【正文】 drive in my wheel chair my BMW7 series to find parents, right ? And there is one girl who yells that “hey, Nick,” I’m thinking great, here it is.She es to me and she says “Nick, I just want you to know that you’re looking good today.” And I’m like wow~~The power of encouragement, you can save a person’s life.I’ll tell you I was walking this way “You’re not good enough ,no one like you and you can do nothing good in your life. You can’t do this you can’t do that. No is gonna to marry you and all this things” and I get to the edge and all I need is that one more person to tell me that I’m not good enough and I’ll be down there.Do you know you could be that one person for somebody else to push over…You don’t know how many people have eating disorder in the school. You don’t know how many people want to hurt themselves in the school. They hide it. You don’t know how many people hate their lives.And you one of the reason why. Can you imaging that?Seriously, why? Just because you want to have fun. Grow up, grow up!I dare you at this school not to tease others at the rest of time.I dare you, do you think it is possible. You would say “I wouldn’t do that but everybody else will .”Be the change you wanna see. And you be that person then you turn around. This school every person should have friends. You see somebody has no friends, why don’t you go up to that person and be their friends. Because you’re scared what people think of you.Let us do it. Wake up! Embrace, man, let’s live!I love my life, nothing stop me! Am I happy all the time ? No! I’m not happy all the time. I’m not happy, I cry sometimes. Not because I no arms and legs, just is easy. I’m gonna about thing in life.. other things make me stressed and anxious about it. The persons that I love, they hurt, but I cannot do anything about that. That will kill me ! We all gone through something. We all try to find that something that happiness. You can find it. Because I found it. Take an instance, you need to learn something. Do you know for you to learn something you’re actually learn by somebody else. Anything anybody else learn you can actually learn.Make sense? Right? How do you know that it is black? Because someone has taught you it is black. Why? Because someone learn that it is black. And when you learn you know it is black by someone teaching you.Nothing is beyond your reach. Understand what I’m saying? But we’re not all good at math ,not all good at …we are not good at maybe telling colors. Big deal. Find what you love to do.I love loving people, I love encouraging people. That is great thing, it is the great business in the world. Saving people’s lives, love it.But not all gonna be speakers. Not all gonna be doing same thing, that will be crazy.What do you want do in your life ? Is there something more to your life? I have something more to my life and I believe it is God. If you wanna know him it is fine.I love you guys so much. Love you very much.Choices at yours.I make a choice to keep my virginity until I marry. Good prefer than words(Facts speak louder than words.) That my wife is worth waiting for. To make wrong choices ,yes, we do. And bad consequences e from bad choices? Yes. And I can talk about half an hour telling the consequence of sex and alcohol. No, I’m not here to lecture you.I’m not here to say not to do drugs, not to do all that stuffs.But don’t believe you know everything either.“What I don’t know would not kill me”, right? Does it make sense? That is stupid. Hehh. How dumb is that? Is that gonna blame you but I don’t know it. Is it gonna kill me still? Yeah.. idiot! Of course.Look at me and my life. I make choices and this is how I am. This is what I am. And I love it.You know it is cool. Sorry, just get a seat organize, it is better. Put my feet up.I’m gonna talk about my wife. I’m not married and I don’t know who my wife is yet. Right? It is OK. I know she is ing. Fine! She is ing.Girls, just because you don’t have boyfriends it doesn’t mean that you’re not beautiful you’re not loved， you don’t need a boyfriend, you don’t need love, you don’t need to use your body to that security to make you feel that someone need you. My wife is ing.And I may not have hands to hold my wife’s hands. But I don’t need hands to hold her heart, that is what I wanna hold.To tell you, a real man would wait. A real man wouldn’t put your life in danger.If you are not 100% sure that you’ll go together for the rest of your life. That is why I don’t have sex because I don’t know who I am gonna to marry yet. Why sleep around with everybody else? It is so silly. Why? Just for temporary pleasure. No, man.It is beautiful to know that I gonna share it with my girl my girl. And I’m her guy. I love that. We’re gonna have children together, I know that. How can I hug my children when they cry.I should get depressed that what kind of father am I gonna be? cheat yourself.There was a girl, she is so cute man, one of my friends’ daughters. She was, you know, 2 and a half, she had on pink hat, she had on pink petticoat, she is about my height as well. And she came to hug everybody goodbye at the family function and she came to me. I was sit on the floor and she was looking at me. And I am like, cool? What can a 2 and a half years girl honestly be thinking about? It is so weird and she looked at me for about 25 seconds and then she realized something. It was little like bing~ you know. And she realized I had no arms to hug when she came up to hug me, she put her hands behind her back. And she hug me with her neck.I know! Isn’t that more beautiful? So beautiful!Why am I here to tell you this I love you. That everything is gonna be OK.Not to say that I’m gonna to be with you everyday to tell you that.Not to say that I understand that you’re going through.But today I have e here so that you remember my smile O(∩_∩)O~And you remember what I say:You have a choice to eith