【正文】 （Ralph Waldo Emerson)：Most of the important things in the world have been acplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at ，不斷嘗試的人卻完成了。這是缺乏自信最大的好處了，因?yàn)樗嬖V了我們一個(gè)事實(shí)：缺乏自信會(huì)帶來成功，不僅僅是對(duì)個(gè)人而言，對(duì)于公司和社會(huì)也同樣適用。 is the most important benefit of low selfconfidence because it points to the fact that low selfconfidence can bring success, not just to individuals but also to organizations and 。如果真的想得到你說你想得到的東西，那么，你的不自信反而會(huì)讓你更加努力地工作去得到它——因?yàn)椴蛔孕艜?huì)讓你意識(shí)到你渴望的目標(biāo)和你現(xiàn)在的狀態(tài)之間的差距。如果你對(duì)自己的目標(biāo)很認(rèn)真，在你對(duì)自己能力缺乏自信的情況下，你往往會(huì)更有動(dòng)力去努力工作。沒錯(cuò)，成功是治愈安全感匱乏的一劑良藥。雖然在所有的競爭領(lǐng)域，例如，教育、商業(yè)、運(yùn)動(dòng)或者表演行業(yè)，相較他人，高度的自信會(huì)幫助他們?nèi)〉贸晒?，但是成功?0%的表現(xiàn)加上90%的準(zhǔn)備。下面就是支持這一論點(diǎn)的三個(gè)主要的原因： selfconfidence makes you pay attention to negative feedback and be selfcritical:Most people get trapped in their optimistic biases, so they tend to listen to positive feedback and ignore negative this may help them e across as confidence to others, in any area of petence(., education, business, sports or performing arts)achievement is 10% performance and 90% , the more aware you are of your soft spots and weaknesses, the better prepared you will , success is the best medicine for your ，進(jìn)行自我批評(píng)。但是，適當(dāng)?shù)娜狈ψ孕艜?huì)幫助你重新確定自己的目標(biāo)，使其更加現(xiàn)實(shí)，更容易完成。事實(shí)上，缺乏自信似乎更容易讓你取得成功。 in business psychology than the idea that high selfconfidence is key to career is time to debunk this fact, low selfconfidence is more likely to make you , extremely low confidence is not helpful: it inhibits performance by inducing fear, worry, and stress, which may drive people to give up sooner or justlowenough confidence can help you recalibrate your goals so they are more realistic and ，高度的自信是事業(yè)成功的關(guān)鍵，這是老生常談的問題了。今天是份禮物：那就是我們稱之為“現(xiàn)在”的原因。Life is not a race, but a journey to besavoredeach step of the , 而是一步一個(gè)腳印的旅程。Don’t use time or words can be 。Don’t be afraid to is weightless, a treasure you can always carry 。Don’t run through life so fast that you forget not only where you’ve been, but also where you are ，那匆忙讓你忘了曾經(jīng)到過哪里，也讓你忘了你要去哪里。and the best way to keep love is to give it 。Don’t shut love out of your life by saying it’s impossible to quickest way to receive love is to give it。Don’t be afraid to encounter is by taking chances that we learn how to be 。Don’t be afraid to admit that you are less than is thisfragilethread that binds us to each 。Don’t give up when you still have something to is really over until the moment you stop 。Don’t let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your 。你必須將他們視為你的生命一般好好地抓牢他們。只有你才知道什么最適合你。因?yàn)槲覀兌际仟?dú)一無二的，因?yàn)槲覀兠恳粋€(gè)人都很特別。你必須了解這個(gè)道理，并且為平衡你的生命而努力。一旦你失手落下，它們可能會(huì)少了一角，留下無法挽回的記號(hào)、刻痕、損壞甚至碎落一地。如果你不幸失手落下它，它還是會(huì)彈回來。這五個(gè)球分別為工作、家庭、健康、朋友和心靈，而且你很努力地?cái)S著這五個(gè)球，不讓它們落地。That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your 。That the easiest way to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than i 。t do it all in one makes me think i can? 上帝并非一天完成所有的事，我又怎么么可能呢？ That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt ，只會(huì)繼續(xù)受到此人對(duì)你的傷害。