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【正文】 r saying he39。s proud of them. But then, they hear from all the family and friends that the father told everybody else that he was proud of him, but he never told the son. It39。s because he didn39。t know that his son needed to hear it.我非常幸運(yùn)的在一家康復(fù)中心工作，所以我可以看到那些因為上癮而面臨生與死的人。有時候這一切可以非常簡單地歸結(jié)為，他們最核心的創(chuàng)傷來自于他們父親到死都未說過“他為他們而自豪”。但他們從所有其它家人或朋友那里得知，他的父親告訴其他人為他感到自豪， 但這個父親從沒告訴過他兒子。 因為他不知道他的兒子需要聽到這一切。So my question is, why don39。t we ask for the things that we need? I know a gentleman, married for 25 years, who39。s longing to hear his wife say, Thank you for being the breadwinner, so I can stay home with the kids, but won39。t ask. I know a woman who39。s good at this. She, once a week, meets with her husband and says, I39。d really like you to thank me for all these things I did in the house and with the kids. And he goes, Oh, this is great, this is great. And praise really does have to be genuine, but she takes responsibility for that. And a frien
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