【正文】 “Well, I still don39。s my middle name—“I don39。clock , my dad was like, “Well, that news is over at 10: home by 11.” But that didn39。cause, you know, I39。m getting ready to go to Stanford.” I just love saying “Stanford.” Because the truth is, I know I would have never gotten my degree at all, 39。d rather be, because I39。s like, “39。s been see, Kirby39。第一篇：奧普拉在斯坦福大學(xué)演講文本Thank you, President Hennessy, and to the trustees and the faculty, to all of the parents and grandparents, to you, the Stanford you for letting me share this amazing day with need to begin by letting everyone in on a little secret is that Kirby Bumpus, Stanford Class of 39。s a very smart wants people to get to know her on her own terms, she in terms of who she , she never wants anyone who39。s my mom.” And so the person says, “Ohmigod, does it mean, like, you know Oprah Winfrey?” And Kirby says, “Sort of.” I said, “Sort of? You sort of know me?” Well, I have photographic have pictures which I can to you all of Kirby riding horsey with me on all , I more than sortof know Kirby I39。m so proud of Kirby, who graduates today with two degrees, one in human bio and the other in you, Kirby Cakes!That39。cause I didn39。m not going to march with my by that point, I was already on 39。t matter to me, because I was earning a was on my , I thought, I39。t know what you39。t know what you39。d say, “I don39。s still saying I39。ve learned to getting ahead is being open to the lessons, lessons from the grandest university of all, that is, the universe 39。re here, to evolve as human grow into more of ourselves, always moving to the next level of understanding, the next level of passion and think about one of the greatest pliments I39。re all trying to do, bee more of I believe that there39。t you glad? Don39。re like, “Listen, this is my is not about you.” So, it39。s where I met my best friend, Gayle, who was an intern at the same TV once we became friends, we39。re only when you39。t feel didn39。s a friendly name: Suzie.” Hi, can39。re looking for your little name on the lunch boxes and the license plate tags, you39。s then they said they didn39。t tell, is nothing like Barbara , they sent me to a salon where they gave me a perm, and after a few days all my hair fell out and I had to shave my then they really didn39。d go back and I39。t read my copy and it would be, like, six people on a pileup on , my sometimes I wouldn39。d one day I was reading copy and I called Canada “ca nada.” And I decided, this Barbara thing39。cause I39。s where I learned that after eight months, I lost that said I was too was too since they didn39。re doing the work you39。re doing something right? How do you know that? It feels I know now is that feelings are really your GPS system for you39。ve ever made was a result of me not listening to the greater voice of it doesn39。 is what I39。re entering a whole new he calls it the Conceptual Age, where traits that set people apart today are going to e from our hearts—right brain—as well as our 39。re involving the wholeness of ourselves in our work, both our expertise and our , I say to you, forget about the fast you really want to fly, just harness your power to your your has your heart and success will e to , how do I define success? Let me tell you, money39。cause money is very like 39。t feel right, don39。s way of saying time to change , ask every failure—this is what I do with every failure, every crisis, every difficult time—I say, what is this here to teach me? And as soon as you get the lesson, you get to move you really get the lesson, you pass and you don39。t pay attention to life39。s all about letting the awareness of who you are stimulate everything that you do, he puts it like this: He says, don39。it means acting with of you know that, as President Hennessy said, I started this school in I founded the school, where I39。s all you get, a half an need to focus on the now, what you need to do , I contacted a child trauma put together a team of made sure the girls had counseling and Gayle and I got on a plane and flew to South the whole time I kept asking that question: What is this here to teach me? And, as difficult as that experience has been, I got a lot of understand now the mistakes I made, because I had been paying attention to all of the wrong 39。s the simplest of Brooks wrote a poem for her 39。t live for yourself is what I know for sure: In order to be truly happy, you must live along with and you have to stand for something larger than life is a reciprocal move forward you have to give to me, that is the greatest lesson of be happy, you have to give something know you know that, because that39。ve bequeathed to all of you know the story of how this great school came to be, how the Stanfords lost their only child to typhoid at the age of had every right and they had every reason to turn their backs against the world at that time, but instead, they channeled their grief and their pain into an act of a year of their son39。re in pain, help somebody else39。s actually a helper39。re an anatomist, you look at your gift as knowledge and service to you39。s no better way to make your mark on the world and to share that abundance with constant prayer for myself is to be used in service for the greater , let me end with one of my favorite quotes from Martin Luther said, “Not everybody can be famous.” And I don39。s peed.” That39。t have to make your subject and verb agree to don39。t have to know the second theory of thermodynamics in physics to only need a heart full of grace and a soul generated by love.” In a few moments, you39。s up to you to decide, really, where will you now use those gifts? You39。ll find two of my favorite Tolle39。t pull that off!Congratulations, 39。我的秘訣是，毫不遲疑地打開(kāi)試卷，用真正的我去面對(duì)，從中學(xué)到自我改進(jìn)，追求更深層次的理解、被理解與成長(zhǎng)。因?yàn)橐婚_(kāi)始我的“感覺(jué)”就不對(duì)。的確，我跟傳統(tǒng)的主播美女長(zhǎng)得真不像。但直覺(jué)告訴我，我必須為這些人做點(diǎn)什么。我發(fā)現(xiàn)電視不只是娛樂(lè)，也能幫助人。感覺(jué)，就像你生命中的GpS導(dǎo)航器，會(huì)引導(dǎo)你做或不做。這不僅會(huì)改善你的生活，也會(huì)讓你的職場(chǎng)工作增加競(jìng)爭(zhēng)力。但有很多錢并不表示你成功了。沒(méi)有任何人一生風(fēng)平浪靜，每一次危機(jī)、每一個(gè)困境、每一度失意，我都會(huì)問(wèn)自己：“你學(xué)到什么?”只要你從摔跤中學(xué)到教訓(xùn)，就站起來(lái)，拍拍灰塵，繼續(xù)走下去。這也是我今天要說(shuō)的最后一課，如何尋找幸福?這聽(tīng)起來(lái)是一個(gè)廣泛的大題目，但是有一個(gè)再簡(jiǎn)單不過(guò)的方