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, here is one method we can try. First, we should tell the truth. If we really canamp。t do something, we should just say so. Second, we should remember to refuse requests politely. We must municate clearly, but must also be sincere and sympathetic. A true friend will understand. Finally, we must not feel guilty about saying no. Sometimes refusing others is the right thing to do. It can save ourselves, and them, a lot of trouble. In short, we cannot please everyone all the time. Refusing favors is a part of life. 學習如何說不 我們都被教導說,我們應(yīng)該要幫助別人。它甚至會為我們贏得一些回報。我們不能答應(yīng)每一個要求。有時候我們確實沒有時間去幫忙。 當我們需要說不的時候,有個辦法我們可以試試。假如我們真的辦不到某件事,我們就應(yīng)該說不。我們必須清楚地表達,但態(tài)度也必須真誠并且表示同情。最后,我們不必為了說不而覺得有罪惡感。它可以替我們自己和別人,都省下許多麻煩。拒絕請求是人生的一部分。在我看來,下面的部分是更重要的不是選擇。 Life is a box of chocolate,you never know what you will get. Forrest Gump made no decision by and for himself but he acplished great success with his strong will in the process. The process is not the road itself but the attitudes and feelings ,the caution, courage and persistance we have as we encounter new experience and unexpected obstacles. Take myself as an example, I ch