【正文】 takes no pleasure in her physical attributes. Her whole life is geared toward heaven and a mystical sense of nature. Paul and Miriam’s first bond is their mutual love of nature, both of them enjoys idyllic country walks. Miriam is anthropomorphic, she has been brought up by a truly god fearing mother\.Her hope to be a princess, though sounds romantic, implies a wish to be respected,if he could depend on her, if she could“anguished sweetness”. On the one hand, she is glad to be with Paul?！皐ere usually a bliss to them” both. Man always has the final say. Clara for instance is indeed passionately in love with Paul, but Paul is with her as far as passion goes. In the daytime, Paul forgot her a good deal. She was working in the same building, but he was not aware of it. He was busy and her existence was of not matter to him. But all the time Clara had a sense that he was upstairs a physical sense of his person in the same building. Every second she expected him to e through the door. It maddens her to hear Paul’s mechanical voice giving orders about the work. She wanted to break through the sham of it smash the trivial coating of business which covered him with hardness get at the man. We wonder is it woman who is too passionate or man who is too much mincing.In the love between Clara and Paul, Paul also feels very confusing. On one hand, He depend Clara’s beautiful boy, but on the other hand, he can’t give her the spiritual love, which has controlled by his mother. Because of his mother, he can’t build the normal love relationship with other women. So, Paul and Carla’s love is doomed to fail.B. Paul’s Antinomy and the Dependent Mentality to Clara’s Beautiful BodyAt the first time of Paul meeting Carla, Carla’s cynical and arrogant attitude of indifference to him left a deep impression on him. With the deepening of contacts, Paul found that she in fact had a very desire of the man’s love and appeasement. Because the marriage between Carla and her husband is a failure. Between them is still a physical love. When Paul asked her whether she and her husband married for love, she said,Paul and Miriam’s spiritual love also caused a tragedy end. Miriam pursuits the pure spiritual love. She loves the God and Paul. In her heart, she loves Paul like she loves God and all the things makes by the God. This is not real love between man and woman. Although Miriam makes a concession by dedicating her body, their love also had a failure end.Paul and Clara, at the very beginning of their love time, they appreciate with each other’s body. However, times past, Paul and Clara find that they can’t control their love and the spirits of each other. Because they are lake of spirit munication“Paul started dies like her, and he told his mother,Clara Dawes is the sensuous older woman who es to replace Miriam as the love interest in Paul’s life. It is with Clara that Paul learns the importance of sex as humanity deepest link with nature. Besides her physical attractiveness, she is figured as open and independent as a new woman. She leaves her husband for his brutality and unfaithfulness to marriage she earns her own living and dares to have an extramarital affair she is extraordinarily intelligent with a good critical mind Clara almost rebels all those values of her time and overthrows the traditional image of woman. Unlike Miriam Clara is bursting with a lusty passion. She is Paul’s match for fearlessness sensuality and intelligence. She relinquishes all herself to Paul when she falls in love. Comparing with Miriam’s unchangeable aloofness and sensitivity, Clara’s frankness is more real and weled. Some readers feel that Clara is the least successful of the major characters in Sons and Lovers. They believe she es across merely as a vehicle for Paul’s passion. We can not e to terms with the opinion. Clara is not only a woman with normal desires but a woman serous in love. For example, she refuses Paul’s sexual wants the first day he visits her home. She is upset when Paul tells her not to ask about the future after they have been very intimate. Lawrence appreciates love out of instinct. Clara is exactly of the kind. Firstly she bees Paul’s lover out of the mutual physical attraction between them?！癐t is mine, this body. Leave it to me”. 19 And she wanted to. It called to all her woman’s instinct. But she crouched, and dared not own him. She was afraid he would not let her. She was afraid it was too much. It laid there, his body abandoned. She knew she ought to take it up and claim it, and claim every right to it. But could she do it? Her impotence before him, before the strong demand of some unknown thing in him, was her extremity. She could not cope with it, with him, she knew not with what. But it strained her till she felt she would break. It was the end then between them. She could not take him and relieve him of the responsibility of himself. She could only sacrifice herself to him sacrifice herself every day gladly. And that he did not she wants. He wanted her to hold him and say with joy and authority.The two warring sides to Miriam.Then she would be stronger than him then she could love him. If she could be mistress of him in his weakness,\“She will never make him bee a man, never!”14 Although these words are Mrs. Morel wanted to destroy their relationship, Paul is indeed feels into the deep attachment to his mother and the requirement of together with Miriam both made him couldn’t be able to extricate him. But now, Paul’s Oedipus Complex is put to the second placeman the pursuit of mental and physical life of passion is the first. It is this strong passion in general prompted him to decide to leave Miriam, because he knew that keeping the relationship with this kind of angel couldn39。C. The Influence of This Deformed LoveSo he gets himself into trouble again, he seemingly realizes that he never lives by his own will and his own way, he never leads a real life for