【正文】 驚。ve been handed)，不僅僅是接受別人給你的選擇。它是社會參與方面的斯坦?；?哈佛，是另一個柵欄，另一枚獎?wù)?。更糟糕的是，他們覺得提出這些問題是理所應(yīng)當(dāng)（feel pelled）的。s also going to make you a lot of money, in which case it39。是的，你會犯錯誤。s Gayle King!” Because a lot of people know Gayle King as my BFF [best friend forever].And so somebody es up to Kirby, and they say, “Ohmigod, is that Gayle King?” And Kirby39。clock curfew doing the 10 o39。re going to get another job without that degree.” So, in 1987, Tennessee State University invited me back to speak at their then, I had my own show, was nationally 39。s how you enrich your , trust me, I know that inner wisdom is more precious than more you spend it, the more you , today, I just want to share a few lessons—meaning three—that I39。re making $40,000!” When I turned 40, I was so glad that didn39。t like the way you look.” Now that would be called a lawsuit, but back then they could just say, “I don39。re an anchor, not a social do your job.” So, I was juggling these messages of expectation and obligation and feeling really miserable with 39。ve made—every right decision I39。m not going to stand up here and tell you that it39。ll get a you resist , if you ask the right question—not why is this happening, but what is this here to teach me?—it puts you in the place and space to get the lesson you friend Eckhart Tolle, who39。s saying, like Eckhart Tolle, that you have to live for the have to be in the has happened to you in your past has no power over this present moment, because life is I think she39。t describe to you or measure when I stopped just being on TV and looking at TV as a job and decided to use television, to use it and not have it use me, to use it as a platform to serve my alone changed the trajectory of my , I know this—that whether you39。t have to know Einstein39。You39。t all didn39。s A Whole New Mind: Why RightBrainers Will Rule the Future has reassured me I39。t know if you want , said, “Not everybody can be everybody can be great, because greatness is determined by service.” Those of you who are history scholars may know the rest of that said, “You don39。re in a mess, you get yourself out of the mess helping somebody out of in the process, you get to bee a member of what I call the greatest fellowship of all, the sorority of passion and the fraternity of Stanfords had suffered the worst thing any mom and dad can ever endure, yet they understood that helping others is the way we help this wisdom is increasingly supported by scientific and sociological 39。s a lesson that applies to all of our lives as a matters most is what39。t get the lesson, it shows up wearing another pair of pants—or skirt—to give you some remedial what I39。s also empathy and joyfulness and purpose, inner traits that have transcendent qualities bloom when we39。re getting 39。d e across a list of words I didn39。t feel 39。t believe it!You39。t 39。d say, “But, Dad, now I39。m just going to forget it, 39。ve been allowed on campus since Kirby39。（Don39。追求自己的理想和激情是自私的，除非它能讓你賺很多錢。我想沖出這些牢籠。它享有盛名，很難進入，是值得你和父母夸耀的東西，如果寫在簡歷上會很好看（it looks good on your r233。道德想象力意味著創(chuàng)造自己新生的能力（envision new ways to live your life）。自我效能或更熟悉的說法“自我尊重”（selfesteem）?！斑M入”就是能力的證明，“進入”就是勝利。（That39。我并不是說因為選擇鉆研數(shù)學(xué)，你在充分發(fā)展話語表達能力的潛力方面就失敗了；也不是說除了集中精力學(xué)習(xí)地質(zhì)學(xué)之外，你還應(yīng)該研究政治學(xué)；也不 是說你在學(xué)習(xí)鋼琴時還應(yīng)該學(xué)吹笛子。第一篇：William 我的題目提出的問題，當(dāng)然，是一個傳統(tǒng)地面向人文科學(xué)的專業(yè)所提出的問題：學(xué)習(xí)文學(xué)、藝術(shù)或哲學(xué)能有什么實效價值（practical value）？你肯定納悶，我為什么在以科技堡壘而聞名的斯坦福提出這個問題呢？大學(xué)學(xué)位給人帶來眾多機會，這還有什么需要質(zhì)疑的嗎？但 那不是我提出的問題。畢竟，專業(yè)化的本質(zhì)就是要專業(yè)性。s why older people are so boring.）“哎，我爸爸曾經(jīng)是非常聰明的人，但他現(xiàn)在除了談?wù)撳X和肝臟外再無其他。先進入斯坦福，然后是約翰霍普金斯醫(yī)學(xué)院，再進入舊金山大學(xué)做實習(xí)醫(yī)生等。她說在考試中得了優(yōu)秀的有些學(xué)生會說“我得優(yōu)秀是因為試題很簡單。它意味著不隨波 逐流（going with the flow），不是下一步要“進入”什么名牌大學(xué)或研究生院。sum233?！保ā癢hen the soul of a man is born in this country there are nets flung at it to hold it back from talk to me of nationality, language, shall try to fly by those nets.”）今天，我們面臨的是其他的網(wǎng)。那樣的話，就一點兒也不自私了。t play it safe.）去拒否（RESIST）我們社會給予了過高獎賞的那些卑怯的價值觀的誘惑：舒服、方便、安全、可預(yù)測的、可控制的。s been see, Kirby39。cause, you know, I39。m a talk show host.” He39。ve just bee more of yourself.” And that is really what we39。re making $22,000 and you39。m not going to change my if people remember it or not, that39。t know and I39。s how do you know when you39。re doing what we love, when we39。ve found is that difficulties e when you don39。s matters most is the sense of integrity, of quality and got that what I know is that the girls came away with something, have emerged from this more resilient and knowing that their voices have their resilience and spirit have given me more than I could ever give to them, which leads me to my final lesson—the one about finding happiness—which we could talk about all day, but I know you have other wacky things to a small topic this is, finding in some ways I think it39。s no longer just woowoo softskills 39。t have to have a college degree to don39。m in the right really wanted to give you cars but I just couldn39。t have a d。08!Thank you第三篇：喬布斯在斯坦福大學(xué)演講全文喬布斯在斯坦福大學(xué)演講全文：39。t have to know about Plato or Aristotle to don39。s high, a spiritual surge you gain from serving , if you want to feel good, you have to go out and do some when you do good, I hope you strive for more than just the good feeling that service provides, because I know this for sure, that doing good actually makes you , whatever field you choose, if you operate from the paradigm of service, I know your life will have more value and you will be was always happy doing my talk show, but that happiness reached a depth of fulfillment, of joy, that I really can39。s called “Speech to the Young : Speech to the ProgressToward.” And she says at the end, “Live not for battles won./ Live not for theendofthesong./ Live in the along.” She39。s whisper, because life always whispers to you if you ignore the whisper, sooner or later you39。s pretty 39。re supposed to do something or not supposed to do something, your emotional guidance system lets you trick is to learn to check your ego at the door and start checking your gut right decision I39。s not going too should try being at the same time, my dad was saying, “Oprah Gail, this is an opportu