，除了慢慢愈合心中的創(chuàng)傷并繼續(xù)下去你的生活，你別無選擇。讓這些痛苦成為你通向更美好生活的墊腳石，并學(xué)會利用它們讓自己更堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。But Be Open to life Anyway但無論如何，都要張開雙臂擁抱生活Yes, you39。ll find cruelty and suffering in your journey through life … but don39。t let that close you to new things. Don39。t retreat from life, don39。t hide or wall yourself off. Be open to new things, new experiences, new people。是的，在你的生命歷程中你會遇到殘酷，煎熬……但不要讓這些讓你拒絕接受新鮮事物。不要逃避生活，不要躲藏，抑或封閉自己。擁抱新鮮事物，經(jīng)歷全新體驗(yàn)，接觸新的人。You might get your heart broken 10 times, but find the most wonderful woman the 11th time. If you shut yourself off from love, you39。ll miss out on that woman, and the happiest times of your life。你或許心碎了10次，但是在第十一次找到至愛。如果你把自己關(guān)在愛的門外，你就會錯(cuò)過這個(gè)女子，和你生命中最快樂的時(shí)光。You might get teased and bullied and hurt by people you meet … and then after meeting dozens of jerks, find a true friend. If you close yourself off to new people, and don39。t open your heart to them, you39。ll avoid pain … but also lose out on meeting some incredible people, who will be there during the toughest times of your life and create some of the best times of your life。你可能會被你遇到的人恥笑欺負(fù)傷害…而在見了一打這種稀奇古怪的人后，你會找到一個(gè)真正的朋友。如果你拒絕接觸新人群，并不向他們敞開心扉，你會避免受傷……但是同時(shí)也失去了認(rèn)識這些不可思議的人的機(jī)會，他們會在你生命最困難的時(shí)刻陪伴著你，并帶給你人生當(dāng)中最美好的時(shí)光。You will fail many times but if you allow that to stop you from trying, you will miss out on the amazing feeling of success once you reach new heights with your acplishments. Failure is a stepping stone to success。你會失敗多次但是如果你讓失敗打到了你，不再努力，你就會錯(cuò)過那種當(dāng)你達(dá)到成就新高度的難以言喻的成就感。失敗是成功之母。Love Should Be Your Rule愛應(yīng)該成為你的生活準(zhǔn)則If there39。s a single word you should live your life by, it should be this: Love. It might sound corny, I know … but trust me, there39。s no better rule in life。如果讓一個(gè)詞成為你的生活支撐的話，那它應(yīng)該是愛。也許這聽來已是老生常談，我也清楚… 但是請信任我，再沒有更好的生活準(zhǔn)則了。Some would live by the rule of success. Their lives will be stressful, unhappy and shallow。一些人以成功作為生活準(zhǔn)則。他們的生活會很緊張，不開心并且很淺薄。Others would live by the rule of selfishness — putting their needs above those of others. They will live lonely lives, and will also be unhappy。另一些人的生活準(zhǔn)則是個(gè)人利益他們將個(gè)人需要置于他人需要之上。他們孤獨(dú)一生，終究也不會快樂。Still others will live by the rule of righteousness — trying to show the right path, and admonishing anyone who doesn39。t live by that path. They are concerned with others, but in a negative way, and in the end will only have their own righteousness to live with, and that39。s a horrible panion。還有一些人他們?yōu)檎x而生努力展示其道路的正確性，并試圖勸服任何一個(gè)不以正義為生活準(zhǔn)則的人。他們關(guān)心他人，卻以一種消極的方式，最終懷抱追尋一生的正義而終，而正卻是一個(gè)糟糕的伴侶。Live your life by the rule of love. Love your spouse, your children, your parents, your friends, with all of your heart. Give to them what they need, and show them not cruelty nor disapproval nor coldness nor disappointment, but only love. Open your soul to them。用愛支撐你的生命。愛你的妻子，你的孩子，你的父母親，你的朋友，全心全意地去愛。給與他們你所需要的，不要流露出任何殘忍，不贊同，冷漠或者失望，只有愛。向他們敞開靈魂。Love not only your loved ones, but your neighbors … your coworkers … strangers … your brothers and sisters in humanity. Offer anyone you meet a smile, a kind word, a kind gesture, a helping hand。不僅僅愛你深愛的人，也要愛你的鄰居.。你的同事…甚至陌生人…他們是你廣義上的兄弟姐妹。給你遇到的任何一個(gè)人一個(gè)微笑，一句善語。一個(gè)友好的姿勢，一只援助之手。Love not only neighbors and strangers … but your enemy. The person who is cruelest to you, who has been unkind to you … love him. He is a tortured soul, and most in need of your love。不僅僅愛鄰居和陌生人…也要愛你的敵人。對你最殘酷的人，對曾經(jīng)對你不善的人…愛他。他是一個(gè)備受折磨的靈魂，最需要你的愛。And most of all, love yourself. While others may criticize you, learn not to be so hard on yourself, to think that you’re ugly or dumb or unworthy of love … but to think instead that you are a wonderful human being, worthy of Happiness and love … and learn to love yourself for who you are。最重要的是愛你自己。當(dāng)別人批評你時(shí)，學(xué)著不要強(qiáng)加自己，去認(rèn)為自己丑，笨或者不值得去愛…而要想著自己是一個(gè)很完美的人，值得擁有幸福和真愛…并學(xué)會愛現(xiàn)在的自己。Finally, know that I love you and always will. You are starting out on a weird, scary, daunting, but ultimately incredibly wonderful journey, and I will be there for you when I can. Godspeed.最后，要知道我愛你并且永遠(yuǎn)都會，你即將開啟一段有點(diǎn)奇怪，令人害怕，令人心悸但最終很不可思議的巧妙旅程，我永遠(yuǎn)會支持你。祝萬事如意。英語美文欣賞7If I were a boy again, I would cultivate courage. “Nothing is so mild and gentle as courage, nothing so cruel and pitiless as cowardice,” syas a wise author. We too often borrow trouble, and anticipate that may never appear.” The fear of ill exceeds the ill we fear.” Dangers will arise in any career, but presence of mind will often conquer the worst of them. Be prepared for any fate, and there is no harm to be freared. If I were a boy again, I would look on the cheerful side. Life is very much like a mirror: if you smile upon it, I smiles back upon you。 but if you frown and look doubtful on it, you will get a similar look in return. Inner sunshine warms not only the heart of the owner, but of all that e in contact with it. “ who shuts love out ,in turn shall be shut out from love.” If I were a boy again, I would school myself to say no more often. I might write pages on the importance of learning very early in life to gain that point where a yo