【正文】 each other disappear slowly. A family without love is like a building without foundation and framework, then the building of family gets ruined day by day until all the whole building falls into pieces and nothing remains.People say “l(fā)ove is stronger than death.” Melanie has the energy to take the danger of miscarriage and death, which is because she has a great love for her husband and child. Love is powerful, which can make a poor family happy. Even though some families are not so rich as others, they are still harmonious ones admired by the rich ones, for what the rich families lack is just what the poorer family has—love, which can not be brought by money, or be measured by money. Love is valuable. Love is the essence of the family and women should always be full of love which makes her attractive and mercy and favorable to others. Ⅳ. Suggestions on How to Achieve Success in Interpersonal Relationship for a WomanInterpersonal relationship is an initial part of life. Every one is part or unit of this integrated society. Nobody can live in the society without munication with others. So interpersonal relationship is what women should care about. In terms of interpersonal relationship, Scarlet and Melanie are of two different styles. Both set a good example to a woman who intends to achieve success in this field.A. to Learn from Scarlet and Use One’s Beauty Properly to Attract OthersScarlet in Gone with the Wind attracted almost every man she met. Just like in the first paragraph of Gone with the Wind:Scarlet O’Hara was not beautiful, but men seldom realized it when caught by her charm as the Tarleton twins are. In her face were two sharply blended the delicate features of her mother, a coast aristocrat of French descent, and the heavy ones of her florid Irish father. But it was an arresting face, painted of chin, square of jaw. Her eyes were pale green without a touch of hazel, starred with bristly black lashes and slightly titled at the ends. Above them, her thick black brows slanted upwards…She has the smallest waist in three counties. (Margaret, 3)Scarlet knew the arts and graces of being attractive to man. She knew how to smile so that her dimples leaped。 can make people feel at ease and fortable and make people easy to get along with. People enjoy making friends with these who smile frequently. So in some degree smile is powerful. How can women keep smiling frequently? To smile you should have an optimistic psychology. Nowadays most people are worried about the heavy burden and pressure from all aspects of life which prevent them smiling. But such situation can be changed. The good weapon to face these worries is smile. Smile can make people attractive which will short the distance between people.2. SinceritySincerity is also important if women intend to build harmonious and long interpersonal relationship with others. Sincerity is a kind of merit. In fact sincerity is also necessary for business. An insincere employee is perhaps able, by her cleverness, to convince her boss that she is the best in the world and indispensable to the institution. But as time goes by her boss and workmates will discover her disadvantage and evil spirit, then no one will like to employ her or work with her. Today’s whole society calls for sincerity and honesty. People like to make friends and keep touch with these who are sincere. What does friendship mean? People may consider sincerity as the quality to choose a friend. Honesty is the basis of all interpersonal relationship. These who are dishonest will not give people good impression. We love sincere people. We 英語畢業(yè)論文 viialso love to be known as sincere people. Sincerity is generally understood to be truth in word and act. Only sincerity can make win other’s trust. Trust is a key to a good, long relationship.3. KindnessKindness can also bring about a good interpersonal relationship. Kindness is a language that the deaf can hear and the blind can see. Kindness is a special thing of love and love is the best language among people. Kindness means that you are warmhearted. When people around you meet difficulties or when they feel sad you will offer to help them out of it. Warmhearted people give others the feeling that they are easy to get along with.Try to show a little kindness and just shine your light for others to see. Kindness can be shown everywhere: kindness is on your face。 learn Melanie’s internal beauty such as sincerity, kindness, and smile.Women can do what men do and they can even do better than men. Women can achieve success in career, family life and interpersonal relationship at the same time. So women should bravely pursue what they hope for, and with all their efforts women will eventually succeed. Bibliography[1] Angelis. 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