【正文】 的道程?！?Later that day, when I was cooking the evening meal, my daughter stood beside me very still.　　那天下午，我在準(zhǔn)備晚餐，女兒靜靜地站在旁邊。　　 When I turned, I nearly knocked her down. Move out of the way, I said with a frown. She walked away and her little heart was broken. I didn39。d spoken. 　　“別擋路。她走開了，帶著受傷的心靈?！　?While I lay awake, that evening, in bed, God39。ll find some flowers there by the door. Those are the flowers she brought for you. She picked them herself: pink, yellow and blue. She stood quietly not to spoil the surprise, and you never saw the tears in her eyes. 　　 那天晚上，我躺在床上，上帝溫柔的聲音出現(xiàn)在我的耳旁,“對待一個(gè)陌生人，你是那樣的有禮貌，但是對于你深愛的孩子，你卻有些粗魯。那是她送給你的。她靜靜地站在那，為的是給你一個(gè)驚喜，你沒有看見她眼中的淚滴。re pretty like you. I knew you39。m sorry for the way I acted today. I shouldn39。s okay. I love you anyway. I said, Daughter, I love you too, and I do like the flowers, especially the blue. 　　此時(shí)，我感到自己十分渺小，眼淚開始從眼眶中溢出。我摘了這些花兒，因?yàn)樗麄兿衲阋粯悠?。”我說，“女兒，原諒我今天的行為吧，我不該對你大聲喊。我愛你！”我說，“女兒，我同樣愛你！我真的很喜歡這些花兒，特別是藍(lán)色的。但是 我們的家人會(huì)永遠(yuǎn)感到失去我們的痛苦。面對挫折能夠虛懷若谷，大智若愚，保持一種恬淡平和的心境，是徹悟人生的大度。正如馬克思所言：一種美好的心情，比十副良藥更能解除生理上的疲憊和痛楚。s lifetime it is oneself that one spends the most time being with or dealing with. But it is precisely oneself that one has the least understanding of. When you are going upwards in life you tend to overestimate yourself. When you are going downhill you tend to underestimate yourself. It39。當(dāng)你一帆風(fēng)順時(shí)，往往高估自己；不得志時(shí)，又往往低估自己。 To get a thorough understanding of oneself is to gain a correct view of oneself and be a sober realist—aware of both one39。我們可以憧憬人生，但不要期望過高。你可以勇敢地迎接挑戰(zhàn)，但是必須清楚自己努力的方向。ll have a real sense of selfappreciation, which will give you confidence. As soon as you gain full confidence in yourself you39。無論你是一棵參天大樹，還是一棵無名小草，無論想要成為一座高山，還是一塊石頭，你都是一種天然，都有自己存在的理由。一旦擁有了信心你就能戰(zhàn)勝任何災(zāi)難。s needed. In time of anger, do yourself a favor by giving vent to it in a quiet place so that you won39。 in time of sadness, do yourself a favor by sharing it with your friends so as to change a gloomy mood into a cheerful one。t be confident and ready enough to resist the attack of illness. 要徹悟自己，就要善待自己。唯有知道如何善待自己，你才會(huì)信心百倍，從容不迫地準(zhǔn)備應(yīng)對疾病的侵襲。s life. Then one will find one39。t stay up late studying. Raymond knew he had a lot riding on this. If you were Raymond, what would you do?雷蒙德對他的高中籃球隊(duì)的首發(fā)中鋒。他今年的得分在每場比賽平均20 點(diǎn)。他的一切，持續(xù)他的方式。他只有在學(xué)校做出更通過冬季和春季學(xué)期做到這一點(diǎn)。他籃球?qū)嵺`中，學(xué)校的活動(dòng)，和一個(gè)新的女朋友。也有人總決賽一周。雷蒙德想過聘請家教，但他的女朋友答應(yīng)幫他。雷蒙德靠墻。他推遲了這一類研究，直到兩天前的最后測試。他需要休息季后賽。雷蒙德知道他有很多騎在這。s Youth 》Man39。 that being mighty, we can yet have nothing。 nothing lasts: the moment that we put our hand upon it , it melts away like smoke, is gone forever, and the snake is eating at our heart again。青春年少的時(shí)候根本不知青春為何物，直到青春一去不復(fù)返了才對青春有了真正的認(rèn)識(shí)。 為什么如此？因?yàn)樵谇啻簳r(shí)代，生活充滿了奇特而辛酸的不可思議的事。其實(shí)質(zhì)是什么呢？其實(shí)質(zhì)是這樣的：青春年少的時(shí)候，雖然殷實(shí)富足，卻非常貧窮；雖然力氣強(qiáng)大，卻一無所有；世間的富貴榮華觸目皆是，簡直可以呼吸到，聞到嗅到，還可以品嘗到，心中的自信按捺不住，深切地感受到整個(gè)被陶醉了的生活人類迄今為止所知道的最幸運(yùn)、最富有的美好幸福的生活，只要我們決定向前邁步，奮發(fā)努力，便立即歸我們所有了，并將永遠(yuǎn)屬于我們。一切匆匆過去，蕩然無存。于是，心中泛起陣陣隱痛，看到了自己真實(shí)的面孔，看到了自己未來生活的必然走向。最后，他被自己的力量所毀滅，被自己的饑餓所吞食，被自己的財(cái)富弄得貧窮潦倒。 