【正文】 arly period cannot be pared with that of mother. But while father does not represent the natural world, he represents the other pole of human existence。 on the other hand, to be loved because of one39。 5\父愛和母愛 Motherly and Fatherly Love Motherly love by its very nature is unconditional. Mother loves the newborn infant because it is her child, not because the child has fulfilled any specific condition, or lived up to any specific expectation. Unconditional love corresponds in one of 39。萬物不變，是我們在變。視貧窮如園中之花而像圣人一樣耕植它吧！不要找新的花樣，無論是新的朋友或新的衣服，來麻煩你自己。也許因為他們很偉大，所以受之無愧。我只看到，一個從容的人，在哪里也像在皇宮中一樣，生活得心滿意足而富有愉快的思想。甚至在一個濟貧院里，你也還有愉快、高興、光榮的時候。愛找缺點的人就是到天堂里也能找到缺點。它不像你那樣壞。but it often happens that they are not above supporting themselves by dishonest should be more poverty like a garden herb,like not trouble yourself much to get new things,whether clothes or friends,Turn the old,return to do not change。the snow melts before its door as early in the do not see but a quiet mind may live as contentedly there,and have as cheering thoughts,as in a town39。do not shun it and call it hard is not so bad as you looks poorest when you are faultfinder will find faults in your life,poor as it may perhaps have some pleasant,thrilling,glorious hourss,even in a setting sun is reflected from the windows of the almshouse as brightly as from the rich man39。就像跳蚤一樣，沒能跳得更高，還以為已經(jīng)到了自己能力的極限。 很多時候，人們也是一樣。它們已經(jīng)習慣了只跳那么高。 當你把頂蓋拿開時，跳蚤還會接著跳，但卻不會跳出盒子。 你觀察他們跳起來撞擊頂蓋，會慢慢發(fā)現(xiàn)一個有趣的現(xiàn)象。s all they can do! Many times, people do the same thing. They restrict themselves and never reach their potential. Just like the fleas, they fail to jump higher, thinking they are doing all they can do. 跳蚤訓練人在訓練跳蚤時發(fā)現(xiàn)跳蚤有一個奇怪的習慣。t jump out because they can39。t have enoughh money,our children will get into trouble,we will get old and die,whatever. 許多人的生活好象是某個未來 日子的彩排．并非如此．事實上，沒人能保證他或她肯定還活著．現(xiàn)在是我們所擁有的唯一時間，現(xiàn)在也是我們能控制的唯一的時間．當我們將注意力放在此時此刻時，我們就將恐懼置于腦后．恐懼就是我們擔憂某些事情會在未來發(fā)生－－我們不諱有足夠的錢，我們的孩子會惹上麻煩，我們會變老，會死去，諸如此類． To bat fear, the best stradegy is to learn to bring your attention back to the present. Mark Twain said,I have been through some terrible things in life, some of which actually happened. I don39。, our children are busy growing up, the people we love are moving away and dying, our bodies are getting out of shape, and our dreams are slipping away. In short, we miss out on life. 毫無疑問，我們很多人掌握了一種神經(jīng)兮兮的藝術(shù)，即把生活中的大部分時間花在為種種事情擔心憂慮上－－而 且常常是同時憂慮許多事情．我們聽憑過去的麻煩和未來的擔心控制我們此時此刻的生活，以至我們整日焦慮不安，委靡不振，甚至沮喪絕望．而另一方面我們又推遲我們的滿足感，推遲我們應優(yōu)先考慮的事情，推遲我們的幸福感，常常說服自己＂有朝一日＂會比今天更好．不幸的是，如此告戒我們朝前看的大腦動力只能重復來重復去，以至＂有朝一日＂喲貧農(nóng)公元不會真的來臨．約翰．列儂曾經(jīng)說過：＂生活就是當我們忙于制定別的計劃時發(fā)生的事．＂當我們忙于指定種種＂別的計劃＂時，我們的孩子在忙于長大，我們摯愛的人里去了甚至快去世了，我們的體型變樣了，而 我們的夢想也在消然溜走了．一句話，我們錯過了生活． Many people lives as if life is a dress rehearsal for some later date. It isn39。 never actually arrives. Jhon Lennone once said, Life is what is happening while we are busy making other plans. When we are busy making 39。Learn to live in the present moment 學會生活在現(xiàn)實中 To a large degree,the measure of our peace of mind is determined by how much we are able to live on the present moment. Irrespective of what happened yesterday or last year, and what may or may not happen tomorrow, the present moment is where you arealways! 我們內(nèi) 心是否平和在很大程度上是由我們是否能生活在現(xiàn)實之中所決定的．不管昨天或去年發(fā)生了什么，不管明天可能發(fā)生或不發(fā)生什么，現(xiàn)實才是你時時刻刻所在之處． Without question, many of us have mastered the neurotic art of spending much of our lives worrying about variety of thingsall at once. We allow past problems and future concerns dominate your present moments, so much so that we end up anxious,frustrated,depressed,and hopeless. On the flip side, we also postpone our gratification, our stated priorities, and our happiness, often convincing that someday will be much better than today. Unfortunately, the same mental dynamics that tell us to look toward the future will only repeat themselves so that 39。someday39。other plans39。t. In fact, no one have a guarantee that he or she will be here tomorrow. Now is the only time we have, and the only time that we have any control over. When we put our