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于不同場(chǎng)合,讓對(duì)話開始并進(jìn)行下去。 Start by filling your idea vault with possible ice breakers to start a conversation and followup questions to sustain the conversation. Listen attentively to the other person’s responses because this can make or break your followup questions. To help you out with ideas for starting a conversation, here are ten of the most effective ice breakers you can use in different scenarios to get a conversation off and running. 一開始你應(yīng)該想好各種可能的開場(chǎng)白以便開始這場(chǎng)對(duì)話,并且準(zhǔn)備后續(xù)的問題讓對(duì)話持續(xù)下去。那個(gè)人也許是個(gè)壞脾氣的討厭鬼,但唯一確定這個(gè)人個(gè)性的辦法就是克服害羞,去接近他。 after all, you don’t know what this other person is like. The person could be a grumpy, mean guy, but the only way to know for sure what the person is like is to get over being shy and approach them. That person might turn out to be the nicest, kindest person you ever meet. 你要明白,和一個(gè)陌生人接近時(shí)感到有點(diǎn)緊張是很正常的。它會(huì)讓場(chǎng)面很快失控,至少也浪費(fèi)了時(shí)間,搞不好還會(huì)讓每個(gè)人都尷尬。它會(huì)讓你和某人的初次見面變得非常美好,讓你們之間發(fā)展出長久的友誼和有價(jià)值的合作關(guān)系??傊裁淳透鶕?jù)當(dāng)時(shí)的情況和你個(gè)人的企圖來定了。你可以說 “Do you want to exchange numbers” 或是直截了當(dāng)要對(duì)方的電話 “Could I have your phone number”。 3. Do you want to exchange numbers? 你想不想交換電話呢? 如果是學(xué)生的社交場(chǎng)合,要不要名片就不是那么重要了。如果兩個(gè)人還是不錯(cuò)的朋友,就會(huì)彼此擁抱一下。 如果兩個(gè)人相識(shí)已久,見面再說”Nice to meet you” 反而顯得有點(diǎn)見外。但人多的時(shí)候, 你不可能一個(gè)一個(gè)說 “Nice to meet you”,這時(shí)簡(jiǎn)單說”Hi” 就可以了,但這么說不適用于比較正式的場(chǎng)合。 Brief greetings:? Hi! (for informal situation)? Hello! (for informal situation)? Hullo! (for informal situation)? Good morning/afternoon/evening. (for more formal situation)? Extended greetings at the first meeting:? Nice to meet you. ( Nice to meet you, too.)? How do you do! (Nice to meet you.) (for more formal situation)? 附:幾個(gè)實(shí)用的句子 1. Nice to meet you. 很高興認(rèn)識(shí)你。 4 Wang Dong 的用語十分禮貌,恭敬。 2 Wang Dong 在自我介紹的時(shí)候不僅說了自己的姓名,還說了自己的職務(wù)和此行的身份。 Wang Dong: Good morning. Are you James Taylor?? James Taylor: Yes, and ...? Wang Dong: Wele to Beijing, President Tay