【正文】 ything that you do, he puts it like this: He says, don39。it means acting with Tolle。事情會(huì)變的越來(lái)越好的。我希望給南非的女孩們一個(gè)像你們一樣的未來(lái)。我知道每一個(gè)細(xì)節(jié)。That was, as you can imagine, devastating , I cried—actually, I sobbed—for about half an then I said, let39。首先，我哭了，啜泣了大約半個(gè)小時(shí)。所以我聯(lián)系了一位兒科創(chuàng)傷專家。And the whole time I kept asking that question: What is this here to teach me? And, as difficult as that experience has been, I got a lot of understand now the mistakes I made, because I had been paying attention to all of the wrong 39。我意識(shí)到自己所犯的錯(cuò)誤，因?yàn)槲乙恢币詠?lái)都把注意力集中在錯(cuò)事上。我也明白女孩們也學(xué)到了一些事。Not a small topic this is, finding in some ways I think it39。但在某種程度上來(lái)說(shuō)它又是最簡(jiǎn)單的話題。s also saying, be a part of 39。生活是互動(dòng)的。I know you know that, because that39。ve bequeathed to all of you know the story of how this great school came to be, how the Stanfords lost their only child to typhoid at the age of had every right and they had every reason to turn their backs against the world at that time, but instead, they channeled their grief and their pain into an act of a year of their son39。因?yàn)槟銈兯械娜硕贾肋@座偉大的大學(xué)是如何建成的。The lesson here is clear, and that is, if you39。re in a mess, you get yourself out of the mess helping somebody out of in the process, you get to bee a member of what I call the greatest fellowship of all, the sorority of passion and the fraternity of ，那就是，如果你受了傷，你需要幫助他人減輕傷痛。The Stanfords had suffered the worst thing any mom and dad can ever endure, yet they understood that helping others is the way we help this wisdom is increasingly supported by scientific and sociological 39。這種智慧漸漸的被科學(xué)和社會(huì)學(xué)研究所證實(shí)。But when you do good, I hope you strive for more than just the good feeling that service provides, because I know this for sure, that doing good actually makes you , whatever field you choose, if you operate from the paradigm of service, I know your life will have more value and you will be ，我希望你不僅僅是為了獲得的快樂(lè)，因?yàn)槲疑钪龊檬驴梢宰屇阕兊酶?。我決定以電視作為我的職業(yè)，我要用電視這個(gè)平臺(tái)來(lái)為我的觀眾服務(wù)，而不是讓電視利用我。re an anatomist, you look at your gift as knowledge and service to you39。無(wú)論你是否被召喚，你們中的很多人在經(jīng)濟(jì)，法律，人權(quán)，科學(xué)，醫(yī)藥方面都獲得了諸如博士一類的學(xué)位，如果你們決定把你們的技能和智慧奉獻(xiàn)給服務(wù)他人們，選擇把服務(wù)他人作為榜樣，你們的工作就會(huì)變成一種天賦。s no better way to make your mark on the world and to share that abundance with constant prayer for myself is to be used in service for the greater 。他說(shuō)：“不是所有人都會(huì)出名。t matter, they e out and say, “Ohmigod, it39。這沒(méi)什么大不了的。t know if you want ，我不知道你們是否喜歡。t have to know about Plato or Aristotle to don39。但每個(gè)人都可以變的偉大，因?yàn)閭ゴ笫峭ㄟ^(guò)為他人服務(wù)而界定的。ll all be officially Stanford39。ve got the diploma, so go out and get the lessons, 39。走向社會(huì)吧，我堅(jiān)信偉大的事將會(huì)發(fā)生的。s A New Earth is my current book club New Earth webcast has been downloaded 30 million times with that Daniel Pink39。在你們的座位底下，你們會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)兩本我最喜歡的書(shū)。I really wanted to give you cars but I just couldn39。其實(shí)，這整個(gè)世界，我們所居住的宇宙，就像個(gè)大教室，等著我們一個(gè)學(xué)分、一個(gè)學(xué)分去學(xué)習(xí)，有時(shí)必須重修、補(bǔ)考，甚至被“當(dāng)?shù)簟?。到?0歲時(shí)，我很高興當(dāng)時(shí)的美夢(mèng)并沒(méi)成真。因此堅(jiān)持不換名字，接著電視主管又說(shuō)他們不喜歡我的長(zhǎng)相。雖然我知道記者的職責(zé)，只是記錄報(bào)道。我一上場(chǎng)，立刻感覺(jué)這才是我真正要做的。可是，我們?cè)趺粗朗菍?duì)是錯(cuò)?不要慌，你總是知道的。當(dāng)你不知道該如何做決定時(shí)，靜下來(lái)，完全地靜下來(lái)，直到你聽(tīng)見(jiàn)自己內(nèi)心的聲音。老實(shí)講，有錢(qián)真的不錯(cuò)，我喜歡錢(qián)，特別是在買東西的時(shí)候。沒(méi)有任何人一生風(fēng)平浪靜接著我要談?wù)勈?。我發(fā)現(xiàn)我給她們的，遠(yuǎn)不及她們給我的，那就是樂(lè)觀。同時(shí)，詩(shī)人也指出：不要只為自己而活。當(dāng)你痛苦，就去幫助痛苦的人。