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I am MBA trained, so I made a listed my jobs in the columns and my criteria in the of the jobs on that sheet was to bee Google‘s first Business Unit general manager, which sounds good now, but at the time no one thought consumer internet panies could ever make was not sure there was actually a job there at all。對(duì)自己和他人，你們需要坦誠(chéng)相待，要求并創(chuàng)造真正平等的機(jī)會(huì)?？吹浇裉斓哪銈儯屛页錆M了希望。我由衷地這樣認(rèn)為。我希望你們也能這樣看問(wèn)題，問(wèn)題沒(méi)有別人的問(wèn)題。非裔美國(guó)女性總需要證明自己沒(méi)有生氣，拉丁裔總被打上暴躁急性子的標(biāo)簽?！断蚯耙徊健烦霭婧笠荒?，這個(gè)家伙竟然認(rèn)為邀請(qǐng)我到一家全男性俱樂(lè)部做演講是一個(gè)好主意。幾個(gè)月之前，我去過(guò)這家俱樂(lè)部。我和同學(xué)們?cè)谧x大學(xué)時(shí)，認(rèn)為性格平等的斗爭(zhēng)已經(jīng)結(jié)束。有天，我在跑步機(jī)上，正在讀社會(huì)學(xué)雜志上的論文。我希望你們?cè)谙蛩嗽儐?wèn)真相的時(shí)候，能用簡(jiǎn)單明了的語(yǔ)言相互交流。她用了一個(gè)很長(zhǎng)很復(fù)雜的句子回答。養(yǎng)成尋求反饋的習(xí)慣非常重要，特別是在離開學(xué)校系統(tǒng)，沒(méi)了考試和分?jǐn)?shù)之后。普利切特，肯尼迪學(xué)院授課的一位經(jīng)濟(jì)學(xué)家，他今天也在現(xiàn)場(chǎng)。于是，我搬到哥倫畢業(yè)特區(qū)，在我24歲的時(shí)候結(jié)婚了?？纯瓷磉叺暮⒆樱憔椭浪麄冇卸嗾\(chéng)實(shí)，我朋友貝琪懷孕后，她五歲的兒子山姆想知道寶寶在她身體里的什么地方。扎克伯格還在讀小學(xué)，已經(jīng)開始穿他的標(biāo)志性帽衫了。斯特勞斯，詹姆斯因?yàn)楫?dāng)時(shí)我的父母告訴我，所有人都會(huì)人為來(lái)自弗羅里達(dá)的人很酷。我肯定沒(méi)有艾米ve experienced the power of munity, you know that while you are extraordinary on your own, we are all stronger and can be louder know that you will never forget Harvard, and Harvard will never forget you, especially during the next fundraising , you all bee part of a lifelong munity, which offers truly great opportunity, and therefore es with real can make the world fair for everyone, expect honesty from yourself and each other, demand and create truly equal opportunity, not eventually, but tomorrow by the way, you get something Mark Zuckerberg does not have, a Harvard , everyone!祝賀所有人，你們做到了。s hope you feel that way about the problems you see in the world., because they are not someone else39。t worry, I won39。桑德伯格 哈佛大學(xué)2014畢業(yè)典禮演講雪莉t allow Blacks or Jews or Asians or invited to give a business speech at this club, hit me even more egregious because you couldn39。re not risk being branded fiery hot group of AsianAmerican women and men in Facebook wore pins one day that said I may or may not be good , Harvard has a woman president, and in two years, the United States may have a woman in order to get there, Hillary Clinton is gonna have to overe 2 very real obstacles, unknown and often ununderstood gender bias, and even worse, a degree from can challenge stereotypes that39。