s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and 。s those small daily happenings that make life so ，讓我們的生活如此多姿。t buy 。That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to ，一個(gè)人想要的只是一只可握的手和一顆感知的心。t have the strength to help him in some other ，將永遠(yuǎn)為他祈禱。That you should never say no to a gift from a 。That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feeling in the ，你會(huì)體會(huì)到世間最安寧的感覺。That when you39。這肯定有其價(jià)值所在。我跳上單車,穿梭在家鄉(xiāng)的大小街道上,一切在夕陽的余暉中被拉長了影子,路上車少人稀。這引發(fā)了一個(gè)問題:如果我五點(diǎn)就下班去看夕陽,會(huì)有什么后果?我是否就無法爬到職場最高位?也許是,因?yàn)檎f實(shí)話,工作八小時(shí)就下班,想搬進(jìn)角落的高層辦公室或升職加薪是不太可能的。但問題是:我想凝視夕陽。你可以稱他是成功人士:他是一名發(fā)表過作品的作家,一位有造詣的音樂家,能說流利的德語,能熟練運(yùn)用美國手語。he had to be doing something as he looked at it—writing, reading, playing could say he was a success: He was a published author, an acplished musician, fluent in German and the American Sign ’s an impressive list, but here’s the thing: I want to gaze at don’t want to meet a deadline during them or be writing a column at the same time, or glance at them over the top of a raises the question: If I leave work at five o’ clock to watch the sunset, what are the consequences? Do I risk not reaching the top of my profession? Maybe, because honestly, knocking off after eight hours probably won’t earn me the corner office or the lucrative hey, leaving work at five o’ clock means I eat dinner with my get to hop on my bike and pedal through the streets of my hometown as the shadows lengthen and the traffic I get to take in a lot of ’s got to be worth ,他就是沒法凝視夕陽。我甚至做夢都會(huì)夢到功課作業(yè)。只在工作時(shí)間內(nèi)工作的想法于我并非易事,畢竟,有其父必有其女。我決定:我決不要爬著樓梯回家。It’s been 10 years since I saw my father e home that night and since then, I’ve thought a lot about ’ve decided something: I will never crawl up the much as I love my job as a newspaper reporter, I will never work myself into the ground, literally or idea of leaving work at work didn’t e easily to all, I am my father’s college, I wasn’t going to keg parties in a frat basement。然而,他為履行承諾仍堅(jiān)持到外地主持一個(gè)研討會(huì)。那天,他已經(jīng)病得很厲害,疲憊不堪。但后來,他也無意中教了我一些東西,比如那次當(dāng)他最后一次下班回家爬上樓梯的時(shí)候。那看起來就跟懷表、鞋油這類東西一樣,簡直是過時(shí)而怪異。在這個(gè)奉行新教徒那套“工作至上”理念的國度,我的這一信念可算是激進(jìn)。subtle longing is deep。subtle greetings are enough。彼此之間不需要天天在一起，偶爾一句：你好嗎？思念就像發(fā)芽一樣蔓延開來……I like the subtle longing for a friend, when I sink deeply in a couch, mind wandering in memories of the past...我喜歡淡淡地思念一個(gè)人,靜靜地將自己包圍在沙發(fā)之中，任思緒在回憶里飄蕩……Love should also be subtle, without enslaving the ones fallen into her a bit less nor a bit more...愛也要淡淡的。in winter, it carries a crisp chilliness...我喜歡淡淡的風(fēng)。in autumn, it caresses my face。海子詩歌欣賞《面朝大海春暖花開》從明天起，做一個(gè)幸福的人From tomorrow on, I will be a happy person。但是從那一刻起，我明白了，愛情就像是 生活中被子里的一根線?！睆乃难凵窭铮铱吹贸鏊麑?duì)母親的愛之深刻。跟你說吧，我喜歡與你媽媽一塊散步的感覺。但是兩個(gè)月之后，他仍然無法獨(dú)立行走。這一切形成了一幅世間最美好的畫面。在小路旁邊，有許多美麗的野花、綠草和樹木。父親從未 如此溫和過。就像他們都得了一場重病一樣。母親在醫(yī)院里待了一個(gè)月。I listened carefully but I couldn’t understand her until the next that time, my father suddenly got sick mother had to stay with him in the hospital for a they returned from the hospital, they both looked very