這將使你的生命更有價(jià)值，也會(huì)讓你感到快樂(lè)。I need to begin by letting everyone in on a little secret is that Kirby Bumpus, Stanford Class of 39。這個(gè)秘密就是Kirby Bumpus，斯坦 福2008 年的畢業(yè)生，是我的義女。s first meeting her to know that I know her and she knows , when she first came to Stanford for new student orientation with her mom, I hear that they arrived and everybody was so weling, and somebody came up to Kirby and they said, “Ohmigod, that39。當(dāng)她 和她媽媽第一次來(lái)到斯坦福參加開(kāi)學(xué)典禮時(shí)，我聽(tīng)說(shuō)每個(gè)人都十分熱情。s like, “39。因?yàn)楹芏嗳硕贾繥ayle King是我最好的朋友。她說(shuō)，她希望大家通過(guò)她自己的努力了 解她，而不是她認(rèn)識(shí)誰(shuí)。You see, Kirby39。ve been allowed on campus since Kirby39。第三篇：奧普拉在斯坦福大學(xué)2008年畢業(yè)典禮上的演講奧普拉在斯坦福大學(xué)2008年畢業(yè)典禮上的演講Feelings, Failure and Finding Happiness 感覺(jué)、失敗及尋找幸福Thank you, President Hennessy, and to thetrustees and the faculty, to all of the parents and grandparents, to you, the Stanford you for letting me share this amazing day with ，全體教員，家長(zhǎng)，還有斯坦福的畢業(yè)生門(mén)，非常感謝你們。這個(gè)過(guò)程，讓你成為團(tuán)體的一份子。往前行必須有所回饋，生命中最可貴的，就是你能夠回饋。有首詩(shī)寫(xiě)道：“不要為贏得戰(zhàn)役而活，不要為結(jié)局而活，要為當(dāng)下而活。否則，失敗總是會(huì)換一種樣式，繼續(xù)出現(xiàn)在你面前，你得補(bǔ)考，考不過(guò)就得再考。你不但得有錢(qián)，還得讓你的工作有意義，因?yàn)橐饬x能帶給你真正的富足。今天，個(gè)人成功的路徑不再靠邏輯、規(guī)則、線性思考，而是感情、喜悅、動(dòng)機(jī)。你的情感會(huì)帶領(lǐng)你，竅門(mén)是每次做決定先管住你的自我，細(xì)細(xì)問(wèn)你的心。“感覺(jué)”就像生命中的GpS我要講的第一件事：就是相信你的“感覺(jué)”。于是我開(kāi)始在報(bào)道火災(zāi)的同時(shí)，也給災(zāi)民送上毛毯。他們把我送進(jìn)美容院，把頭發(fā)燙起來(lái)，不消幾天，卷發(fā)全垮下來(lái)，怎么梳也不行，我只好全部剃光，重頭來(lái)過(guò)。先是電視臺(tái)要求我改個(gè)名字，改成一個(gè)比較容易記，帶點(diǎn)甜姐兒氣質(zhì)的名字。這跟我今天要談的三件事：感覺(jué)、失敗與快樂(lè)，息息相關(guān)。08!我真的想送大家轎車，只是開(kāi)不過(guò)來(lái)！祝賀大家！08年的畢業(yè)生們！第二篇：奧普拉在美國(guó)斯坦福大學(xué)畢業(yè)典禮上的演講過(guò)去幾周，只要有人問(wèn)我忙什么?我就說(shuō)：我準(zhǔn)備去斯坦福大學(xué)演講。我們的New Earth廣播已經(jīng)被下載3億次。m in the right ，我一直堅(jiān)信，如果你和他人分享，那么事情就會(huì)變得更好。ve always believed that everything is better when you share it, so before I go, I wanted to share a graduation gift with your seats you39。你們將會(huì)決定如何利用它。You have the heart and the smarts to go with it39。你所需要的是一顆優(yōu)雅的心靈和充滿愛(ài)的靈魂。s theory of relativity to don39。t have to have a college degree to don39?！盩hat39。有些人會(huì)尾隨你到衛(wèi)生間，聽(tīng)你尿尿。But fame is a follow you to the bathroom, listen to you 39。我永恒的祈禱就是讓自己能夠?yàn)樗颂峁└玫姆?wù)So, let me end with one of my favorite quotes from Martin Luther said, “Not everybody can be famous.” And I don39。You39。t spent all this time at Stanford just to go out and get a ，你都應(yīng)該把你的才智貢獻(xiàn)給能夠鼓舞他人的事業(yè)。So, I know this—that whether you39。I was always happy doing my talk show, but that happiness reached a depth of fulfillment, of joy, that I really can39。這事實(shí)上是在幫助者的高度，一種從幫助別人而獲得的精神大爆發(fā)。s actually a helper39。如果你的生活一團(tuán)糟，去幫助其他處在困難中的人擺脫困境。re in pain, help somebody else39。他們有權(quán)利和理由去恨這個(gè)世界，但是他們卻用優(yōu)雅的行動(dòng)疏導(dǎo)了心中的悲傷。s children what they were not able to do for their own ，因?yàn)檫@個(gè)經(jīng)驗(yàn)已經(jīng)深深的融入了斯坦福。s woven into the very fabric of this 39。對(duì)于我而言，這是人生中最重要的經(jīng)驗(yàn)。不要僅僅為了自己而生活。她說(shuō)，你應(yīng)當(dāng)為了現(xiàn)在而生活，無(wú)論過(guò)去發(fā)生了什么都不應(yīng)該影響到現(xiàn)在，因?yàn)樯罹褪沁^(guò)好現(xiàn)在。s called “Speech to the Young : Speech to the ProgressToward.” And she says at the end, “Live not for battles won./ Live not for theendofthesong./ Live in the along.” She39。And their resilience and spirit have given me more than I could ever give to them, which leads me to my final lesson—the one about finding happiness—which we could talk about all day, but I know you have other wacky things to ，以至于比我給她們的還多。最重要的是我對(duì)正直，品質(zhì)和美好的理解。s a lesson that applies to all of our lives