青春消逝，驀然回首，無論是誰，心中都會(huì)充滿無盡的憂傷，充滿無窮的懊悔。一個(gè)認(rèn)識(shí)到自己失落青春的人回憶起來總是充滿悲傷和懊悔。從高出湖面約500英尺的觀景點(diǎn)看下去，湖面微波蕩漾，美不勝收。離錯(cuò)層的頁巖不遠(yuǎn)，便是一條通往山谷的蜿蜒小路。我小心翼翼地走在松動(dòng)的頁巖上。我急忙尋找可以抓住的東西。就在這時(shí)，腳下被午后陽光照射的發(fā)熱的頁巖表層開始松動(dòng)，從山上滑了下去，消失在峭壁上。稍微考慮了一下抄近路這愚蠢行為的后果后，我想辦法從一個(gè)支撐點(diǎn)挪到另一個(gè)支撐點(diǎn)，最終借助一棵矮松的根將自己拉到小路上。在日常生活中，支撐點(diǎn)也是非常重要的。我發(fā)現(xiàn)的最有價(jià)值的精神支撐是什么呢？　　首先，是拿撒勒卑微的木匠的教誨——他堅(jiān)決主張個(gè)人價(jià)值至上，強(qiáng)調(diào)同情與理解的重要性，并為堅(jiān)定的信仰提供了無可厚非的證明。再次，除了物質(zhì)環(huán)境因素外，世界和人類的本質(zhì)更多的是取決于我們個(gè)人的視野、理解和行為。這些便是我所發(fā)現(xiàn)的精神支撐點(diǎn)，它們具有永恒的價(jià)值。這就是我信仰的一切。s low tides fall below it, and perhaps from that very fact it acquires some of its special beauty. Choosing such a tide , I hoped for a glimpse of the pool.The ebb was to fall early in the morning. I knew that if the wind held from the northwest and no interfering swell ran in f rom a distant storm the level of the sea should drop below the entrance to the pool. There had been sudden ominous showers in the night, with rain like handfuls of gravel flung on the roof. When I looked out into the early morning the sky was full of a gray dawn light but the sun had not yet risen. Water and air were pallid. Across the bay the moon was a luminous disc in the western sky, suspended above the dim line of distant shore — the full August moon, drawing the tide to the low, low levels of the threshold of the alien sea world. As I watched, a gull flew by, above the spruces. Its breast was rosy with the light of the unrisen sun. The day was, after all, to be fair.Later, as I stood above the tide near the entrance to the pool, the promise of that rosy light was sustained. From the base of the steep wall of rock on which I stood, a moss covered ledge jutted seaward into deep water. In the surge at the rim of the ledge the dark fronds of oarweeds swayed smooth and gleaming as leather. The projecting ledge was the path to the small hidden cave and its pool. Occasionally a swell, stronger than the rest, rolled smoothly over the rim and broke in foam against the cliff. But the intervals between such swells were lo ng enough to admit me to the ledge and long enough for a glimpse of that fairy pool, so seldom and so briefly exposed.And so I knelt on the wet carpet of sea moss and looked back into the dark cavern that held the pool in a shallow basin. The floor of the cave was only a fewinches below the roof, and a mirror had been created in which all that grew on the ceiling was reflected in the still water below.Under water that was clear as glass the pool was carpeted with green sponge. Gray patches of sea squirts glistened on the ceiling and colonies of raft coral were a pale apricot color. In the moment when I looked into the cave a little e lfin starfish hung down, suspended by the merest thread, perhaps by only a single tube foot. It reached down to touch its own reflection, so perfectly delineated that there might have been, not one starfish, but two. The beauty of the refle cted images and of the limpid pool itself was the poignant beauty of things that are ephemeral, existing only until the sea should return to fill the little cave.在海邊海岸是一個(gè)古老的世界。但人們卻感覺它是一個(gè)總在進(jìn)行創(chuàng)造、生命力頑強(qiáng)而又充沛的