【正文】 that you will at some point when you do i want you to know this, remember this: there is no such thing as is just life trying to move us in another when you39。s a resume that doesn39。to use television to illuminate the transcendent power of our better this angel network, it didn39。 you care about these issues and maybe there are other challenges that you, class of XX, are passionate you want to make a difference by serving in you want to launch your own television maybe you simply want to collect some parents would appreciate that about point is your generation is charged with this task of breaking through what the body politic has thus far made impervious to of you has been blessed with this enormous opportunity of attending this prestigious now have a chance to better your life, the lives of your neighbors and also the life of our you do that let me tell you what i know for 39。ve heard it from victims and perpetrators of even heard it from beyonce and all of her finishes performing, hands me the microphone and says ”was that okay?“ friends and family, yours, enemies, strangers in every argument in every encounter, every exchange i will tell you they all want to know one thing: was that okay? did you hear me? do you see me? did what i say mean anything to you? and even though this is a college where facebook was born my hope is that you would try to go out and have more facetoface conversations with people you may disagree you39。ll be just don39。t cause us to lose our ability to stand in somebody else39。re the generation that rejected predictions about your detachment and your disengagement by showing up to vote in record numbers in when the pundits said they said they talked about you, they said you39。m going to tell them what it39。s not just a collection of titles and positions but a story that39。re down in the hole, when that moment es, it39。m going to speak the truth of it!so i39。t heard before because after all you all went to harvard, i did then i realized that you don39。溫弗瑞(oprah winfrey)在哈佛的畢業(yè)典禮上為畢業(yè)生們獻(xiàn)上了一場精彩勵志演講。生活的重點(diǎn)在于建立內(nèi)在道德、情感的定位系統(tǒng)，它能為你指路，因?yàn)楝F(xiàn)在或?qū)懋?dāng)你在谷歌上搜索你自己，結(jié)果會是“哈佛2013畢業(yè)生”。在今天早上來的路上，nagy教授說：“溫福瑞女士，請堅(jiān)決地向前走?！蔽覓炝薴aust校長的電話后去洗了個(gè)澡。在奧普拉我希望今天我能為你們帶來一些啟發(fā)。談職業(yè)生涯所做訪談的共同性 beyonce in all her beyonceness...they all want to know: was that okay? did you hear me? did you see me? did what i said mean anything to you? 我發(fā)現(xiàn)，我所有的訪談有一個(gè)共同性，那就是人人都希望自己被認(rèn)可、被理解。人生確實(shí)只有一個(gè)目標(biāo)，那就是：最大程度地、最真實(shí)地展現(xiàn)自己。無論英雄人物還是家庭主婦，受害者抑或是案件中的被告人。法蘭欣說：“心可碎，但精神仍在。當(dāng)我明確一切的時(shí)候，我利用電視這種媒介手段讓天使網(wǎng)絡(luò)做的更好，而不是單純成為電視節(jié)目的一部分。無論你在哪里，請為他人送去自己的仁愛之心。但生活的挑戰(zhàn)在于創(chuàng)建一份不僅陳述所期望的職位的履歷，而且上面要明確成就怎樣的自我。當(dāng)深陷困境時(shí)，感到難過是正常的，給自己一點(diǎn)時(shí)間去思考即將失去的一切。在過去的一年中，我時(shí)刻提醒自己牢記這一點(diǎn)。你們可能成為律師、議員、首席執(zhí)行官、科學(xué)家、物理學(xué)家、諾貝爾獎及普利策獎得主，甚至深夜脫口秀節(jié)目主持人。我所做的僅僅是號召我的觀眾，“盡己所能，無論地域與地位，如果可能，請貢獻(xiàn)出你們的時(shí)間、智慧與財(cái)力。因此，不要指望能即刻明晰所有的事情，包括自身的志向所在。然而就在他們接受采訪的同時(shí)，國會的投票否決了提出加強(qiáng)背景調(diào)查的“槍支安全法”，他們表示絕不會氣餒。在我的職業(yè)生涯中曾經(jīng)做過超過35000次訪談，每當(dāng)攝影機(jī)關(guān)掉的時(shí)候，所有的受訪者必然會用自己的方式問出這樣一個(gè)問題：“我表現(xiàn)得還可以吧？”布什總統(tǒng)這樣說過、奧巴馬總統(tǒng)也曾這樣說過。