【正文】 can achieve this is the secret to popularity? in fact, it is very first step is to improve our should always make sure that we stay in good shape and dress we are healthy and wellgroomed, we will not only look better but also feel addition, we should smile and appear all, our facial expression is an important part of our we can do this, people will be attracted to our good looks and impressed by our 大部分的人都想受人歡迎，但是并非每個人都能達(dá)到目標(biāo)。步驟一，先改善我們的外表。當(dāng)我們既健康又穿戴整齊時，不僅看起來更有精神，自己也會覺得好多了。畢竟，臉部表情是外觀很重要的一環(huán)。另一個重要步驟，就是培養(yǎng)對別人的體貼。當(dāng)個好聽眾也是很重要的。然而，不管我們做什么事，絕對不要說閑言閑語。只有對人真誠又尊重時，才能贏得他人的尊敬。learn how to say no weve all been taught that we should help is the right thing to do and will make us popular with may even win us favors in , we must be cant say yes to every we did, we would fail or go crazy for we simply dont have the time to this case, we must know how to say no 我們都被教導(dǎo)說，我們應(yīng)該要幫助別人。它甚至?xí)槲覀冓A得一些回報(bào)。我們不能答應(yīng)每一個要求。有時候我們確實(shí)沒有時間去幫忙。當(dāng)我們需要說不的時候，有個辦法我們可以試試。假如我們真的辦不到某件事，我們就應(yīng)該說不。我們必須清楚地表達(dá)，但態(tài)度也必須真誠并且表示同情。最后，我們不必為了說不而覺得有罪惡感。它可以替我們自己和別人，都省下許多麻煩。拒絕請求是人生的一部分。也就是說，你必須能夠銷售你最好的特點(diǎn)，并把你最好的一面呈現(xiàn)出來。要在面試時表現(xiàn)出好的一面，你可以做幾件事情。穿著保守而體面，會使你看起來像是就要成功了。仔細(xì)地考慮每個問題，并據(jù)實(shí)回答。你必須看起來專注而自在。對你的能力有信心，并對你的未來感到樂觀是很重要的。遞上一份專業(yè)的簡歷，并準(zhǔn)備好詳細(xì)解釋每件事。然后你就可以選擇對你而言最好的機(jī)會。responsibility is a badge of honour for youth(96年“21世紀(jì)杯全國大學(xué)生英語演講比賽”二等獎獲得者，北京外國語大學(xué)徐義成)im grateful that ive been given this opportunity, at such a historic moment, to stand here as a spokesman of my generation and to take a serious look back at the past 15 years, a crucial period for every one of us and for this nation as it is only within my power to tell about my personal experience, and only a tiny fragment of it at that, it still represents, i believe, the root of a spirit which has been essential to me and to all the people bred by the past 15 my elementary years, there was a little girl in the class who worked very hard but somehow could never do satisfactorily in her teacher asked me to help her, and it was obvious that she expected a lot from as a young boy, restless, thoughtless, i always tried to evade her so as to get more time to enjoy day before the final exam, she came up to me and said, could you please explain this to me? i want very much to do better this started explaining, and finished in a not to notice her still confused eyes, i ran off surprisingly, she again did very badly in the two months later, at the beginning of the new semester, word came of her death of blood one ever knew about the little task i failed to fulfill, but i couldnt forgive simply couldnt forget her eyes, which seem to be asking, why didnt you do a little more to help me, when it was so easy for you? why didnt you understand a little better the trust placed in you, so that i would not have to leave this world in such pain and regret? i was about eight or nine years old at that time, but in a way it was the very starting point of my life, for i began to understand the word responsibility and to learn to always do my duties faithfully and devotedly, for the implications of that sacred word has dawned on me: the mutual need and trust of people, the cooperation and interreliance which are the very foundation of human in my life, i continued to experience many never again did i feel that regret which struck me at the death of the girl, for it makes my heart satisfied to think that i have always done everything in my power to fulfill my responsibilities as best i like individuality and creativity are getting more emphasis and more people are rewarded for their hard work and is the era in which this generation ,grows and is the era in which this generation will take over the nation from our fathers and learn to run in the meantime, many problems still learn that crimes take place in broad daylight with crowds of people looking on and not hear that there are still about 1 million children in this country who cant even afford to go to elementary schools while enormous sums of money are being squandered away on dinner parties and luxury buy shoddy medicines, or merely worthless junk in the name of medicines, that aggravate, rather than alleviate our diseases since money, many people believe, is the most important thing in the world that must be made, even at the expense of morality and an era, furthermore, demands, that we are a generation with a clear perception of our historical responsibility and an aggressive will to take action and solve the has long been preparing these qualities in this generation and it is now calling us forward to give testimony to our patriotism and heroism towards this nation and all here now, i think of the past 15 years of my life as an ordinary ill be an ordinary man for the rest of my this doesnt discourage me any, for i know that with my sense of responsibility and devoted efforts to always strive, for the best, its going to be a meaningful and worthwhile life that i will be cant ever forget that little girl in my class who couldnt had the same opportunities as any of us here to enjoy a wonderful life today and a hopeful world is the sacred responsibility of this generation to face up to the challenges of the new century and to devote our sweat and blood, our wisdom and passion, to the historic cause of making this nation a greater and happier land for every one of are not going to evade that are going to let people people, far and near, will hear of will be brought to their backbones and tears to their eyes when our stories are told and retold, so let us go forth, my fellow members of this luckily chosen generation, and meet the new century in victory and ——青年人榮譽(yù)的標(biāo)志站在臺上面對大家，我心情十分激動。我們今天面對的遠(yuǎn)不只一場競賽或角逐。我們是青年一代的代表。在這一歷史時刻，能有機(jī)會代表同齡人在此認(rèn)真地回顧于國于己都至關(guān)重要的過去的15年，我感激萬分。我上小學(xué)時，班上有位小姑娘，學(xué)習(xí)非常刻苦而成績卻不盡人意?？吹贸?，她也寄厚望于我。我老是me避她。期末考試前一天，她來求我說“請你給我講解一下行嗎?這次我很想考得好一點(diǎn)。不出所料，這次她又考砸了。我沒有完成那項(xiàng)小小的任務(wù)，無人知曉。她的眼睛令我難以忘懷，仿佛在責(zé)問我，“你為什么不愿多幫助我呢?這對于你來說，并不費(fèi)事。但從某種意義上講，這件事成了我生活的新起點(diǎn)。我也逐漸領(lǐng)會了這個神圣字眼的深刻內(nèi)含:人與人之間的彼此需要和信任、合作和依賴正是人類社會存在的基礎(chǔ)。想到自己做每一件事都能盡職盡責(zé)，一種滿足之感便油然而生。當(dāng)我長大成人，我開始領(lǐng)悟周圍發(fā)生的一切變化。新建筑、新商品、新款式