【文章內(nèi)容簡介】 for three years and flowers can not stay in blossom for three months”. it39。s not so easy to maintain real friendship which needs mutual understanding, tolerance and sacrifice. any kinds of harsh treatment will damage friendship.amatory love has been a mystery for ages. there39。s neither a criterion to judge nor a mon rule to follow. nobody can tell the exact reasons why love emerges. it is not always because of beauty (the ugly doorkeeper quasimodo in the hunchback of notre dame is loved by the beautiful gypsy girl esmeralda), nor kindness (hitler also has his mistress), nor wisdom ( even the blockhead may sometimes marry a beautiful girl), nor strength (some love starts from sympathy). true love is like getting an electric shock, shaking our soul. it is a sweet dream, a kind of intoxication, indulgence, and endless passion.true love doesn39。t need a long time to grow up, to make clear the family tree of the other, neither does it needs the time to look ahead and behind again and again. love is not marriage, which usually starts from love, butdoesn39。t always depend on love to maintain. longlasting marriage can eventually turn into a kind of family love, a kind of panionship which preserves the panion but loses the passion. love is often an wink of the eye, or a smile that hints mutual understanding. in spite of the great distance between them, people may fall in love incidentally. hence the saying “a distant marriage is tied up with a mysterious thread”. love needs passion, and it can stand bumps and stumbles, ups and downs, plaints and blames. when it turns into a pool of water, especially dead water, without any billows or waves, it39。s time for it to die.delicacies are tasty, but eating everyday can still make one lose appetite. happiness is what everyone longs for, but too much happiness can spoil people who may not care about the happiness they already have. it39。s universal to live in happiness without knowing it. the same is true with love. very few people can love the same person passionately all their lives. all love stories e to an end no matter how beautiful they are, which also demonstrate the changeability of love. what one has been chasing wildly may turn into something one wants to get rid of desperately in the end. besides, love is usually blind, especially those who fall in love at the first sight. at the very beginning, both try to demonstrate their beautiful side and cover up their weakness. fooled by the mysterious color of love, one often mistakes the weaknesses as merits. however, as time passes by, frequent contacts make one bored, and even merits bee defects, and then the end of love is ing. what39。s more, there are the capricious men and women who never take love seriously, leaving the devoted ones suffering alone. the saying that the devoted is always abandoned by the heartless has almost bee the truth of love affairs. what we can39。t neglect is that love may turn into hatred, and lovers may also bee enemies. the best proof is the numerous spanorces.even though true love is hard to find nowadays, we still can see some true and infatuated boys and girls who readily give up their families, their parents, their studies, their careers and even their lives for love. they love so passionately, crazily and wildly that they hate anyone who is against their love, and may even harm or kill him if he insists on his objection.love has magical power that can exploit people39。s potential abilities, bring people39。s positive factors into full play, and provide people with the courage to face trials and hardships, to go through life and death, and even to risk universal condemnation. even in the ancient feudal society, some people were courageous enough to carry on clandestine love affairs. the examples in point were the courageous ones who dared to love the concubines of the emperors or the children of their foes. love also has miraculous power which can startle the universe and move the gods by attracting the heavenly celestials ing down to earth ( the love story of the cowboy and the weaving girl ), and by turning ghosts into human ( strange tales of liaozhai ). love can transcend age and generation (dr. sun yatsen and madam song qingling。 luxun and xu guangping). love can show contempt for all conventions and prejudices。 love can heal wounds and cure diseases, and love can readjust people39。s state of mind. of course, the result would be the opposite once it hurts.great men yearn for true love even more than ordinary people. since the ancient times, so many heroes couldn39。t help falling into the trap of love that the sextrap has been regarded as one of the 36 stratagems in military tactics. fuchai, the king of the wu state, couldn39。t be spared of this trap, and generals dongzhuo and lubu fell deeply into it while xiangyu, the king of the western chu state , bid farewell to his beloved concubine in tears. people may have to pay very high price, even their illustrious name for the love they long for even though it may last for only a very short time. nonetheless no one can tear himself away from love. people often say that their earthly affinity is not yet finished, but in fact it is the love affinity that is the most difficult to finish.love is shapeless and priceless. we can blame nobody when captured by it. love can not be forced, nor can it be pretended. sympathy is not love, neither is gratitude. love must be generated from the heart, and expressed in actions.