【正文】 elief or other routine according to the requirements of the wife. If the husband can accept wife’ suggestions, that is ok. But if the husband really will not change, women should remember never to force the husband to do it. Even though you two are couple now, respect is also needed between you. Respect can make the partner have their own secret or make the other part fortable.Women should not only respect husbands but also the children. In today’s society there are some cases that 英語畢業(yè)論文 ivthe mother or the father read the child’s private letters or diaries, which is against the law. Every person has his own secret which he does not want to be found by others including the parents. Even though the parents say that they do this because they love children and care about their growth and do not want them to get into the trouble. But children also have something belonging to their own. So respect is also important to the happiness of a harmonious family.3. LoveBesides trust and respect, love of course is the essence of a family. Some people say that marriage is the grave of love. Maybe it is partly because that after people getting married the sweet love which make lovers attractive to each other disappear slowly. A family without love is like a building without foundation and framework, then the building of family gets ruined day by day until all the whole building falls into pieces and nothing remains.People say “l(fā)ove is stronger than death.” Melanie has the energy to take the danger of miscarriage and death, which is because she has a great love for her husband and child. Love is powerful, which can make a poor family happy. Even though some families are not so rich as others, they are still harmonious ones admired by the rich ones, for what the rich families lack is just what the poorer family has—love, which can not be brought by money, or be measured by money. Love is valuable. Love is the essence of the family and women should always be full of love which makes her attractive and mercy and favorable to others. Ⅳ. Suggestions on How to Achieve Success in Interpersonal Relationship for a WomanInterpersonal relationship is an initial part of life. Every one is part or unit of this integrated society. Nobody can live in the society without munication with others. So interpersonal relationship is what women should care about. In terms of interpersonal relationship, Scarlet and Melanie are of two different styles. Both set a good example to a woman who intends to achieve success in this field.A. to Learn from Scarlet and Use One’s Beauty Properly to Attract OthersScarlet in Gone with the Wind attracted almost every man she met. Just like in the first paragraph of Gone with the Wind:Scarlet O’Hara was not beautiful, but men seldom realized it when caught by her charm as the Tarleton twins are. In her face were two sharply blended the delicate features of her mother, a coast aristocrat of French descent, and the heavy ones of her florid Irish father. But it was an arresting face, painted of chin, square of jaw. Her eyes were pale green without a touch of hazel, starred with bristly black lashes and slightly titled at the ends. Above them, her thick black brows slanted upwards…She has the smallest waist in three counties. (Margaret, 3)Scarlet knew the arts and graces of being attractive to man. She knew how to smile so that her dimples leaped。她們渴望社會(huì)認(rèn)可，發(fā)揮潛力；渴望魅力四射，展示自我；渴望獨(dú)立進(jìn)取，事業(yè)成功；渴望婚姻美滿，人生幸福，但要真正成為這樣的成功女性并不容易。 she could kill the enemy herselfwith a tinny gun left by her father. She could dance in the hall when she was still a widow. So many rebellious things she had done. But it was her personalities which were considered to be rebellious at that time that attracted men’s eyes. She was always the spotlight.Being unique makes others discover your personalities, which make you attractive to them. The reason why there are differences among people is the unique features. And of course women themselves should cherish and enjoy their features. Some women may hold that the reason why it is hard to get along with others is that they do not receive enough education. Should women follow strictly the tradition to do everything? The answer is “no”. It is not a problem for the people to build interpersonal relationship with others. Young women are just in the time during which they are likely to show their own personality. So if you want to be loved by others you should love yourselves and your personalities. And at the same time you should also accept other’s character. Being unique is necessary for women.B. to Learn from Melanie and Use One’s Internal Beauty to Win Others’ Respect and TrustScarlet is beautiful but Melanie is not. Melanie is just a mon girl who does not have the charming appearance. But she is also as attractive as Scarlet.The description of Melanie’s appearance is as follows.Melanie was a tiny, frailly built girl, who gave the appearance of a child masquerading in her mother’s enormous hoop skirtsan illusion that was heightended by the sky, almost frightened look in her two large 英語畢業(yè)論文 vibrown eyes. She had a cloud of curly dark hair which was so stemly represented beneath its that no ragant tendrils escaped, and this dark mass, with its long widow’s speck, accentuated the heart shape her face, too wide across the checkbones, too pointed at the chin. It was a sweet, timid face but a plain face, and she had no feminine tricks of allure to make observers fet its plainness. She lookedand was –as simple as earth, as good as bread, as transparent as spring water. But for all her plainness of feature and smallness of stature, there was a sedate dignity about her movement that was oddly touching and far older than her seventeen years. (Margaret, 121)Melanie w