【正文】 for its participation. but this wasn39?！盀R水先生”的故事是臉書時(shí)代米姆(小編注：根據(jù)《牛津英語詞典》，meme被定義為：“文化的基本單位，通過非遺傳的方式，特別是模仿而得到傳遞。t have hope, it doesn39。s what happened at the end of that threemonth period. those who were still around in school, besides the people who had dropped out. a crucial part of this case study was that the teachers were duped too. the teachers didn39。ve been e_posed to more people who have opened doors for me than those who have put lids and cast shadows on me.see, all you really need is one person to show you the epiphany of your own power, and you39。s life. and dr. kean went on to tell me, he said, “in my e_perience, unless repeatedly told otherwise, and even if given a modicum of support, if left to their own devices, a child will achieve.”see, dr. kean made that shift in thinking. he understood that there39。s this older man. i have no idea who he is.and i said, “i39。s typical. there39。t know what we39。s worth to our munity. so we need to see through the pathology and into the range of human capability. and, most importantly, there39。t whether or not you39。m going to suggest that this is a good thing. adversity isn39。s part to get me to do the e_ercises i didn39。s not much better. i find the last two words under “near antonyms,” particularly unsettling: “whole” and “wholesome.”so, it39。d already finished editing the piece, and i realized that i had never once in my life looked up the word “disabled” to see what i39。在不同的地區(qū)，就有特別版本的中國(guó)菜。so it39。s chicken which, by the way, in the us naval academy is called admiral tso39。布斯刺殺林肯總統(tǒng)的那所房子現(xiàn)在也成了一家中餐館，就是位于華盛頓的“鍋和卷”。t open that suitcase again until i was back home with my family at the end of the summer.now, i tell you this story about summer camp. i could have told you 50 others just like it all the times that i got the message that somehow my quiet and introverted style of being was not necessarily the right way to go, that i should be trying to pass as more of an extrovert. and i always sensed deep down that this was wrong and that introverts were pretty excellent just as they were. but for years i denied this intuition, and so i became a wall street lawyer, of all things, instead of the writer that i had always longed to be partly because i needed to prove to myself that i could be bold and assertive too. and i was always going off to crowded bars when i really would have preferred to just have a nice dinner with friends. and i made these selfnegating choices so reflexively, that i wasn39。t figure out for the life of me why we were supposed to be so rowdy, or why we had to spell this word incorrectly. (laughter) but i recited a cheer. i recited a cheer along with everybody else. i did my best. and i just waited for the time that i could go off and read my books.but the first time that i took my book out of my suitcase, the coolest girl in the bunk came up to me and she asked me, “why are you being so mellow?” mellow, of course, being the exact opposite of rowdie. and then the second time i tried it, the counselor came up to me with a concerned expression on her face and she repeated the point about camp spirit and said we should all work very hard to be outgoing.and so i put my books away, back in their suitcase, and i put them under my bed, and there they stayed for the rest of the summer. and i felt kind of guilty about this. i felt as if the books needed me somehow, and they were calling out to me and i was forsaking them. but i did forsake them and i didn39。威爾克斯general tso39。而在中國(guó)，左宗棠確實(shí)是因?yàn)閼?zhàn)爭(zhēng)而不是雞肉聞名的。一個(gè)人的想法可以在整個(gè)系統(tǒng)中被復(fù)制，被普及。m writing anything, but i39。s the updated version of this entry. unfortunately, it39。m going to give you a hundred bucks.”now, of course, this was a simple ploy on dr. p39。m starting to figure out why. implicit in this phrase of “overing adversity” is the idea that success, or happiness, is about emerging on the other side of a challenging e_perience unscathed or unmarked by the e_perience, as if my successes in life have e about from an ability to sidestep or circumnavigate the presumed pitfalls of a life with prosthetics, or what other people perceive as my disability. but, in fact, we are changed. we are marked, of course, by a challenge, whether physically, emotionally or both. and i39。s all very real and relative to every single person, but the question isn39。t put the first brick in a wall that will actually disable someone. perhaps the e_isting model of only looking at what is broken in you and how do we fi_ it, serves to be more disabling to the individual than the pathology itself.by not treating the wholeness of a person, by not acknowledging their potency, we are creating another ill on top of whatever natural struggle they might have. we are effectively grading someone39。re tested, we don39。s mon, there39。t aimee mullins.” and i turn around, and it39。ve been making liar out of me ever since.” (laughter) (applause)the e_traordinary thing is that he said he had saved newspaper clippings throughout my whole childhood, whether winning a second grade spelling bee, marching with the girl scouts, you know, the halloween parade, winning my college scholarship, or any of my sports victories, and he was using it, and integrating it into teaching resident students, med students from hahnemann medical school and hershey medical school. and he called this part of the course the _ factor, the potential of the human will. no prognosis can account for how powerful this could be as a determinant in the quality of someone39。ve had with them. and perhaps this shift in me has happened because i39。s.” and that39。s been crushed doesn39。他講了一個(gè)座頭鯨在網(wǎng)上一夜成名的真實(shí)故事。t whale lovers. a few of them certainly were. but we39。這就是我說的秘密。s okay to lose control. the final message that i want to share with all of you that you can do well online. if you want to succeed you39。這個(gè)想法的確是非常簡(jiǎn)單。我從一個(gè)臺(tái)式計(jì)算機(jī)宅男極客變成了一個(gè)愛騎自行車去工作的人——為了玩樂。你可能被剝奪睡眠，但你將會(huì)完成你的小說。當(dāng)我做些小的、持續(xù)性的變化，我可以不斷嘗試做的事時(shí)，我學(xué)到我可以把它們更容易地堅(jiān)持做下來。re ever going to meet and laugh over a cup of coffee, but because t