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hoose instrumental music as a way of multidimensional development, but not on sports. Rome is not built in one day. It is not easy for students to overe psychological fetter and pitch forward under parent’s care when they are used to accept the idea which sport is not necessary to them. 廣東海洋大學(xué)寸金學(xué)院 20xx 屆畢業(yè)論文 9 To some extent, the deeprooted traditional education restricts the individual development in eastern civilization. In fact, children can gain courage, confidence, cautious attitude from sports which is not only well performing in their sports, but in their career in the future. Most best agent in America’s Wall Street stock exchange are athletes, it is no doubt that they can satisfy the demands of the joy by holding strong physique to deal with high strength mental tension and the unique psychological quality with quick wit and confidence. Different methods on education of knowledge Chinese parents impart too much information on the cultivation of personality and knowledge to their children. Indoctrination as a kind of education method has a big limitation, it is not only on the effectiveness of knowledge transfer, but on the children’s selfconfidence. Chinese parents always hold this attitude: “you are still young, do as I say.” To parents, it is the mistaken evaluation on children’s knowledge and ability. Parents often underestimate their children’s self ability to observe and study and often surprise children’s unexpectedly smart move. They cannot break stereotypes to discover children’s intelligence with objective idea while they are proud of their children. Parents seem to use some knowledge in their field to change children’s views and let children accept their thoughts which is correct. They ignore that children are openminded, high insight when they are not bound by some static theories and views, sometimes they will show more excellent insights than adults. However, parents don’t care children’s ideas and don’t accept some superior thoughts, striking children’s confidence and enthusiasm to take the initiative to explore some mysteries of the world. In general, Chinese parents don’t like their children ask many questions for they don’t know the answer as well. They prefer to buy a book, do as the book than find out the answer with children. Facing children’s “hundred thousand whys”, they would the simple way to reject: “why do you have so many questions.” A word can stop children asking and save the endless trouble. Many parents eager their children can be successful in the future. They don’t accept their ignorance by frustrating children’s creative ability in daily life. They choose to spend much money to develop children’s intelligence in all kinds of cram schools. American parents think that respect is an important way an special nutrients in adolescent education. American pays attention to tone of voice and methods to children. Adults are not only listen carefully to children, but squats down to talk with children which make children feel that you respect them and make them avoid “inferior” feeling. American parents could not force children to eat。 could not scold children when they do something wrong and could not order children to change clothes in mand tone. When parents take children to visit a guest, host take out some food to the children, parents would not restrict 廣東海洋大學(xué)寸金學(xué)院 20xx 屆畢業(yè)論文 10 children’s wishes and don’t scold children when they want to eat. They think that is not children’s false to want what they want, because it is their need. There is no reason to blame anyone, just to explain, instruct and guide depending on condition. Americans oppose parents educate children in front of people or scold children as “disappointing” and “l(fā)oser”, because it will hurt children’s selfesteem. American parents respect their children because they are small, need love and need cultivation, they have their independent will and personality since they birth. Although parents and teachers they have no right to control or restrict children’s behavior. To children, they have to notice that they master their life when parents and teachers cannot make a decision for them during children’s growing course. Educator Locke said: “parents do not promote children’s fault, children will think highly of their reputation, and also will be more careful to maintain high praise from others. If parents announce their fault, make them shame, children would think that their reputation has been hit, then the consciousness they maintain their reputation will be weak.” Some people believe that American parents think highly of the position of respect to children. In fact, those children who are respected by parents will be more cooperative, polite and also have strong independent consciousness when they talk with adults. Child psychologists think that these are the good response by proper respect. 廣東海洋大學(xué)寸金學(xué)院 20xx 屆畢業(yè)論文 11 Conclusion On the concept of parenting, most Chinese parents hope their children can be successful. And they think that accumulation of knowledge of children is the whole things to children. But American parents pay more attention to improve the survival ability of children and make them adapt. Due to this condition, exercise plays an important role to be fostered children’s independent consciousness, enjoying labor, hard working and thrift quality. There are different between the science curriculum and teaching methods of both countries. And the curriculum is abundant and plex to science teachers who have to develop the curriculum. In students’ views, the curriculum is the most important factor to effect scientific inquiry and scientific learning of students. And the influence between teachers and teachers as well as teachers and students is also an important kind of curriculum resources which is traditional and not inc