【正文】 never made up at :OK, what happened on the daughter and made her have so much attitude change towards the TOPUP exam? we’d better ask the daughter look the : Now Let’s wele julie!D:Hello, everyone!(have a seat, please.)Thank you!H:you haven’t called your mother for a long time, right?(yeah)do you know your mom worried about you a lot? D:I’m...I’m :I’m so don’t go to school, you wear heavy makeup......H:(to m)I want to explain that lily looks nature and without makeup in order to see you.(to d)Did you mean to consider about your mom by doing that?D:Yes, I dare not wear high heel shoes, dare not have heavy is what I look like when I stay with my :But why didn’t you tell your mother you have moved to your rented house? D:I’ve told my mom before that I want to be more independent and try to live outside, but she will call me whenever she want and e to my school to see if I was stay at , If I want my mother agree me to live outside school, that’s have to go out :as a student, you don’t stay at school instead of live outside, do you think it’s reasonable?(angry)D:you have never thought about my feelings, every time I bought by clothes, you will say that don’t suit me and ask me don’t wear that all my peers have the rights to decide what they want to wear and buy it themselves, I have to buy my clothes with my mother’s cannot stand it any longer!Living outside, I can decide these by :we have heard that you did some part time job after school? D:yes, I want learn more, I don’t like my major, my mom choose it for :I’m for your good, you have the ability to give you what you want to, you just need to tell study hard, I don’t want you to do the job has any relationship with your :so, Miss daughter just wants to be more independent, this is a good I right? May be her mother think that she is just a 20yearsold student, but I think lily is a 20yearsold girl, she should have a colorful and wonderful life experience instead of live as the her mother want her to live, that will give lily much pressure, maybe she want relax herself by living outside and make decision by I right? Lily? M:but she never told me she don’t want to do so.(委屈）E:that is because you give her so much :but I don’t think I have given her any pressure, she was doing what she wanted to do!She needn’t to pretend to be so for 20 years!E:I think your daughter tried to express herself, but her idea was opposed again and last, she is not willing to try any example, she bought a simple cloth, but when she came back home, you don’t agree with her taste and want her to wear what you ’s the biggest feature of an adolescent? ask them to do this, they insist to do that!They develop their judge and consider ability by such , your daughter doesn’t have any pretend actions, she is just an adolescent, at this period, any actions of overprotecting and strict discipline from parents will be an obstacle on the development of the they just needfreedom to do what they like to :I just want such a chance to experience life by myself and decide I will do in the be I will be fail, but without this trying, I will be regret for a life :I have to admit julie want to be more independent is a good do you know what is your goal at present? And what you will do to pursue your dream? D:I haven’t decided :if you have set a goal and want to pursue it, it’s the problem is that you don’t know what’s your really , you should set a goal :after listening to the expert’s advice, I believe you and your mother must have learned a lot , have you change your mind? Now, share your idea with your :I wonder if I could have a chance to struggle by myself and decide what major I would like to choose and I will tell you my choice at the end of this know you are for my good, but you should care about my :Miss Li, can you accept that? M:yes, I I insist that you live at school, which will be more : will move back to :both parties have made some concession and reach the think the generation gap in our daily li