你們現(xiàn)在或許對離開舒適的大學(xué)生活會有些焦慮，并對于讓社會檢驗(yàn)自己的哈佛文憑心存猶豫，但無論你們在日后遭遇任何的挑戰(zhàn)、挫折與失意，只要內(nèi)心目標(biāo)堅(jiān)定，就能獲得真正的成功與快樂。然后我想，我會將這一頁翻過去，我會好起來的。我可以告訴你們，當(dāng)我今天早上坐在這個(gè)臺上，為你們和我自己流下眼淚的時(shí)候，我覺得今天是我漫長并被祝福的人生旅途中的一個(gè)里程碑。溫福瑞電視網(wǎng)”，縮寫正好是“own（自己的）”。我心想：“你讓我給哈佛的畢業(yè)生演講?我能跟這些世界上最成功的畢業(yè)生說什么？而我已經(jīng)不再成功。作為哈佛的畢業(yè)生你也未必知道，除非你上過nagy教授的課程知道古希臘英雄人物。當(dāng)你到了人生谷底，到那時(shí)候，你可以難過一段時(shí)間，給自己時(shí)間去哀悼你認(rèn)為你可能失去的一切，但關(guān)鍵在于：從每個(gè)失敗和遭遇中學(xué)習(xí)特別是你的每個(gè)錯誤，都會教并迫使你成為真正的自己，然后想想接下來怎么做。編者按：當(dāng)?shù)貢r(shí)間5月31日，脫口秀女王奧普拉m going to address my remarks to anybody who has ever felt inferior or felt disadvantaged, felt screwed by life, this is a speech for the i was so honored i wanted to do something really special for wanted to be able to have you look under your seats and there would be free master and doctor degrees but i see you got that covered will be honest with felt a lot of pressure over the past few weeks to e up with something that i could share with you that you hadn39。m going to go to harvard and i39。re down there in the hole, it looks like this past year i had to spoon feed those words to when you39。t just tell a story about what you want to acplish but story that39。t just change the lives of those who were helped, but the lives of those who also did the reminded us that no matter who we are or what we look like or what we may believe it is both possible and more importantly it bees powerful to e together in mon purpose and mon saw something on the bill moore show recently that so reminded me of this was an interview with david and francine lost their 7 year old son, ben in the sandy hook even though gun safety legislation to strengthen background checks had just been voted down in congress at the time that they were doing this interview they talked about how they refused to be said this, she said “our hearts are broken but our spirits are 39。s when your story gets really angelou always says “when you learn, you get, my friends is what gives your story purpose and meaning.” so you all have the power in your own way to develop your own angel network and in doing so your class will be armed with more tools of influence and empowerment than any other generation in did it in an analog was blessed with a platform that at its height reached nearly 20,000,000 viewers a here in a world of twitter and facebook and youtube and tumbler, you can reach billions in just 39。ll have the courage to look them in the eye and hear their point of view and help make sure that the speed and distance and anonymity of our world doesn39。t know that yet. we might not always know might not always see it, or hear it on the news or even feel it in our daily lives but i have faith that no matter what class of XX you will be okay and you will make sure our country is have faith because of that 9 year old girl who went out and collected the have faith because of david and francine wheeler, i have faith because of michael and harris stolzenberg and i have faith because of you, the network of angeles sitting here of them kadija williams who came to harvard four years had attended 12 schools in 12 years living out of garbage bags amongst pimps and prostitutes and drug deal