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sed day by day. The husband should be capable as well as practical, and at the same time be considerate for his wife. Namely, an ideal husband should do well both in career and family. Moreover, he should also be the reliance and spiritual mainstay for his wife.In family education, women are considered to be more important. They take care of the children and educate them since the babies are born. But in the writer’s opinion, father could not keep away from family education. It’s reported that most of the Nobel Prize winners are influenced by their fathers deeply since their childhood. The image of father is considered to be important in the formation of the children’s personality. With the acpany of the father, the children will bee more tough and more brave. To be a successful father and the protective god for the child is also an essential qualification for a perfect man. So as a man, he should pay attention to teaching the children.Ⅲ. Some Negative Phenomena and Their SolutionsA. Which Is More Important, Family or Career?Nowadays, under the fast development, the adults pay much attention to their career and neglect the munication with family members. When asked about their opinions of career and family, people always respond differently. Some people consider it more important to pursue their career, while there are always other people who argue that family should be the most important one in one’s life.It goes without any question that career plays a key role in our life. In the first place, career can give us an aim to live on. Without career, much of our living time will be certainly wasted. What’s more, career can provide us with a means to live on. Most of the people get their ine from a job. On the other hand, family is also an indispensable part of life, as many people will admit it. Family is always regarded as a place where people can escape from troubles in life. In addition, people can obtain a sense of belonging from family. Without it, anyone will feel lonely and desperate.Nowadays, it is a society filled with money and power, many people, especially the men pursue them at all costs. In order to get more money and dominating power, many men spend most of their time in working and not caring about their family members. In their eyes, family can be regarded as a hotel or just a place to rest. But in fact, no matter how rich a man is , he can only live for several decades. It’s said that the significance of the life is not measured by the length but the depth that counts.In the writer’s opinion, career and family are not in opposition to each other. Rather they can be bined with each other so that one’s life can bee better and better. Therefore, it’s not a choice between right and wrong, but one between ideal and practical. It’s no use to spend much more time in working instead of caring about family members. No matter how successful a man is in the work, he is still a loser if not having a happy family. Perfect family life is the final goal for everyone.B. Marriage’s Being Not Only for Love, but for Benefit “How much money do you have?” ”Do you have a beautiful house?” ”What’s the brand of your car?” These questions are familiar to us and they are frequently used in daily life. Nowadays, when two persons fall in love with each other, they should pay much attention to the reality. In some occasions, many lovers can not get married only because of lacking the martial support.In last generation, people get married and create a new family just because of love. But people’s attitude towards love and family has changed gradually with the developing of the society. Many people hold the idea that money is much more important in marriage than emotion. Everyone has his own idea towards marriage and love, we should not criticize their opinions. We can not but admit that love and marriage can’t last long without the material support. But this doesn’t mean that benefit is more important than emotion. People should establish the right attitude towards the relationship between love and benefit.It’s well known that family is the final arrangement for everyone. The biggest difference between home and hotel is that hotel is just a place for people to rest while home is full of love. So the family needs all the members to manage for it’s not the business for one single person. C。The Children’s Being Indifferent and Rebellious, Not Wanting to Communicate with Parents Nowadays, more and more parents find that their children bee indifferent and rebellious. Facing such problems, the parents always blame the children and criticize the teachers. In their opinions, they have spend much money in supporting their education and the responsibility for training the children have been passed to the schools and teachers. So if the children bee rebellious, the parents will blame the schools and teachers immediately. Most of them doesn’t realize that it’s the defects of the family education. And it’s also the defects of the whole Chinese family education. Talking about the defects, we can summarize them as the following points:Firstly, doting on the children and neglecting the education of nonintelligence elements. To love the children is the essentiality of the parents, but cosseting is the original love creating by the human beings. The doting degree of Chinese parents towards their children is situated in the first several places all around the world. Such kind of love is abnormal in the human beings. In such condition, the abnormal love will be enlarged and such ignorance will be changed into chains, and favor will be changed into trap. The strict Chinese parents’ neglecting the education of nonintelligence ele