【正文】 tion is crucial, especially with the person you report you get along with your boss or not(in a perfect world you at least respect and trust him or her)，you need to have a clear understanding of what’s expected of you and how you can exceed those sure how to “hit a homerun” for your boss? Ask, and then execute。你不知道的事情會(huì)發(fā)生、會(huì)被解雇、會(huì)得到晉升、會(huì)跳槽，放開懷抱接受這些改變吧，不要因?yàn)樗鼈儾环夏愕摹拔迥暧?jì)劃”就拒之門外。但這種想法是不現(xiàn)實(shí)的。大多數(shù)人認(rèn)為職業(yè)生涯在自己的掌控中。 Flexible Most people think they are in control of their pick a field/industry/job, and then you plow ahead, doing your best to go as far as ’s not that interest you will lure you into different you had no idea will e into ’ll get laid ’ll get ’ll switch open to these changes, and don’t shut any doors because they don’t mesh with your “five year plan。為了讓自己和他人活得更輕松，要提高效率、更聰明地工作，并把事情做好。 Smarter Before you try to find another job, make sure you’re killing it at your current life easier for yourself and for others by finding efficiencies, working smarter, and getting things said than done, I know, but when you’re out there interviewing, you want to have concrete examples of how you created value in the past。這并沒有你想得那么難。 Your Spending Making more is the best way to boost your finances, but you also have to control how much you isn’t as hard as you less than you make, and get rid of your debt as quickly as you possibly can。瀏覽比較薪酬的網(wǎng)站獲得你的工資范圍。今天幫助你的“人脈團(tuán)隊(duì)”，明天他們會(huì)竭盡所能幫助你。任何事都可以。把最后期限延遲一些。然后盡力幫助他們。 a Coworker Keep an eye out for someone that has too much on their plate or is obviously try to help them on some of their a deadline back for them out to coffee to give them a let them know you’re there to your team today, and they will be there to help you down the line。這些人可能是你的老板，也可能是前任老板....。我們都認(rèn)為靠自己就能做好工作，但那只是年少輕狂的妄想。 a Mentor Mentors are essential in developing your all think we can do it on our own, but that’s just youthful bravado someone you respect and trust that has experience and try to learn as much as you can from might be your boss or it might be a former boss...you never know。成為團(tuán)隊(duì)的一員。你不必弄虛作假，只要記得你的宗旨是把事情做好，整個(gè)團(tuán)隊(duì)是成功的就可以了。t have to be a fake, just remember that the goal is to get things done and for the entire group to be a team can’t do it all by yourself — and you will have a heck of a time getting anything done if your colleagues don’t like your attitude。這也是一個(gè)了解潛在老板/雇主的好方法。 LinkedIn is a great way to keep in touch with people in your industry and keep track of what they’re doing and worrying someone you admire tweets about a problem, you have a cool opportunity to help them ’s also a great way to study up on a potential new boss/employer。讓看新聞成為你的日常生活的一部分。 News Make the news a part of your ’s important that you stay “in the know” about what’s happening in the job market, what industries are getting coverage, and what’s “hot”(and more importantly...what39。你的工作是確保服務(wù)被需要。但最近有幾本書，我讀過后對(duì)這一領(lǐng)域有了獨(dú)特的視角。ve read that bring a unique perspective to the goal is to treat your career as if you are a freelancer offering your ’s your job to make sure your services are in rarer and more valuable those services are, the better off you’ll be。你身體的年齡比你想象的要快。 mind ages at a slower rate than you expect when you39。re friend” is a reason to treat your kids better than their peers do, not 。 your children with kindness and respect.“I39。選擇他們愛你你也愛他們的真正的朋友相處。 is the key to social yourself with true friends who love you just as you you don39。s 。 vary more widely than you yourself it39。 you39。s also a major cause of emotional 。它似乎很瘋狂，但很有用。 friendly as a matter of the other cheek in the face of ad hominem might seem crazy, but it 。2.“Do what you love and you39。確實(shí)，愛情和友情沒有可比性。t meet your friend for a few will not have dreams in your eyes th