ve had your first, whether it39。還要感謝2014屆畢業(yè)生邀請(qǐng)我來(lái)到這次盛典。我們都懷有相同的感觸：哈佛的籃球隊(duì)太棒了！站在校園中，回憶泉涌。我還碰到了第一個(gè)名字同整座建筑一樣的人，這個(gè)人的名字叫做薩拉18個(gè)月后，我就申請(qǐng)了商學(xué)院。你的職業(yè)和生活會(huì)有始終，會(huì)有曲折，不要對(duì)未來(lái)的道路太過(guò)憂慮，因?yàn)樯钪谐錆M了驚喜和機(jī)遇，你需要對(duì)各種可能性持開放態(tài)度。我的小姑子一直說(shuō)我丈夫，也是你們以后在生活中經(jīng)常會(huì)聽到有人說(shuō)到的：“這家伙竟然是哈佛出來(lái)的。我熬過(guò)了離婚后的這些痛苦時(shí)光，我多希望他們?cè)瓉?lái)有給過(guò)我建議，我多希望我曾經(jīng)問(wèn)過(guò)他們。我也敢打賭，大部分時(shí)候，你們并沒(méi)有告訴他們，他們也從沒(méi)問(wèn)過(guò)。為了練習(xí)，他開始嘗試在一些工作會(huì)議中，同中文母語(yǔ)同事交流?！彼牰?。我會(huì)說(shuō)，很棒，我對(duì)工作并不感到內(nèi)疚。我的書名叫做《格雷的五十道陰影》，可見(jiàn)，你們很多人也都讀過(guò)這本書。我們錯(cuò)了，我錯(cuò)了，世界在那時(shí)并不平等，現(xiàn)在也不平等。剩下的整個(gè)晚上，我一直都在納悶，自己來(lái)這里做什么，納悶其他人都在做什么，納悶舊金山會(huì)不會(huì)有朋友邀請(qǐng)我去一個(gè)不允許黑人，猶太人，亞洲人，或同性戀者的俱樂(lè)部派對(duì)。但種族主義仍然無(wú)處不在，不錯(cuò)，確實(shí)有女性掌握著財(cái)富500強(qiáng)企業(yè)，準(zhǔn)確說(shuō)是5%。二是，更糟的，從耶魯獲得的文憑。也就是說(shuō)，畢業(yè)后，我有18年時(shí)間都保持著沉默。扎克伯格。你們知道，雖然你們每個(gè)人都很出色，但團(tuán)結(jié)起來(lái)，你們將會(huì)更強(qiáng)，并能發(fā)出更大的聲音。Google had no business units, so what was there to generally manage? And the job was several levels lower than jobs I was being offered at other I sat down with Eric Schmidt, who had just bee the CEO, and I showed him the spreadsheet and I said, this job meets none of my put his hand on my spreadsheet and he looked at me and said, ―Don‘t be an idiot.‖EXCELLENT CAREER ADVICE: ?GET ON A ROCKET SHIP‘Excellent career then he said, ―Get on a rocket panies are growing quickly and having a lot of impact, careers take care of when panies aren‘t growing quickly or their missions don‘t matter as much, that‘s when stagnation and politics e you‘re offered a seat on a rocket ship, don‘t ask what get on.‖About six and onehalf years later, when I was leaving Google, I took that advice to was offered CEO jobs at a bunch of panies, but I went to Facebook as the time people said, why are you going to work for a 23yearold? THE METAPHOR FOR A CAREER IS NO LONGER A LADDER。明天，你們都將步入社會(huì)，這是一生的旅途，途中會(huì)碰到很好的機(jī)遇，也會(huì)有很重大的責(zé)任，你們能夠讓世界對(duì)于每個(gè)人更加公平。你最終會(huì)找到你想做的事情，并最終獲得成功。你們肯定能比我做的更好。我最近又喜歡上一條，在臉譜沒(méi)有別人的問(wèn)題。而我們的男性同行卻被尊為領(lǐng)袖，被認(rèn)為成就卓著。我首先想到的是真的嗎？真的。今年，就在幾個(gè)月前，硅谷一位很受人尊重的知名商業(yè)經(jīng)理人，邀請(qǐng)我到他的社交媒體俱樂(lè)部發(fā)表演講。我們并不總能看到真相，就算看到了，我們經(jīng)常也沒(méi)有大聲說(shuō)出的勇氣。我就像一只學(xué)舌的鸚鵡。我們?cè)谥v真相時(shí)，總喜歡使用很多修飾，很多委婉語(yǔ)，淹沒(méi)了真正要傳達(dá)的信息。一天，他問(wèn)一位女性，在臉譜工作怎么樣。朋友城市回答時(shí)，你就知道他們是你真正的朋友了。本科后，我的第一任老板是蘭特在我畢業(yè)的時(shí)候，我對(duì)愛(ài)情生活的關(guān)心大于事業(yè)，我認(rèn)為自己沒(méi)有什么時(shí)間了，必須趕緊找個(gè)好男人結(jié)婚，以免所有好男人都別人被搶走，或者我太老了。