【正文】 me, dont ever save anything for a special occasion. every day you re alive is a special occasion.
　　i remembered those words through the funeral and the days that followed when i helped him and my niece attend to all the sad chores that follow an unexpected death. i thought about them on the plane returning to california from the midwestern town where my sisters family lives. i thought about all the things that she hadnt seen or heard or done. i thought about the things that she had done without realizing that they were special.
　　im still thinking about his words, and theyve changed the weeds in the garden. im spending more time with my family and friends and letime in mittee meetings. whenever possible, life should be a pattern of experience to savour, not endure. im trying to recognize these moment now and cherish them.
　　im not saving anything。39。s a different story at the took my first step into the campus with disappointment,beacause the buildings look too old and still remember the day when daddy drove me here and i was unwiling to get out of the car and say goodbye to the way to jiangmen,i hope if only the car slowed down or the road was longer.
　　thereamp。39。39。no pain,no gain.amp。 i wear my good blazer to the market if i feel lik