相互之間說(shuō)老實(shí)話，對(duì)自己誠(chéng)實(shí)，也對(duì)我們所生活的世界誠(chéng)實(shí)。那時(shí)候馬克之后，我還碰到了其他人，弗朗西斯我被分配到哈佛偉大建筑的一座歷史豐碑，卡納迪樓，我是說(shuō)真的，我當(dāng)時(shí)穿著牛仔裙，白色暖腿襪套，運(yùn)動(dòng)鞋，還有一件弗羅里達(dá)羊毛衫?？吹竭^(guò)往演講者的名單讓人有些敬畏。ve learned more about who you are and who you want to most importantly, you39。t afraid? My new favorite nothing at Facebook is someone else39。t alone, there is an entire mittee of well respected businessman who joined him in issuing this kind paraphrase Groucho Marx, and don39。第一篇：雪莉t claim that it was only social business that was done first thought was, “Really?” year after Lean In this dude thought it was a good idea to invite me to give a speech to his literal allboys he wasn39。s subtle and Facebook, we have posters around the wall to inspire us, Done is better than perfect, Fortune favors the would you do if you weren39。s a winter coat, a love or a C, you39。這對(duì)我價(jià)值巨大。19876年秋天，我從邁阿密來(lái)到這里，懷揣著偉大的夢(mèng)想，還有更夸張的發(fā)型。威格爾斯沃斯，她和那棟宿舍樓沒(méi)有關(guān)系，當(dāng)時(shí)我很震驚，知道她和宿舍樓沒(méi)有關(guān)系后，我松了一口氣。我對(duì)自己畢業(yè)后的數(shù)十年規(guī)劃其實(shí)并沒(méi)錯(cuò)，計(jì)劃只錯(cuò)在了一年后，就算我算到了自己會(huì)在私營(yíng)企業(yè)工作，我肯定算不到自己會(huì)在臉譜，那時(shí)候沒(méi)有互聯(lián)網(wǎng)。今天我要講的最重要的一點(diǎn)就是，對(duì)誠(chéng)實(shí)保持開放的態(tài)度?！痹谌松猛局?，如果聽到一些真話會(huì)對(duì)我很有幫助，我在你們這個(gè)年齡的時(shí)候，還沒(méi)有領(lǐng)會(huì)到這一點(diǎn)。而在我的職業(yè)生涯中，確實(shí)有人毫無(wú)保留地說(shuō)出了實(shí)話。去問(wèn)這些問(wèn)題，真相會(huì)越問(wèn)越明。你們估計(jì)可以想到，他那有限的中文水平，會(huì)讓談話很難正常進(jìn)行。通常，真相都成了避免沖突的犧牲品。有人說(shuō)，我需要一件羊毛衫嗎？我說(shuō)，沒(méi)錯(cuò)，外面很冷，我對(duì)工作并不感到內(nèi)疚。對(duì)于我們所生活的世界保持誠(chéng)實(shí)，我們還有很多要做。我認(rèn)為現(xiàn)如今，我們并不只是假裝沒(méi)看到真相，并對(duì)不平等視而不見(jiàn)，我們還在遭受低預(yù)期的踐踏。被邀請(qǐng)到這家俱樂(lè)部做商業(yè)演講，就更讓人不爽了，因?yàn)檫@根本就不是單純的社交活動(dòng)場(chǎng)所。但我們的道路上，充滿了母老虎，跋扈老女人這樣的惡語(yǔ)。你們可以挑戰(zhàn)老一套的做法，在臉譜我們會(huì)貼海報(bào)激勵(lì)自己，完成重于完美，財(cái)富偏愛(ài)勇敢者，不要害怕，勇往直前。這種沉默似乎是在說(shuō)，一切像這樣就行了。找到你想爬的立體方格鐵架，并開始攀爬。我知道，你們永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)忘記哈佛，哈佛也不會(huì)忘記你們，特別是在下次募捐的時(shí)候。IT‘S A JUNGLE GYM The traditional metaphor for careers is a ladder, but I no longer think that metaphor just doesn‘t make sense in a less hierarchical I was first at Facebook, a woman named Lori Goler, a 1997 graduate of HBS, was working in marketing at eBay and I knew her a bit called me and said, ―I want to talk with you about ing to work with you at I thought about calling you and telling you all the things I‘m good at and all the things